This is gonna be a long ass read... but I have to reply to a few comments in one ;)

Re the popi act or popia ..you can smile and laugh that's fine..or make it of as a joke...

But the reality is it could be used against any institution or person that uses, process or distribute your information or even photos of your likeness without consent.. and consent to have your likeness up on site usual stops when when you no longer are paying to have an active advert.

Yes profiles should be flagged we all want that because it will stop guys from getting into trouble and also safe guard us ladies from maybe befriending people with crappy business practices and scaly intentions.

Have you all not noticed that lately the person's found out for having multiple fake profiles ain't mentioned by name anymore like they use to be named in the past?

Why do you think we ladies or punters for that matter ain't allowed to copy and paste Pvt conversations between punter and ladies or ladies and ladies on forum even if it is a means of proving they dodgy af? Or ain't allowed to post a phone nr on forum even if it's fake cops/scammers?

Because there is SA laws designed to protect innocent normal people from being exploited but that might end up protecting criminals and scammers instead if we or the site exposes them publicly.

What should happen is punters should use the review system better. Not make the review system a blow by blow account of their person performance as a man, but share relevant info that will help others make informed choices. Like telling when someone honoured or dishonored Pre discussed and agreed upon devices etc

I always find I funny when one person goes and leave a somewhat negative review ...suddenly there is more coming to comment that "same happened to me" or something to that effect ...but had not taken the time to review and mention it when it happened to them. It just make it all look like jealous girls with punters profiles ganging up on a lady..when maybe in reality it was just punters that chose not to review at the time for whatever reason.

Everything ain't just black and white when it comes to running sites like this . There is a lot of grey areas that has to be navigated.

I had my fair share of not greeing with ESA over the years but in the end, I choose to be here and pay over my money and have my add up here..everyone else punters and ladies is free to do the same ...choose to stay or choose to leave.

As for RBs question why have I chosen "now" to say I hope ESA looks at those statement of her "boxing partner"... Yes I have seen the to and fro between the two of you..neither of you gives up you both give as good as you get....and both wanting to have the last say...Both seem to be doing just fine regardless as you both still here;) or had not been able to convince ESA that the other one is wrong enough for them to intervene.

Well I said something now like I did on a previous ocasion when he said something similar.

It's obvious that he is being disrespectful, towards everyone from the ladies to the punters to the staff and the blatant statement that it's the wrong site to expect respect when ESA's nr 1 rule is respect is just mind boggling.

He needs to scroll down past the "submit new topic button" and familiarise himself with ESA rules before making crap statements like that.

My dear Miss Red

To quote you


"...As for RBs question why have I chosen "now" to say I hope ESA looks at those statement of her "boxing partner"... Yes I have seen the to and fro between the two of you..neither of you gives up you both give as good as you get....and both wanting to have the last say...Both seem to be doing just fine regardless as you both still here;) or had not been able to convince ESA that the other one is wrong enough for them to intervene."


Not once have I been picked on because it was about me.

Let me put it this way..as I shared with a "renowned" gentleman on this forum in a pvt conversation and, all of a sudden, he had an ahhhhhaaaaaa!moment.

He knows who he is...ain't no fan of mine but, it isn't fans I care to have. Integrity far outweighs favour.

You see.

For me .. i think of the person that is being bullied and how they may be feeling...intimidated, scared,
feeling stupid for having the right to a voice ,

I haven't forgotten how you shared in one of your previous posts how you were bullied into silent submission because it was too much to bear.

The ladies that contact me and say thank you.

One I have to mention...I received a love letter from Arcticus on this forum calling me out on so many things. THAT service provider who happens to be a favourite of his actually thanked me for my part which Arcticus and even some SP's , jumping on the bandwagon tryna turn it into....I am actually not sure what.

Every fucknut bully I will not stand down to.
People commit suicide, live with depression, low self esteem because c#nts find it funny to attack without cause.

Therodent picked on me because I called him out on a comment he made about SP's, meaning you and I and every other woman too in this space in the same manner this c#nt has done here.

And every man thinking their derogatory uncalled comments about women on this site, will have me commenting.

NOT attacking BUT as always pointing to another viewpoint.

Then begins "play the person not the ball"

You see Miss Red, even you don't get that I am an advocator of Service Providers in the adult world rights no matter that it may be viewed as taboo by society.

Give me a good debate but, don't try attack my Integrity...it ain't gonna work

Nothing to do with being right.

I don't fucking care to be right.

I want ALL those that worry about bullies to know...YOU AINT ALONE..no matter what the fuck anybody on this forum may think of me.

And thus Ms Red...

The last word ....as I said, it ain't about winning every battle BUT winning the war and I am smiling...


The war has been won.




RB.


Addendum - comprehension and self projection is quite a challenge on this forum :)