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Johnny English - Re: Hostility and intolerance
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Posted: 2022-12-14 05:44:56
Edited: 2022-12-14 05:46:10

On 2022-12-13 16:15:10 Potatoejetguy said:
On 2022-12-12 07:30:38 Johnny English said: On 2022-12-11 19:56:11 Potatoejetguy said: Getting tired of this now ..

What took you so long, Potatoejetguy ? Lol !

I thought when you mentioned the impeccable English, that you were getting into it, lol.

I decided if I can't beat them, let me join them.

Hear hear hear hear,
I started reading some William Shakespeare books to brush up on my English :-)




Good man !

"The pen is mightier than the sword" - novelist and playwright Edward Bulwer-Lytton.

However ......

"The pussy is mightier than the pen" - Johnny E

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Posted: 2022-12-14 05:56:30

On 2022-12-13 22:30:20 Arizona said:
On 2022-12-10 05:37:54 Johnny English said: Intolerance and hostility/animosity between punter(s) and advertiser(s) seems to becoming a common theme on the forum and escalating. Not cool !

My response is to the original topic, not to the OP or anyone's comments!

I am investing in the wrong people.
Held captive in conversations I don't want to be a part of.
I smile and nod, while my mind tries to silence the noise spilling from them.
Like an oil leak no person could contain.
What they seem to have misunderstood, is that I am a Flame ready and willing to burn.
by Darling March

I have the power of choice to choose whether I wish to comment or to not comment and remain Silent. I have the power to not validate or entertain anything that is not worth my time or energy. We all have the power to avoid hostility and intolerance. It's up to you how you choose to use it!

Arizona

Ari my hero - both feet solidly on the ground

Time for glass of wine
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Posted: 2022-12-14 06:08:34

Like your quote Arz!
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Posted: 2022-12-14 06:11:39

I cant understand why it's so hard to just respect each other and get on with it.

No punter should think himself higher than a WG simply because of her occupation and vice versa.

The ladies should be treasured as you would your wife or gf.

Unfortunately there are always those ass holes who mess it up for the rest of us. Yet the lady must still smile for her next booking as if nothing happened.

These times are hard on everyone. Consider each other and let the fun continue.

Tiger.
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Posted: 2022-12-14 06:42:51

TigerSweets

You are the prime example of what I want from my punters.... respect, commonsense and decency!!!!

Thank you for your post, thank you for being a human, for being an individual that thinks behond his wallet and penis....

Thank you.


Kylie
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Posted: 2022-12-14 07:22:44

On 2022-12-14 06:42:51 Kylie @ Elements said:
TigerSweets

You are the prime example of what I want from my punters.... respect, commonsense and decency!!!!

Thank you for your post, thank you for being a human, for being an individual that thinks behond his wallet and penis....

Thank you.


Kylie



Anytime lovely Kylie, may you have an amazing day!
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Posted: 2022-12-14 16:35:31

Your one in a million!!!
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Posted: 2022-12-14 16:47:05

On 2022-12-14 16:35:31 Kylie @ Elements said:
Your one in a million!!!


I think you will find that his respect and treatment of WG's is far more common than the reverse. Of course there will be anecdotes of "Joe Smith called me a whore" or whatever but just think to your own client base. I am sure you have significantly more pleasant gentlemen than unpleasant ones. And if that is NOT the case, if you have a lot of negative treatment, it is just worth remembering that in those encounters YOU (royal you, not you as an individual Kylie) are the common denominator and likely part of the problem.
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Posted: 2022-12-14 16:51:25

On 2022-12-11 11:25:51 Teletubby said:
On 2022-12-11 09:25:50

You really are painfully stupid. The matter would never have been resolved or discussed by the two of them if he hadn't called her out. Happily being scammed isn't 'generous', it's being a schmuck.



Dearest Teletubby,

I profoundly apologize for my actions and not dealing/handling this situation from the past in a better way. I probably should've been more clear and immediately demanded payment for my time. I am truly sorry that this ordeal which happened almost a year ago and brought up now has caused so much anger in you and not being able to move past this now, regardless the fact that the scammer (me) willingly offered to pay back R3000 even though my time is of nothing... I'm also sorry for not accepting a booking the past 3 occasions when JP82 contacted me to make a booking. It had nothing to do with me running away with R3000, i mean, I did however attend to the dinner on my time... I never acted like I was a victim, I merely acted on what I also felt was right as my time was Exchanged...

Reading from your comments I can tell you have made up your mind and law is law, business is business and me stating that I'm keeping the R3000 towards the previous outbooking as discussed telephonically on speaker at the venue was probably unrighteous, or makes me an unrighteous person in your eyes, but I guess that's just your opinion and how you see people, no wrong doing from the other party...

Even though I willingly offered to pay back the R3000 for my time, I just want to end my sentence by saying, we're all only human, we think, we make decisions, we take action, choices and decisions lead to and have actions, actions speak louder than words and written words don't always justify a he said/she said situation, but sometimes to merely look at how one react in situations, what we speak, when we speak, in or on public forums, not all are out there to discourage or to belittle others, nor to bring up a client's indiscretions whether rumoured or not, but to make a decision based on your well-being and safety, it's your own choice, fall down seven stand up eight, smile and try again, but being better and being wiser.

I wish you well.
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Posted: 2022-12-14 17:56:04

On 2022-12-14 16:47:05 oraljim said:
On 2022-12-14 16:35:31 Kylie @ Elements said: Your one in a million!!!
I think you will find that his respect and treatment of WG's is far more common than the reverse. Of course there will be anecdotes of "Joe Smith called me a whore" or whatever but just think to your own client base. I am sure you have significantly more pleasant gentlemen than unpleasant ones. And if that is NOT the case, if you have a lot of negative treatment, it is just worth remembering that in those encounters YOU (royal you, not you as an individual Kylie) are the common denominator and likely part of the problem.




Thank you

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