On 2023-02-04 22:44:46 Jess @ Broadway said:
It's not a one way thing though. I had a really rough day once. Ended a 6 year friendship, it had been coming for a while.

Unfortunately the final good bye happened right before my first appointment for the day.

The client, whom I have seen for over 18 years immediately picked up something was wrong. He looked at me and said "You want to talk about it? You look like you need a hug."

Right there I just broke down completely. I mean snot and tears. He let me cry it out, and listened to the whole story and gave me some really good advice.

He still books me, and nothing has changed. He doesn't know how much his comfort meant to me that day. It was like seeing a therapist. A safe space to just be.

I think, both sides benefit from a wholesome exchange.

Damn, so you've been seeing him since you were 19 at most if of it was this year. That's crazy.

Hope he gave you the session as a freebie and didn't bill you for the therapy at least.

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I have reviews from him dating back to 2007, under a different name. Time flies.

You can't even go back that far on the forum anymore.

No, he actually saw me for the first time when I turned 18. Somewhere around that time, I remember the venue I was at when I met him.

Yes you're right, lucky he didn't bill me :D

In the IT industry its called outsourcing - if you don't get what you need then you outsource it to someone that can provide the service that you expect

I would say yes there's a lot you can't do or can't get at home
a simple example most men don't receive BJ's at home
you can't even nibble missu's toes
all those things she won't do you will get them from an escort
so escorts are like a men's therapy
you pay SP's a consultation fee to talk to you
if you got the right one you walk out of there smiling with less weight on your shoulders

The answer to this depends on what one is looking for, but again therapist is used very loosely. Some may 'save' your marriage because there's an outlet to distress and feel good, but this is subject to you find the right escort who conducts herself accordingly. Some may ultimately lead to the demise of not only your marriage, but yours too because of who they associate with and their abuse of narcotics.

On 2023-02-05 11:51:20 Littlerascal said:
The answer to this depends on what one is looking for, but again therapist is used very loosely. Some may 'save' your marriage because there's an outlet to distress and feel good, but this is subject to you find the right escort who conducts herself accordingly. Some may ultimately lead to the demise of not only your marriage, but yours too because of who they associate with and their abuse of narcotics.

Agreed bud. Also because they threaten to out you or sell your number to captain Smith

Reminds of a saying that goes like "Nyatsi e thekga Lapa".

Loosely translated: "a side chick provides some support to the family".
Basically this is where men get their therapy from.

As I grow up, this statement becomes more truer.

I beg to differ ,some of us are just down to earth like that ,very good listeners and assist where we can

I've even became really good friends with clients ,what we do shouldn't dictate who we are !!!

I belive some of the sp are definitely a good enough therapist for the most of marriages. What would the client do if the sp was not available?
I also have been putting in the work of understanding the way men need to get things out that would absolutely make the best decision for their marriage had they not had access to someone who is familiar with, non bias,
honest and not going to make a negative impact in the process due to discretion and the trust of the sp also the non interference. So yes. I do think so.

In general you don't ask your mechanic for medical advice, nor the doctor to fix your car, although both might be able to do it.

When in need of it, you go to the professional best qualified for the job.