The punters need to understand that NO means NO.

However, as we all know, times are tough. So punters will attempt to get more bang for their buck.

Talk,discuss and agree and have a great time....
OR
Talk, discuss, and disagree then move on and find the services you require from a lady that is willing to provide them.

NO means NO

I agree. Just like yesterday i got told by a punter that i will be in a booking with him from yesterday afternoon till teusday for a set amount whicj was way under priced and when i said no he started to swear me

I agree. Just like yesterday i got told by a punter that i will be in a booking with him from yesterday afternoon till teusday for a set amount whicj was way under priced and when i said no he started to swear me

I have zero credibility on this platform- given time and frequency of posting determines any influence here.

However, I can attest that Lianca and I have had in-depth discussion, that did not result in a booking (circa July 2023) for personal reasons. However never did she waiver in her personality, softness or openness in terms of what was available etc.

So, unless she has shifted greatly from then- live a little easier, you may be happier

On 2023-10-09 13:56:12 Lysa said:
On 2023-10-09 11:46:28

The "kak attitude" only comes out when "No" is not accepted as an answer. I know Lianca well enough to know she treats her clients like royalty when they treat her with respect.

Lysa you're looking mighty fine

What is going on with punters lately who think they can tell us what they will pay us and then when we politely send our rates (which they didn't have or request because they simply decided our fees for us) they then tell us how they were just asking yet it was actually a statement.

I'm all for being accommodating and understanding but good-golly it's really not a very pleasant conversation once the negotiating attempt has happened :(

So Lianca..are you saying there is no place for negotiating in this process? Surely a service provider can just say no..to whatever a punter suggests or asks for?

@Synergy clearly you've misread my whole message and that's okay, this happens. But let me clarify for those who lack the ability to comprehend things... there was no negotiating, I was told that I will be paid R600 for an hour, no question mark not request.. I WAS TOLD and then I politely sent my rates and explained that in order to see me for 30 minutes he would need to double up on the R600 making it R1200, he then backtracked in saying how he was asking for it to be R600... I am very understanding in most circumstances and I for one will always try accommodate punters to the best of my ability however I don't appreciate being told straight off the bat what I will be paid when you have no idea what my fees are.

@lianca... its completely shocking that the punter just told you what you will be paid! :( the arrogance and entitlement :( - sorry that you have to justify yourself to the punters. No WG should have to. The prerogative is always with the lady...

You know what.. seeing as us as SP's can't start new threads otherwise it goes to Advertiser Promotions.. I'll just comment here.

What is wrong with the punters on this site! Ask for our rates then respond with a snotty message telling us how our prices are to "high" and how they can go to a venue and have a few beers and then interact with the girls and only pay R1200 for an hour and basically coming across like they want a discount! Then when I respond quite nicely (happy to screengrab the chat and share it with those who want it) then I get told I'm attacking them because I told them I don't appreciate the arrogance and the response was unnecessary and definitely unwelcomed. ITS SIMPLE IF OUR RATES ARE NOT WITHIB YOUR BUDGET THEN MOVE ON INSTEAD OF REPLYING WITH ARROGANCE IN HOPES FOR A DISCOUNT!
If anything and you had some manners and then maybe I would consider being accommodating but then you get clever and threaten me with a whatsapp group.. seriously... so because I told you that I don't appreciate the arrogance now you want to run to a whatsapp group? I can't deal.. some punters should honestly stop treating us girls the way they do because it's not okay!