On 2023-01-05 07:16:04 Johnny English said:
Many reasons why we punt.
For many it's a fantasy or an escape for a couple of hours. Unless the punter was a real jerk, and the SP would prefer not to see him again, at least play out his fantasy or complete his "escape" till he walks out the door. Unless she doesn't really need or want the return business.

100% correct the other day I cut a booking short and gave him back some of his money because he was a asshole and he hurt me I don't see the point in keeping up an act with a duche bag like that, it's best this kind of man doesn't return. I'm not going to pretend because I would rather not have his money. Money is not everything my wellbeing however is.

Guys who have been with me and have treated me like gold will be leaving with an amazing good bye, hell there are a number of guys here I'm sure you can find a few of them in my reviews who I have enjoyed so much I lost track of time with them but never charged them a cent extra because they were just that much fun to have been around and I thoroughly enjoyed my sessions with them. I am not going to treat everyone like that because not everyone is worth that extra time to me.

I am always pleasant and polite even with the duche bags but it does not mean that I want them all to return.Only the really nice ones.

I've seen ladies say I have a client one the way but he's not a pleasant because he smells his rough or whatever the case maybe. They put up with the client because it's money. Not me I'm sooooo sorry I can't, I'll leave those clients to the ladies who are prepared to deal with them. I'm just grateful for the ladies who do deal with them. When I was still young and dumb I used to put up with them too. Now I am older and I realised not everyone is Worth my time and not everyone's money is worth money is worth my time. My peace of mind and wellbeing is definitely more important to me than putting myself through crap.No amount of money in this world is worth it to me so I'm not going to kiss ass for it either.

Maybe I am a bit spoilt I have built up a large number of regular clientle over the years. Some of which I have been seeing for 2 decades + I have no problem in engaging with them way before the bookings sometimes for a couple of days before and it may carry on till way after the booking. These guys and I have build a solid relationship good byes with them are always amazing because I know that they are actually not a good bye but a until I see you again.

I am responsible for the way I allow people to treat me at the end of the day. There are somethings that I just can't and will not tolerate for no amount of money at the end of the day.

On 2023-01-05 08:00:59 Petite Maya said:


Its just annoying that clients or rather some people on here think if A does it then so should B. Find your fit, not everyone is the same and wants the same.

Or soon will all of us now have to offer kissing and anal? Has the bar sunken that weak. Respect to those that offer it (i do too :) :) yummy kissing, various things infact but in my personal life) - just saying some of us dont and members should stop comparing.Otherwise Sps can compare cock sizes too and amount of tips we get from A - B clients. I doubt men will be pleased with that.

i dont think its a matter of comparing really. i think they'll be mentioning SP's whom they think give a stella service and with that trying to Encourage other SP's to up their game in terms of service.....Maybe if we can stop being on defence mode most at times and try to listen and learn from some things said and maybe correct some stuff we think we would be doing right yet we might not

On 2023-01-04 22:46:23 Littlerascal said:
I'd rather they go cold after providing a stellar service because they got the job done.

Around 2018, I had a booking and halfway the lady started crying. Said I reminded her of her ex. Such a mood killer. Left there with a half empty wallet and blue balls after listening to her sob story.

You have no idea how many times this has happened. You walk into a room and find a woman on the verge of a mental breakdown. You can either choose to climb on top of her like real creep like nothing's wrong or offer to listen her vent until she calms down - which usually lasts about 45 minutes.

I've paid to give girls therapy quite a number of times..

I agree with wot Arhwen said

@coyote sorry my lady, sometimes i do hear but just dont listen. I think my ear ducts are blocked. Any client want lick my ears clean inside? I'll offer that as a special service.


Also i dont think anyone here are being defensive. its just annoying i guess and find it rather illogical to expect all SPs to offer the same . i feel that an SP should never ever have to "correct" her boundaries or self respect.

I dont offer most things but let me tell you naughty men wot i do offer:

A good relaxing massage, would you love to be pampered with my naughty little fingers? I do various techniques to relieve those muscle aches and tension. While I slowly get into things sensually, i slide my tight toned body all over your body ...leaving you with all naughty thoughts and desires. While sliding my oiled up boobs all over your body i give your balls a good few tickles from behind. I do alot of bend, buckles, twist and turns while sliding back and forth on your hot and bothered body. At this point im really happy to see your cock is pleased with my touches and strokes; i love giving mr lots of attention and a good end release, with sensual strokes with my palms and fingers...but before that....lots of sliding, because im a fun portable petite size i often give you a very good views of me in different positions and angles while sliding, I know how to work my body around a massage table, ill squat above your head, while stretching my body and massaging you(only to nice respectful ones) Lots of touching intimacy, tickles and teasing.


I love giving massages, i love wot i do bcz that wot im comfortable with. Mostly importantly I appreciate that there are clients that recognize me for being a masseuse. Most clients appreciate my professionally trained and skilled massage. They come to me for my massage bcz its wot im really good at, they appreciate me taking my time to keep them relaxed, pamper them and those knots away.

@Maya You're pretty clear about what you offer. There is nothing wrong about that. Plenty of guys, myself included are more than happy with that kind of service when the mood is right.

On 2023-01-05 07:06:16 Bobby Z said:
On 2023-01-04 08:41:22 Petite Maya said: lol not directed at you or anyone specific BUT i think clients really need to understand and accept the CLIENT / SPs relationship is just that.

I often find some are looking for a girlfriend experience and chatting etc. this isn't the platform for it. Its your own expectations that disappointed you.

Some clients really need to sit and think...if I wasn't paying her, will she still see me or "enjoy" the session.

There are lots of other apps and sites that offer wot you want, purple world will only leave you disappointed with regards to that.

This is what seperates the likes of Laura Love, Elle Rider,Russian Bridgette, Karen from all other SP's. They stay engaged right up until you leave.

Grrrrrrr!....thank u Bobby Z...BUT I must admit u are that sort that makes a woman wanna give and give and givvvvvvve...as well as take! U are A Gem of a man among many Gentlemanly gems.

What lucky SP's we are!

X.

RB: wicked is as wicked does :)

BobbyZ: you're ridiculously cool though, you'll always get the best ;) xx

BOOBS53: Indeed. And you should xx

Excellent topic.
I had an unbelievable evening with an incredible SP, she definitely exceeded my expectations.
It was an all nighter and was absolutely perfect until the next morning, she was fully engaged and not clock watching.... but i went "cold"....sort of morning after guilt... just could not explain it.

On 2023-01-05 12:18:26 Kev_b said:
Excellent topic.
I had an unbelievable evening with an incredible SP, she definitely exceeded my expectations.
It was an all nighter and was absolutely perfect until the next morning, she was fully engaged and not clock watching.... but i went "cold"....sort of morning after guilt... just could not explain it.

Precisely. There wasn't rudeness, frustration or anything like that. Just a different vibe.
But I think I'll go with the 'postnut clarity' explanation for my own peace of mind.

U get what u pay for. Communication upfront will assist in this regard. Respect goes a long way