Hey all

So many moons/ sun cycles ago we picked up whores/ prostitutes in Hillbrow etc.

Now thanks to the Purple pages we get to meet real ladies irrespective of their choice of career

Most are above awesome

Peter

On 2022-12-13 05:23:02 Johnny English said:
The opposite of generous is selfish

Ah, the giver and receiver. So much in that statement for a generous donor needs a selfish receiver and a self aware person that won't be generous to a selfish person will then be perceived as selfish by the selfish person.

JP69

The budding Ernest Hemmingway's and Mary Shelley's in this article certainly like to spread their apparent knowledge of the English prose...however as an analogy "vessels, make, sound, most empty".

Awaiting the slings and arrows of outrageous ....... lol :-)

On 2022-12-13 10:53:23 Merlot said:
The budding Ernest Hemmingway's and Mary Shelley's in this article certainly like to spread their apparent knowledge of the English prose...however as an analogy "vessels, make, sound, most empty".

Awaiting the slings and arrows of outrageous ....... lol :-)

More than likely rapid fire Winchester rifle !

On 2022-12-10 08:10:11 Arhwen said:


Or guys who don't pay ladies fees then come here to defame the lady with back and forth stories if the lady in question was a genuine scammer then I could understand but guys loved the lady u til the malicious punter who tried to force her into seeing him guess what she left and never came back.

Well, now that she is back are you going to apologise for this bullshit?

How many times have I responded to a decent looking add, asked the right questions up front but when you get to the location the sp is looking rough around the edges, the venue is a filthy pigsty and payment is always without fail demanded upfront. Then when you want to leave the gate has been locked behind you and there are threats that you should pay a cancellation fee. Or even worse you decide against your better judgement to go ahead but the sp is then hardly engaging and barely gives you 5 minutes during which time she continues to take appointments over the phone.
Now compare this with the other side of the coin: the sp is upfront about the services, fees and state of the venue, the sp takes care of her appearance and hygiene and charges no cancellation fee because with a professional attitude there will never be a cancellation. On top of that more often than not payment is done afterwards (a definite correlation there!). Now chemistry can't be forced but one can always be treated with respect and end the session with a 'Well, not exactly great but by no means bad.' and walk out still feeling good.
So what I'm saying is is this: as a sp show respect firstly in yourself then it will show in the type of clients you attract. Then treat the services you provide as you would as if running a business: the more you invest in the business the more you can expect to get out of it.

On 2022-12-13 05:23:02 Johnny English said:
The opposite of generous is selfish

The synonym for generous is eleemosynary.

On 2022-12-13 13:42:23 SaintlySinner said:
How many times have I responded to a decent looking add, asked the right questions up front but when you get to the location the sp is looking rough around the edges, the venue is a filthy pigsty and payment is always without fail demanded upfront. Then when you want to leave the gate has been locked behind you and there are threats that you should pay a cancellation fee. Or even worse you decide against your better judgement to go ahead but the sp is then hardly engaging and barely gives you 5 minutes during which time she continues to take appointments over the phone.
Now compare this with the other side of the coin: the sp is upfront about the services, fees and state of the venue, the sp takes care of her appearance and hygiene and charges no cancellation fee because with a professional attitude there will never be a cancellation. On top of that more often than not payment is done afterwards (a definite correlation there!). Now chemistry can't be forced but one can always be treated with respect and end the session with a 'Well, not exactly great but by no means bad.' and walk out still feeling good.
So what I'm saying is is this: as a sp show respect firstly in yourself then it will show in the type of clients you attract. Then treat the services you provide as you would as if running a business: the more you invest in the business the more you can expect to get out of it.

I absolutely love this. Bad apples are on both sides in this industry. Unfortunately at first glance, the apple is bright red and looks absolutely delicious and juicy, but as you start cutting into it, you get to the bad parts. This is why I love chatting (not sexting) with clients before we meet. They get to know about me, my services and fees and do's and don'ts.
Never will I state that I provide a service and not follow through. The same I would appreciate a punter respecting my rates and accept it or respectfully move on. I am a "what you see is what you get" girl. I can't stand pretentious people. Be genuine, be real and life will be so much easier and enjoyable.
One thing I would love to see on the forum again is respect for one another. No matter if you have different opinions, the way you bring it across will determine the reaction you will get..... xxx

On 2022-12-12 07:30:38 Johnny English said:
On 2022-12-11 19:56:11 Potatoejetguy said: Getting tired of this now ..

What took you so long, Potatoejetguy ? Lol !

I thought when you mentioned the impeccable English, that you were getting into it, lol.

I decided if I can't beat them, let me join them.

Hear hear hear hear,
I started reading some William Shakespeare books to brush up on my English :-)

On 2022-12-10 05:37:54 Johnny English said:
Intolerance and hostility/animosity between punter(s) and advertiser(s) seems to becoming a common theme on the forum and escalating. Not cool !

My response is to the original topic, not to the OP or anyone's comments!

I am investing in the wrong people.
Held captive in conversations I don't want to be a part of.
I smile and nod, while my mind tries to silence the noise spilling from them.
Like an oil leak no person could contain.
What they seem to have misunderstood, is that I am a Flame ready and willing to burn.
by Darling March

I have the power of choice to choose whether I wish to comment or to not comment and remain Silent. I have the power to not validate or entertain anything that is not worth my time or energy. We all have the power to avoid hostility and intolerance. It's up to you how you choose to use it!

Arizona