On 2023-03-10 10:58:04 Cayla said:
3 times a day depending on how long you have been together

Thats true, 3x a day in first month, thereafter once during Summer and less often in Winter

On 2023-03-10 08:22:49 Sabrina said:
At least twice a day, for me. Or I start acting out of order. Ha ha ha!!

I second that!!!

Not all woman become allergic or adds sex on her list of relationship chores... Some of us r completely different.

On 2023-03-10 12:37:32 SmashP said:
I need an opinion just to get a woman's point of view.

This is just on a general scale.

Why is it that women don't want to give out sex as much as possible? Especially in marriage? Why do you think this is happening?

1. Manipulation

Woman know she might be mad at you for something that happened 10 years ago and she doesn't wanna suffer alone.

2. You forgot about the small things
Ie. Do you still make her a cup of coffee... do you send lingerie... flowers....small shit you used to do when you first started to get to know each other.

3. It gets boring

4. Hormones

5. Self esteem issues on her side.

Hope.this helps

On 2023-03-09 11:50:47 Maxipump said:
Everyday is the best

My last relationship didn't last very long, but we had a solid couple of months having sex almost every day - basically whenever we were together - and as you can tell I had good incentive to try see her almost every day ;)

I did enjoy it as that much sex was a first for me...even my loads were gradually becoming smaller lol. Plus I didn't necessarily have to seduce her...it was like an unspoken "guarantee" whenever I was with her, which I loved. The passion and the intensity takes a hit though when you're having that much sex. Eventually you're having a lot of 4-6/10 sex rather than a potential 7-10/10 sex at a less regular interval. Great sex does ironically need some abstinence.

The craziest thing is that, even with all that sex I was having with my ex, I still had to get myself one or two punts...there's something about punting sex that I do find special when everything is done right (and the couple of punts I had were amazing, except one)

I think I'd be pretty happy with once or twice a week. It's nicer for me when I get to that "can't hold it in anymore" tipping point, and basically around 5 days is it.

On 2023-03-10 12:37:32 SmashP said:
I need an opinion just to get a woman's point of view.

This is just on a general scale.

Why is it that women don't want to give out sex as much as possible? Especially in marriage? Why do you think this is happening?

Check page 2 of this thread, N4P explains it very well.

On 2023-03-10 08:22:49 Sabrina said:
At least twice a day, for me. Or I start acting out of order. Ha ha ha!!

This sounds like music to my ears...

On 2023-03-10 13:30:28 Angie said:
On 2023-03-10 12:37:32 SmashP said: I need an opinion just to get a woman's point of view.

This is just on a general scale.

Why is it that women don't want to give out sex as much as possible? Especially in marriage? Why do you think this is happening?



1. Manipulation

Woman know she might be mad at you for something that happened 10 years ago and she doesn't wanna suffer alone.

2. You forgot about the small things
Ie. Do you still make her a cup of coffee... do you send lingerie... flowers....small shit you used to do when you first started to get to know each other.

3. It gets boring

4. Hormones

5. Self esteem issues on her side.

Hope.this helps

Thanks Angie. You are a superstar.

On 2023-03-10 14:36:28 3OfAKind said:
On 2023-03-10 12:37:32 SmashP said: I need an opinion just to get a woman's point of view.

This is just on a general scale.

Why is it that women don't want to give out sex as much as possible? Especially in marriage? Why do you think this is happening?



Check page 2 of this thread, N4P explains it very well.

@3Ofkind, unfortunately this is a little too late for me.
Lol.
I am balls deep in marriage. But suffering from being deprived of sex.

On 2023-03-10 17:25:23 SmashP said:
On 2023-03-10 13:30:28 Angie said: On

This is just on a general scale.

Why is it that women don't want to give out sex as much as possible? Especially in marriage? Why do you think this is happening?

1. Manipulation

Woman know she might be mad at you for something that happened 10 years ago and she doesn't wanna suffer alone.

2. You forgot about the small things
Ie. Do you still make her a cup of coffee... do you send lingerie... flowers....small shit you used to do when you first started to get to know each other.

3. It gets boring

4. Hormones

5. Self esteem issues on her side.

Hope.this helps


Thanks Angie. You are a superstar.

My absolute pleasure :)

There is a very logical explanation to this conundrum for those who believe in evolution but likely to spark an illogical debate with those who favour religion.