On 2023-11-21 18:19:58 Hazel Arabia said:
i for one think the problem runs a lot deeper. even if esa were to setup the latest of technologies in detecting and banning preexisting IP addresses, would the bitching and fighting and bullshit stop? i dont think so.

see, although to some, the forum might be a good place to interact with their next playmate and share views on topics that may be of mutual interest... the other end of the coin displays to us a very peculiar phenomenon - wherein a person who's already miserable in their own lives (perhaps due to lack of purpose or hobbies - whatever the case may be), then chooses to further transmit their negative energy onto a public (yet discreet - since they're ultimately faceless) forum.

what's beyond me is why anyone would enjoy misery so much. more so, when they're not obligated to be here. it's like listening to sad songs when you're feeling depressed - only egging on the feelings you claim not to wanna feel. legitimately - i cant fathom why a man (especially one who has anything going for himself outside of the purple world) will log into this site every day like clockwork, only to instigate bullshit and work himself up at the mere sight of a SP doing her job?

further, JP, im sure you're proud of having posted thousands of times over the last 2 years, but have you ever considered that there was a time in which you, too, had a profile that was less than a year old, with under 100 posts? who made it your job to decide who's a fake punter or not, and under what criteria do you do your analysis?

whatever basis you use to justify your issues, i strongly recommend you have a look in the mirror and be true to yourself about it. self reflection is sexy.

Claps hands this is by far the best post I have read in a long time.

1000% agree with Hazel. And Arhwen. Brilliant post. It's called Integrity.

There is no way in hell that I will attend a social to 'prove' to some nameless, faceless people, whom I will never meet, that I am genuine. For me, this pastime is a solo activity ( other than the lady I am with, of course). Privacy and anonymity is vital.

Dont take life too seriously...you will never get out of it alive.

Same applies to esa / forum / any other media platform. Relax, take it easy lol. Yor i cant believe people are so invested in this to "expose" and "prove" huh?

Get much healthier hobbies please.

On 2023-11-21 23:31:33 Fly by Nite said:
1000% agree with Hazel. And Arhwen. Brilliant post. It's called Integrity.

On 2023-11-22 08:12:15 goofy123 said:
There is no way in hell that I will attend a social to 'prove' to some nameless, faceless people, whom I will never meet, that I am genuine. For me, this pastime is a solo activity ( other than the lady I am with, of course). Privacy and anonymity is vital.

Both these punters don't have met in person have been around for along time much longer than the op and some of his associates. They never had drama with the ladies. It does not make them less credible than some (not all just some) of the guys with met in person badges.

I take my hat of to you guys nothing to proove to nobody just going about doing your business what more is the ladies who have had the privilege of your time and your cash are the only ones who actually matter not a bunch of guys with an overload of testosterone still learning the ways of the world.

Bit rich of all off us purpotrators of crime to claim integrity or be surprised by its absence...

What many don't seem to catch when they point out imperfections is that strategy is about increasing or decreasing probability.

To the ladies, should you know it's likely a fake profile, you should know there is a higher probability of someone likely to jerk you around.

To the gents, knowing there is a probability of a fake profiler behind a review, one could do well to take it with a pinch of salt


If it does not work for you; no harm, but till you can propose a better way (and get is approved by esa), knowing which profiles have real people behind then increases (to me) the probability that I'm not looking stbrhe views of an even bigger doos than we all are already anyway

Maybe ESA should take IDs of all registrations, punter & SP alike. That is one efficient and logical way to eliminate the majority of fake profiles & krayzee working girls having punter profiles. Simple. I really cant see a problem with that. Actually I think only the people up to shit and causing uncalled for issues here should have a problem with that.
It will also mean people could then be held Accountable for what they post and maybe just maybe these forums may get cleaned up of the BS.

Jackparrow69 is a professional forum writer. Dont know where he gets the time to write all the k@k

On 2023-11-21 08:07:48 Parraman2 said:
A "meet in person" badge means nothing to me and no I am not going to travel 700 kilos just to meet someone of the ESA office for the purpose of satisfying a few unknown to me punters. I only punt when I am either in Pta or Jhb for business and that is also the reason why I do not write any reviews.

Exactly

On 2023-11-21 13:37:15 Fantasy Dolls said:
Ive got a question. What is the met in person badge or reliable punter badge or any other badge helping us girls in this business.
When a client calls he doesnt even give his name when he calls so whats the use. We dont no what badges he has. Is it just for the punters to compare dick sizes between u guys.Lol

For us. We dont care about the badges.
We focus on. How does that saying goes.

"The proof is in the pudding"

A while back there was a post about the esa emails and how little does a booking actualy come from there. Same story. Maybe the client did see the girl but who wil ever know.

But what the emails do point out is the timewasters. Even tho they basic members and even gold members. So many send the same email. What do u offer and whats ur rates. Same question from the same punter over and over. These are punters thats even active on the forum.

So why bother exposing the fake punters.

Yeah, badges are for people with low self esteem