On 2016-11-19 20:29:16 bushman_1 said:
take her in the bush

Take me please lol,I would love to get tied up there I am begging you

Your situation can easily be resolved bro, look at your lady friend latest picture on facebook and then go through each page of ESA advertisers in your area and guaranteed you will find a few that look almost like your friend...book, shag and pay them then go home to your lovely wife...finish and klaar! Always works for me...your are not the only one wanting to shag a certain married women but don't do it bro, stay out of trouble. It's not worth it!

Catch 22 punting no strings attached .

If either of you or both of you are happy in your respective marriages, don't do it.

This is lust, not love. If it was love, you would have found each other earlier then 14years later.

Follow your heart nothing in life is guaranteed. Where do your priorities lie.

This could be a once off thing, continuous or worse spill over into your marriage and ruin it, this could help your marriage and strengthen the bond between you and your woman. Basically no one knows the outcome just remember to do what will genuinely make you happy.

Put yourself first and Good luck

My 2 sent, moenie dit doen nie my maat. Ek was al daar en het op die ou end met verbrande vingers uitgestap. Dit is die rede dat ek nou 'n toegewyde punter is. Dit is net nie die moete werd nie, glo my goed. Daar is 'n groot verskil tussen fantasie en al die verskuilde lokvalle van die werklikheid.
It is just not worth it!

If you and your lady got time and can take a drive Edenvale side then I suggest booking a room at Sexy Venue 4 Play. Celeste is cool and open minded and I'm sure she can accommodate you and your lady with a room for a few hours.

You can even spice it up and book Foxi while you there and have a threesome with your old flame and Foxi on that swing.

I have been there, it's just not worth it. You can try to hide it but it will come out eventually. The late night phone calls, going away for "business", secret messages etc will eventually be found. I got divorced because of an affair and not punting. There are many many beautiful ladies on this site that will fulfill your sexual needs, no strings attached.

Today is 1 of those days I wish I never got married :(

So just to clear up we are all suddenly experts in fidelity??
I mean guy and ladies saying what would you think if it was your wife hooking up..??
Well shoes on the other foot people... the married guys here are stepping out with the lovely ladies on this site... what would the wife think if she caught you with a lady from ESA??

Conflicted is a good word to describe this post and the replies