On 2024-12-15 22:28:40 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-12-15 22:27:27 Melina - The Edging Expert said: On 2024-12-13 19:01:50 Cutchies Tushies & Boobies said: I think the ladies was talking in general. If only you know what calls we get and after we say no to something they would carry on and on. If they stil dont get there way then the name calling and swearing follows. And this is on a daily basis Teyran.

I think if you read what this lady had said anybody reading with an open mind can understand why the ladies all said what they did.


I have a VERY open mind and I am battling to understand.

RB.

Perhaps you need to sleep on it and it will come to you.

I know I shall wake up and STILL not get it.

I promise you that Ms. Arhwen.



:)

RB

@Arwhen....how on earth did you see my post as disrespecting other ladies boundaries or that I thought their boundaries are not valid? If you knew me at all you wouldn't have even posted a comment like you did. So please see my question as a rhetorical one as I'm not one for these games some people play. I prefer to spend my time playing naughty games ;) #naughtygrin....
Have a stunning evening! Xxx

On 2024-12-15 22:35:50 Galaxy The Original said:
@Arwhen....how on earth did you see my post as disrespecting other ladies boundaries or that I thought their boundaries are not valid? If you knew me at all you wouldn't have even posted a comment like you did. So please see my question as a rhetorical one as I'm not one for these games some people play. I prefer to spend my time playing naughty games ;) #naughtygrin....
Have a stunning evening! Xxx

You out of all people should know me.[QUOTE;5188185;Galaxy The Original] @Arwhen....how on earth did you see my post as disrespecting other ladies boundaries or that I thought their boundaries are not valid? If you knew me at all you wouldn't have even posted a comment like you did. So please see my question as a rhetorical one as I'm not one for these games some people play. I prefer to spend my time playing naughty games ;) #naughtygrin....
Have a stunning evening! Xxx[/QUOTE]

You out of all people should know what kind of a person I am! I'm a conversationalist I didn't say your post was disrespecting I did however say that if you don't have the same boundaries it doesn't make theirs less valid meaning the ladies who posted what they did gave valid reasons for their post so can we respect that that's their perspective based on how and what they read. Remember we don't all have the same perspective and nothing wrong with the ladies saying guys must respect boundaries. Let me ask you if you had any boundaries and your boundaries were disrespected would you be happy. Again not saying anybody disrespected boundaries it's a discussion or a debate.

On 2024-12-15 22:35:42 Russian Bridgitte said:
I know I shall wake up and STILL not get it.

I promise you that Ms. Arhwen.



:)

RB

Well then I guess you have never been in a situation where your boundaries where pushed or disrespected. If that's the case you will never get it. Perhaps spend sometime in the back office to see some of the horror stories that befall on some ladies perhaps you will understand where they come from.

On 2024-12-15 22:47:28 Arhwen said:
On 2024-12-15 22:35:42 Russian Bridgitte said: I know I shall wake up and STILL not get it.

I promise you that Ms. Arhwen.



:)

RB

Well then I guess you have never been in a situation where your boundaries where pushed or disrespected. If that's the case you will never get it. Perhaps spend sometime in the back office to see some of the horror stories that befall on some ladies perhaps you will understand where they come from.

Dear Arhwen.

I think you missed the GIST of the post.

As to what I know and don't know...seems lots of people of late know everybody else's business more than the actual people know themselves.


Be restful.

RB.

On 2024-12-15 22:54:47 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2024-12-15 22:47:28 Arhwen said: On 2024-12-15 22:35:42 Russian Bridgitte said: I know I shall wake up and STILL not get it.

I promise you that Ms. Arhwen.



:)

RB

Well then I guess you have never been in a situation where your boundaries where pushed or disrespected. If that's the case you will never get it. Perhaps spend sometime in the back office to see some of the horror stories that befall on some ladies perhaps you will understand where they come from.


Dear Arhwen.

I think you missed the GIST of the post.

As to what I know and don't know...seems lots of people of late know everybody else's business more than the actual people know themselves.


Be restful.

RB.

Dearest RB

I can say the same you missed the gist of the other ladies post. Pssssst I dont know your business and I certainly am not intrested in knowing it as I have my own life to live.

My statement was based on your lack of understanding why the ladies posted what they did.

Anyway i am about too call it a night so you rest well too.

Take care and blessings to you.

Very interesting question and responses indeed. So the question is - do you accept it as means of extra cash or just plain no? No means no. If one does it for extra cash, accept the pain that goes with it. Is it worth it at the end of the day?
All up to the ladies offering it and enjoy doing it. Good luck to you.

On 2024-12-15 22:23:42 Arhwen said:
On 2024-12-15 22:22:39 Sexyhumour said: This thread neh...I've been saying "YOH" the whole time. I even ran out of "YOH's",what a pity and here is my last one "YOH"*facepalm*

Lol yoh welcome back

Thank you*smiles*

This forum is beginning to remind me of that old aphorism: opinions are like arseholes. Everybody has one and everybody else's stinks.

So many opinions without actually reading (or comprehending). So many people just feeling the need to express themselves, without actually contributing anything of value ....

Back to your question peterb: I have had similar conversations with ladies over the years. I am not particularly desperate for anal action, so it has never been in an attempt to pressurize or cajole - but rather curiosity or just an open conversation between adults about sex.

The ladies I have spoken to have a wide range of views: some really enjoy it and welcome their clients to partake (usually without extra charge), some tolerate it and will do it on request (with warning to allow them to prepare and almost always with extra charge), some do anal in their personal lives but prefer not to offer it in sessions for a variety of reasons and some don't do it at all in personal or professional settings.

I can see how some folks just leapt to the completely wrong impression of your question. Plenty of guys trying to push boundaries in an unwelcome manner.

However don't let that stop you from having respectful conversations in real life and on this forum with other people (and acknowledging their humanity).