MeneerX, i think your answer is most probably the most correct one ... we are the hunters and always wanted to hunt for something new ... it must be in our DNA as you said.

Been with some ladies that gave me all that is could have hope for and more but found myself hunting for a new one very shortly !!!

Minime, you need to unpack what makes it wrong.
Is it because:
the law says so
religion says so
your commitment to somebody else says so
society says so
Your mind tells you so?

Not paying but tapping somebody else could also be "wrong" depending on your circumstances.
Therefore what makes punting wrong depends on the perspective from which you look at it. You know - my version, your version and the facts.
In the end it could be wrong but for me its just addictive (I suspect thats also wrong)

Addiction pure and simple. Honestly which I could stop.

Personally, i have plenty of good, exciting sex at home. It is all about the variety for me. I find beauty in all shapes, sizes and colours.
Also the excitement is great, the whole experience, from selecting the lady (if not a regular) to the arrangement, all very exciting to me.

On 2017-01-03 08:23:31 MeneerX said:
Minime, you need to unpack what makes it wrong.
Is it because:
the law says so
religion says so
your commitment to somebody else says so
society says so
Your mind tells you so?

Not paying but tapping somebody else could also be "wrong" depending on your circumstances.
Therefore what makes punting wrong depends on the perspective from which you look at it. You know - my version, your version and the facts.
In the end it could be wrong but for me its just addictive (I suspect thats also wrong)

Probably a few reasons for it to be "wrong"...

My bank manager is not keen on the idea at all.
How I grew up...what would my father say if he was still alive?
Depending if youre religeous or not...My Dominee not crazy about the idea (he knows the bank manager)
Started waaaay back..the first time was when I was still engaged to be married...probably wrong.
Did it while married...
Did it while in a "relationship"....

You get the idea...

But as I said...thats me...not making the "right choices" all that often.

(Feel everybody looking at me in disgust...shaking their heads..."Shit..this dude is messed up")

Perspective...
I dont believe there would be many that condone our actions and I think we'll find it difficult to justify.
At this stage therefore my holding position is DNA and animal instinct. Not sure that will get me off the hook though.

100% agree with grey fox, i love black pussy and married to a lovely white lady who i love, but black pussy is just so yummy

In my view humans reach saturation point, therefore sexually you can be content and not punt.

Otherwise you are filling up a void, just like a person who likes to drink alot.

If you get it on demand, and get it all ways from your partner only reason you still punt is because you Compensating for something lacking

Ruby I will give you a very practical example of my situation. Am at home till next week on leave but the wife is on some church fast programme don't know for how many days so naturally can't get some, if I do it's just not the same she will give it just to keep me quiet which feels wrong, better pump a sex doll. It leaves me with no option but to punt despite the fact that deep down it is not my intention to do so but a brother has needs.

On 2017-01-03 13:03:52 Seankhu said:
Ruby I will give you a very practical example of my situation. Am at home till next week on leave but the wife is on some church fast programme don't know for how many days so naturally can't get some, if I do it's just not the same she will give it just to keep me quiet which feels wrong, better pump a sex doll. It leaves me with no option but to punt despite the fact that deep down it is not my intention to do so but a brother has needs.

No I get it. No man wants to fuck a lifeless corpse, and no man wants to feel his wife is doing him a favour. Don't get me wrong, I'm not saying I approve, but I always try to keep an open mind with everything and not to pass judgement. It's not my place.

I was more confused by the other dude that said he had pussy on tap at home and then he got bored. Kind of had me wondering 'what the fuck?', you know? I mean, the way it reads from a woman's perspective, is that no matter how great your sex life is at home, how often your wife puts out, or how adventurous she might be in bed, said man is still not happy, still finds cause to complain, and still looks for it somewhere else. Unhappy if he gets nothing, but when he gets everything, he's still not satisfied.

It's fascinating to me to have a guy's perspective on this. Too often us girls are in the dark, not really knowing what goes on in the minds of our men, so I like to read the stuff here to better understand the things we women don't know.

Again, not judging, just very curious. :)