On 2023-04-18 15:57:36 JP82 said:
On 2023-04-18 15:49:15 Arhwen said:

Actually if you read properly I did say you were both at fault. You tried to defame her but never clarified that you didn't pay for the time out as per your agreement. Yes she was wrong she should have been honest with you but at the end of the day you didn't pay her and you forgot to tell us that bit when you were defaming her.

This is why I say that you are dumber than a box of rocks. In your own post you say "as per your agreement". Thats the entire point - the agreement was I pay the room fee, and we go for drinks. It was months later, *AFTER* she absconded with my deposit that *SHE* tried retroactively to ****CHANGE THE AGREEMENT****. Why is this so hard for you to understand?

I might be dumber than a box of chocolates at least I have not tried to con any punters or ladies.

Then thread is there for anyone to read. You never mentioned the room fee which you agreed to pay until the lady mentioned that you left without paying her, so you initially did not keep to your end of the bargain.

Again yes she was in the wrong and never should have pretended the money was for a all night but instead she should have been honest about the fact that it was for room fee she had to pay to the venue because you didn't pay it as agreed.

You were both in the wrong.

On 2023-04-18 15:59:07 Cunilinkiss said:
I think the main message; namely attacks and slander does nobody (not even the platform) any good, either went over the heads of some or they love the inevitable bad spinoffs.

Both sad if true!

Let's play nice folks. Please?

Great news for you, You know who to bly weg from ;)

Or does play nice folks please only apply to some?

Rethorical question the answer makes no difference to me I'm just being cheeky ;)(respectfully)

Have an amazing evening :)

Oh christ. It just gets dumber and dumber. I never mentioned the room fee because that booking was entirely separate from the all nighter deposit. (until she tried to use it as an excuse for having scammed me)

Did you notice how I didn't mention the other 20-25 bookings I had with her in the five years prior either? Because they similarly were all done and paid for.

I paid the room fee, before we even left for drinks. As asked. Which *was* my "end of the bargain".

It was *after* I called her out for taking the deposit and not pitching for the booking, that she decided that I still owed her for an "out-booking" and not just the room fee as we had agreed at the time.

Try reading this slowly - She decided to change "my end of the bargain" after I had already done as we had agreed (paid for the room)

No matter how many names you call me it doesn't change the fact that you sir left from drinks night not paying the room fee as agreed leaving the sp to take responsibility for your room fee and you conviently left that bit out only when she mentioned it then that bit came to light ;)

You sir need to own your shit. We all fuck up from time to time and you not paying the room fee was a major fuck up on your part.

Again you were both at fault nothing you say or do will Change that.

On 2023-04-18 17:24:41 Arhwen said:
No matter how many names you call me it doesn't change the fact that you sir left from drinks night not paying the room fee as agreed leaving the sp to take responsibility for your room fee and you conviently left that bit out only when she mentioned it then that bit came to light ;)

You sir need to own your shit. We all fuck up from time to time and you not paying the room fee was a major fuck up on your part.

Again you were both at fault nothing you say or do will Change that.

Are you being deliberately obtuse now? Or just doubling down cos youve actually finally realised what happened?

I hope if your wellness clinic involves any sort of counselling, that your listening skills are better than your reading skills. BECAUSE, HOLY FUCK, HOW MANY TIMES DO I NEED TO SAY THIS:

I did pay the room fee, BEFORE WE EVEN LEFT the venue to go for drinks.

The SP did not take responsibility for the room fee.

I will gladly own my shit. But "me not paying the room fee" is not something that has ever happened. EVER. So I "left that bit out" , because it's not fucking true.

It was an additional "out-booking fee" that magically got added on (months after the fact) that was in dispute. The room fee was paid on the night, before we even left the venue.

Wait. Punters can take SPs for drinks?

Is this an additional service for an extra fee or is the bill on the punter or SP? I would be interested in taking an SP for drinks after a punt.

On 2023-04-18 17:39:02 Raymond Reddington said:
Wait. Punters can take SPs for drinks?

Is this an additional service for an extra fee or is the bill on the punter or SP? I would be interested in taking an SP for drinks after a punt.

Depends on the SP and your relationship with them. This was a lady I'd seen probably 25+ times. I got there, hadn't seen her for a while and asked if she would rather catch up over drinks, than do a sensual session AND I OFFERED TO PAY FOR HER TIME, at the normal rate. She said she had had a hard day and would love to have drinks, and I would just have to pay the room fee to the venue- so that she didn't end up paying in. I gave her the money for the room fee and she took it straight to the receptionist and we left.

So yeah, SPs are people, if you are friends with them they might accept an invitation to go for a drink.

On 2023-04-18 17:38:02 JP82 said:
On 2023-04-18 17:24:41 Arhwen said: No matter how many names you call me it doesn't change the fact that you sir left from drinks night not paying the room fee as agreed leaving the sp to take responsibility for your room fee and you conviently left that bit out only when she mentioned it then that bit came to light ;)

You sir need to own your shit. We all fuck up from time to time and you not paying the room fee was a major fuck up on your part.

Again you were both at fault nothing you say or do will Change that.

Are you being deliberately obtuse now? Or just doubling down cos youve actually finally realised what happened?

I hope if your wellness clinic involves any sort of counselling, that your listening skills are better than your reading skills. BECAUSE, HOLY FUCK, HOW MANY TIMES DO I NEED TO SAY THIS:

I did pay the room fee, BEFORE WE EVEN LEFT the venue to go for drinks.

The SP did not take responsibility for the room fee.

I will gladly own my shit. But "me not paying the room fee" is not something that has ever happened. EVER. So I "left that bit out" , because it's not fucking true.

It was an additional "out-booking fee" that magically got added on (months after the fact) that was in dispute. The room fee was paid on the night, before we even left the venue.

The thread does not say that you paid the room fee dear sir. Your story was very much back and forth your words are contradictory both here and on the thread were not upfront with the entire story from the word go my stance remains you were both at fault.

I may be dumb but I am not a con...

Anyone who questions this can go read the thread for them selves forum search works.

@potatoejetguy

WELL SAID!
Nicci
Xx

On 2023-04-18 17:46:41 JP82 said:
On 2023-04-18 17:39:02 Raymond Reddington said: Wait. Punters can take SPs for drinks?

Is this an additional service for an extra fee or is the bill on the punter or SP? I would be interested in taking an SP for drinks after a punt.

Depends on the SP and your relationship with them. This was a lady I'd seen probably 25+ times. I got there, hadn't seen her for a while and asked if she would rather catch up over drinks, than do a sensual session AND I OFFERED TO PAY FOR HER TIME, at the normal rate. She said she had had a hard day and would love to have drinks, and I would just have to pay the room fee to the venue- so that she didn't end up paying in. I gave her the money for the room fee and she took it straight to the receptionist and we left.

So yeah, SPs are people, if you are friends with them they might accept an invitation to go for a drink.

Except for this post is contradictory to the actual events according to the thread itself.

I'm sure everyone can do a search and see exactly what happened

As to my listening skills I got my answers from the sps response and your response to her and yes I made up my mind along time ago that you were both in the wrong and nothing you can say will change that unless you own your shit...

Ps the people who share time and space in my practice are believe it or not people who want to work on their innerselves. Those are people who will recognize their mistake if pointed out in a loving fashion and they most certainly won't be calling me names for being blatantly honest with them they will tha k me for calling them out on their shit.

Let's not forget that I also gave you the benefit of doubt in your thread.

esa.co.za/forum/thread.php