On 2016-12-13 09:54:34 Ziske said:
On 2016-12-12 22:06:07 Lovemuff said: but can't help to wonder then that if a girl was treated badly before that she will inevitably treat her clients badly, because the respect factor was lost along the way?

I have been through a lot in my life and let me tell you whatever happened to me I don't take it out on my clients.

Most women are in this industry for that one reason, they seek what they never could get or have, because they get treated well, complimented, gifts, affection. Those are things that some never had in their lives. They feel a boost of confidence and they feel attractive and wanted. Some ladies even make friends that are geniune. They even get an amazing self esteem and they start building a personality that shows they are beautiful. Here we ladies can be ourselves and not be judged

couldn't have said it beter..

Thanks @Taylor ;)

I think your question should be "what do SPs want?" Not because we are not women, haha, but needs inside and outside of the industry I feel are quite different. I do not seek anything emotional from my clients, but I would with a partner.

Sorry to pop anyones balloon, but this is a business. To over romanticise and complicate what really should be a bit of fun, escape and fantasy I feel is really spoiling everything. I feel, that part of the "transaction" is the punters guarantee that they get left the hell alone once they leave. So why would you want a SP to contact you afterwards?

The old adage of "you can buy my body but you cant buy my soul" kind of rings true here. This isn't a relationship. Enjoy it for what it is. Yes there is very often chemistry, I get that a lot, but that just means the sessions are more sexy and steamy. Doesn't mean we are now falling in love. I don't ever have to "cut off" my emotions because I am a grown up and I know that this is a physical thing and I am getting paid for it. I enjoy myself but I always keep a sense of professionalism.

My past, death of my dog, spanking with a wooden spoon when I bunked school or whatever other crap doesn't affect how I am with you as my client. I am always just me, but I treat this as my business (not to be mistaken for being cold and fake compliments etc), and because of that I have many, many repeat clients that have been visiting me for years.

I agree with Sarah. SP means that you provide a service. Not looking for a relationship. That's what dating websites are for. It's great when there is a connection between a sp and the client but we're not here to fall in love. So what do women want as a SP.. Be on time or phone when you are going to be late or can't make the appointment. Make sure you are nice and clean. No B.O. Treat the lady with respect. . If you do all that there will be a connection 99.9% of the time.
Just my 2cents

I always find this notion that you need to treat someone with respect, so surprising. Do you not always treat ALL people with respect?

Maybe just the way i have been brought up. But i always treat people with loads of respect. Another person is always better than you yourself with something. You are most certainly not the best in everything - irrespective of how gifted you might be.

I have so much respect for my domestic - having to do all the stuff i dread doing. Or my gardener sweating in my garden - i hate physical work. The guy willing to clean the streets or the toilets - i have so much respect for these people! How can you possibly look down on another human being?

Now WGs. I honestly admire you. And in a positive way. To me it is so sexy and liberating to do this! I find it so naughty and sexy to pay for sex. Maybe thats half the fun for me. But disrespect you!? How? Why?

Ok, let me finally confess. There is one career i cannot admire. Which i find utterly discusting. Speedcops. And politiians are kreeping up on that list of people i struggle to respect. But i swear, thats those are the only 2 occupations i disrespect...

Maybe a bit of thread, but just to emphasisze i do not understand men not respecting women in general or WGs in particular. You are simply awesome!

@Sibyl, Ziske and Sarah.

Thank you. These are the types of responses I was hoping for in a way.

Please do understand that I am not looking for love or relationships. I had those things a long time ago. This was just to gain some understanding.

Sure lovemuff. I hope it did answer some of your questions. Like Jordan says, we are SERVICE PROVIDERS. That alone should answer your question. The "tone" of your original question sounded almost bitter and accusatory that we don't offer emotional, falling in love stuff to our clients... That's how I read it anyways. But I have been wrong before. Once, a very long time ago :-)

On 2016-12-13 15:06:54 Sarah said:
Sure lovemuff. I hope it did answer some of your questions. Like Jordan says, we are SERVICE PROVIDERS. That alone should answer your question. The "tone" of your original question sounded almost bitter and accusatory that we don't offer emotional, falling in love stuff to our clients... That's how I read it anyways. But I have been wrong before. Once, a very long time ago :-)

LMFAO

Let me just say 1 thing all clients arnt innocent aswell....

My person favorite excuses for wasting my time is the following

I forgot my wallet

Bank just swallowed my card

Oh sorry I didnt cancel I didnt have time....ps if uve got time to piss then u can send a msg im not gonna make it....

This is from a total different angle...but had to say that.

as Sarah says:
I feel, that part of the "transaction" is the punters guarantee that they get left the hell alone once they leave.
Actually the old adage is that men don't pay for sex, they pay to be able to leave!!
Due to the "intimacy" of the service there will be times when men think there is a connection that doesn't actually exist (a friendship maybe?) How many women can relate to only ever hearing their boyfriend or husbands tell them they love them just as they are about to cum!!
These ladies provide a service and and may enjoy the time with some of their clients but I don't believe that they want anything else. It is the punters who are most likely to get too emotional.
I once made the mistake of misreading a "connection" with a long term regular. As it it turned out that's all I was, a good client who provided an income. From my experience the ladies are in it for the money - finish and klaar!
& isn't that exactly what punters are doing during THEIR day jobs, just making a living?