Hi Lianca
I'm not for a moment saying your arguments are false or that you are not entitled to your indignation. I do however with best possible intent, advise you to consider that your indignation may spark the indignation of others. No SP that I know of has ever attracted business by taking other posters (even idiots) to task. I do however know of many ladies who lost business as a result.

Is it fair? No! Is it true? Unfortunately, without a doubt

Chatted to Lianca the other day. She was super friendly! Kinda wish she wasn't that nice, cause now I want her even more. And I'm in Durban! Xxx

Well said, Lianca. I feel with you on this topic. Punters should also understand our side of the coin.

Each Service Provider has the right to charge whatever hourly or half an hour rate she wants to charge.

And actually this is not difficult at all:

If your budget is not within the fee range Lianca charges, just move on. That is it. Some of us prefer to keep to our set fees charged, and very often gents d get hostile or offensive if we don't want to negotiate our price. And I ALSO get irritated when a punter tries to intimidate me with dropping my fee. However, those are the minority. Most punters are lovely and kind, and those gents are the ones who keep my business booming and for them I do offer discount at times, because they look after me.

So let us just watch our own attitude before we throw stones?

Lianca is a respectable Service Provider in this industry, so just please see her side as well?

Having read this post a few weeks back, it actually promoted her profile, and it made me book her.

Wow, what a firecracker, she makes you feel desired.
Not many SPs make you feel like you are the one that is on the menu at a booking, she does that.

For that time you are hers ;-)
Respect gets respect in this world, we never met before, but, the service I received was as if we knew each other for years.

When a SP feels that comfortable with a total stranger, you know you doing something right.

She is feisty, it's no secret, it's mentioned in her reviews by quite a few punters, myself included, but, that feitiness makes for a thrilling booking ;-)

Cunilinkiss, I agree 100% with you. Taking punters on in the forum can only be detrimental to your business. Rather kill them with kindness.

On 2023-10-27 11:36:22 Cunilinkiss said:
Hi Lianca
I'm not for a moment saying your arguments are false or that you are not entitled to your indignation. I do however with best possible intent, advise you to consider that your indignation may spark the indignation of others. No SP that I know of has ever attracted business by taking other posters (even idiots) to task. I do however know of many ladies who lost business as a result.

Is it fair? No! Is it true? Unfortunately, without a doubt

Have we lost business because of taking posters on? Or have we lost business because of a certain watsapp group...
#askingforafriend.

On 2023-10-28 13:45:08 Angie said:


Have we lost business because of taking posters on? Or have we lost business because of a certain watsapp group...
#askingforafriend.

I think most clients can see for themselves whether the problem lies with us, or the punter.

When we develop a pompous persona, we will lose business. This doesn't mean we can't state our case, it means we are judged by the way we state our case.

In fairness, all advertisers deserve to state their side too, and readers can and will judge accordingly.

On 2023-10-28 13:25:42 Pantser said:
Cunilinkiss, I agree 100% with you. Taking punters on in the forum can only be detrimental to your business. Rather kill them with kindness.

Taking punters/sps or whomever on on this platform no doubt has consequences...

My question to you is this: Since when is it okay for one party to be detrimental to another and the other party is just supposed to shut up and take it?

No matter what the surcumstance is, it's not okay! Respect is a two way street. One should see it in the same light as gbv. Just because it's just words, doesn't mean it doesn't hurt.

Sorry had to say it.

Hugs to all.

Find the reasons. Sometimes the way the punters manners they are rude and they push the no go zones and continuosly do this.And from wg side how would one deal with a rude wg or unhygienic one or bad venue without causing a scene because she totally put u off or just the environment making u feel unsafe.

In the same light. It is never okay for a sp to not deliver on expectations or have a negative attitude towards potential regulars. I have been guilty in the past. And if I haven't apologized to anyone - I am sorry. Lets be kind and considerate and treat all with the respect they deserve?!

Hugs again
Ang