I'm in the same position at the moment -

A few months ago I really became bored with the punting scene and then I had Covid and decided to give it a go again - "too many women to little time"

But now I'm really getting to a point wanting to call it quits - for various reasons -

1. I'm getting tired of receiving my complimentary fake cop calls (even with the police station sound effects in the background. I had a punt on Friday and by Monday I had no less than 7 calls from some fake cop. I just swear at them, block them and a few hours later another call.
I just can imagine the predicament some punters have because they have wife's, family, children etc. The calls come anytime of day - I even had calls Sunday evening - ESA should really make an effort on curbing this.

2. Less and less girls make an effort - seems while the economy are getting tougher less girls are making an effort. You book a girl - get to the venue and she or whom ever receive you in flip flops - sweatshirts - etc. There is just no effort going into the SP's anymore - it has become a money driven effort and all the SP's these days seem to be about is how fast they can get a punter out of the door -

3. Even the bigger venues are suffering from cost cutting exercise's - the girls are looking really sloppy, dare I say the FAT, lack of discipline, little things like offering a complimentary drink, water proper condoms (the the Government type), proper clean towels are all going by the wayside.

4. Mechanical bookings are becoming the norm - 5 minutes this and 10 minutes that - you pay for an hour and by the time you leave you realise that you were in and out in less than 30 minutes.

5. Where is the days the SP's put in some effort. I remember days when the girls would rock into the room in only a pair of heels and that's it.

Where is the days that an SP would run a bath, have fresh towels, put on good music etc.

6. I have also contemplated the tuning into my darker fetishes - but a real good GFE punt are becoming a scarce occurrence.

7. The worrying annoyance off SP's trying to frame punters - the well known rugby player incident make you also question and worrying who is going to be next.

8. Fake reviews is a huge issue to me. I read several reviews before I decide who to contact - and in some instances you realise that some girls are never reviewed by Gold Members or the reviewers has less than 10 posts or the writing style are the use of same words and sentences recur in several reviews.

I'm for all More than willing to pay for service - I'm more than willing to spend 2k on a booking and always have extra cash on me than the requested contribution from the SP.

BUT Over my last few punts I walked out with the tips etc and got into my car and felt done in by the SP - where are those days when you walked out to your car on wobbly legs, where both you and the SP collapsed after several rounds drenched in sweat?

Can I just add my masala too
@Rotors some of us are still here.
We run bubble baths and even enjoy giving a blow in the bath tub
Some of us play good music and spice it up in the room.
But I guess its all about reviews some of the best WG are those who don't even have reviews, but most of you wont know cause you too scared to take the leap of faith and try us.

If you eat the same curry you will get bored of having it change up a bit try something different maybe it will bring back the spark

If you always go for piete and perky boobs
Try big boobs and a meaty kinda girl
I can go on and on but its a personal choice, some of the ladies have been on ESA for years and have been giving great services but they don't get any reviews so why don't you punters change it try new ladies out give those a chance and be the first to review them.

Stop searching for miss sexy and miss this and that and get out of your comfort zone and try different ladies different body types I am sure one of us will leave you smiling and breathless.

It is so true what Virgo has said.

Don't expect a different result: if you do the same thing the same way everytime, the result will be the same.

Its one of the reasons, I don't have a regular. Always someone "new". I try and add a bit of banter prior to the visit, it just changes the whole session.

Foreplay should start at the first contact, and continue right through till the final deed.

If a lady can "pleasure" my mind, she will be able to deliver a mindblowing session.

If not, its not even worth the trip going there.

On 2022-04-26 23:23:25 Rotors said:
I'm in the same position at the moment -

A few months ago I really became bored with the punting scene and then I had Covid and decided to give it a go again - "too many women to little time"

But now I'm really getting to a point wanting to call it quits - for various reasons -

1. I'm getting tired of receiving my complimentary fake cop calls (even with the police station sound effects in the background. I had a punt on Friday and by Monday I had no less than 7 calls from some fake cop. I just swear at them, block them and a few hours later another call.
I just can imagine the predicament some punters have because they have wife's, family, children etc. The calls come anytime of day - I even had calls Sunday evening - ESA should really make an effort on curbing this.

2. Less and less girls make an effort - seems while the economy are getting tougher less girls are making an effort. You book a girl - get to the venue and she or whom ever receive you in flip flops - sweatshirts - etc. There is just no effort going into the SP's anymore - it has become a money driven effort and all the SP's these days seem to be about is how fast they can get a punter out of the door -

3. Even the bigger venues are suffering from cost cutting exercise's - the girls are looking really sloppy, dare I say the FAT, lack of discipline, little things like offering a complimentary drink, water proper condoms (the the Government type), proper clean towels are all going by the wayside.

4. Mechanical bookings are becoming the norm - 5 minutes this and 10 minutes that - you pay for an hour and by the time you leave you realise that you were in and out in less than 30 minutes.

5. Where is the days the SP's put in some effort. I remember days when the girls would rock into the room in only a pair of heels and that's it.

Where is the days that an SP would run a bath, have fresh towels, put on good music etc.

6. I have also contemplated the tuning into my darker fetishes - but a real good GFE punt are becoming a scarce occurrence.

7. The worrying annoyance off SP's trying to frame punters - the well known rugby player incident make you also question and worrying who is going to be next.

8. Fake reviews is a huge issue to me. I read several reviews before I decide who to contact - and in some instances you realise that some girls are never reviewed by Gold Members or the reviewers has less than 10 posts or the writing style are the use of same words and sentences recur in several reviews.

I'm for all More than willing to pay for service - I'm more than willing to spend 2k on a booking and always have extra cash on me than the requested contribution from the SP.

BUT Over my last few punts I walked out with the tips etc and got into my car and felt done in by the SP - where are those days when you walked out to your car on wobbly legs, where both you and the SP collapsed after several rounds drenched in sweat?

100% in agreement

On 2022-04-27 05:58:16 Kooni said:

Foreplay should start at the first contact, and continue right through till the final deed.

If a lady can "pleasure" my mind, she will be able to deliver a mindblowing session.

If not, its not even worth the trip going there.

Well put @Kooni

The biggest problem at the moment are these fake cop scams . I don't phone or WhatsApp a lady if she doesn't accept my booking via pm then I don't punt. ESA has to get to the bottom of this it's going to destroy this hobby

In days of yore, I often shopped at Woolies, but soon found out all the flash and hype was not worth the expense and my time. One tires of surly cashiers (all 3 of them) and long queues. Now, i seek out and shop at the "local" fresh fruit and veg shops, where the service is personal and the goodies are more natural and tasty.

On 2022-04-26 23:20:22 Boob guy said:
I think when comes to retirement. its always just a personal thing for everyone.

Im a very fit (bodybuilder aesthetic), business owner that loves to experience new things. I think Iv just tried it all at this point.

When I first retired I was an avid FH punter. But as time went on I got bored of just meeting ladies and just fucking and playing around. No depth other than that. So I stopped for a few months.

Then as life goes on, the itch started again. I came back. Started doing more massages. Interacting more with ladies having longer sessions having deeper conversations. Sex was way better afterwards. Sometimes conversations were better than the sex honestly.

Now I feel that it is difficult to have meaningful experiences or even having good experiences during punting. Last 5 punts have been mechanical, rushed and just all round poor experiences and as a punter you begin to contemplate retirement. Because sex most of the time, in my case, isn't really the main goal. Its interactions, excitement and the ability to be with endless amounts of women of all backgrounds. All that is slowly fading in my eyes.

Now its so many rules, ways ladies are trying to make a quick buck, scams, attitude and overall negative vibes when getting to a session. Sometimes it feels like you're paying the lady for you to give her the experience of a lifetime. Not the other way around.

Lately the pool of punting is only becoming so deep. I have been exploring picking up ladies outside of the purple world and I find it a lot more exciting and rewarding than just paying and getting it over with. The only thing about punting is the no strings attached sex. But ladies these days are already like that outside of the purple world.

For me its not because I haven't tried changing it up, its more of a thing that Ive done it all at least twice, got the tshirt and now its time to move on. I will always respect everything ESA was able to provide to a long standing punter.

Thank you to the punters who shared their opinions and feelings regarding retirement. I appreciate it. As well as the conversations we've had on both the forum, in person and in the pms.

Maybe, I might change my mind. Again.

Sincerely
Boob

Sorry that you've had such experiences that solidified your decision to leave, hope you can/will find the spark/excitement you're looking out there.
Personally I do try my best to give my clients a memorable experience and not make it all about money, but than again we are different ey...
Nevertheless all the best

On 2022-04-27 04:31:58 Virgo said:
Can I just add my masala too
@Rotors some of us are still here.
We run bubble baths and even enjoy giving a blow in the bath tub
Some of us play good music and spice it up in the room.
But I guess its all about reviews some of the best WG are those who don't even have reviews, but most of you wont know cause you too scared to take the leap of faith and try us.

If you eat the same curry you will get bored of having it change up a bit try something different maybe it will bring back the spark

If you always go for piete and perky boobs
Try big boobs and a meaty kinda girl
I can go on and on but its a personal choice, some of the ladies have been on ESA for years and have been giving great services but they don't get any reviews so why don't you punters change it try new ladies out give those a chance and be the first to review them.

Stop searching for miss sexy and miss this and that and get out of your comfort zone and try different ladies different body types I am sure one of us will leave you smiling and breathless.

What you said, thank you girl *bisous*

On 2022-04-26 17:12:24 ESA Forum Admin said:

At ESA's discretion, we remove whatever we feel needs to be removed, the same goes for moderation and banning from ESA. We will not just remove comments and/or reviews for no good reason.

I get the banning and moderation part. I have allot of experience of this. It is the first time that I hear of ESA deleting reviews though. Most advertisers only get a comment by Admin that a post was malicious and Mr XYZ is banned. So who was the advertiser who had the Scorpio profile? I know you dont have to explain anything to anybody.....but still asking.