"Anyone who is deluded enough to think anything good can come from a relationship founded in this industry should go seek professional help. Everyone on this site comes with a load full of baggage, not a good foundation for a relationship."

for the record Sloane, my remark about great selling and acting skills was meant as a complement. It is we men who are the fools most of the time.

On 2017-04-18 01:13:16 mervhughes said:
I am married - aren't most punters? - and can't offer her anything but me.
....I love pussy and used to punt several times a month.

Let's not confuse the issues. Above is your two problems. Forget about the fact that she is even a wg. Even if she worked at the bank down the road it will not work. Number one - you are married and have no intention of leaving your wife, number two - you have no intention of being in a committed relationship with just her as you love pussy too much and the only reason you are "cutting down" is financial and has nothing to do with how you feel about her.

Wg or no wg, any relationship with you would be doomed. I hope this lady doesnt fall for you.

I think sometimes perceptions get skewed on this site. If he posted the following: "Im falling for this girl at work, but I am married and I love pussy and punt regularly" people would see it for what it is. A married guy who loves punting and tries to get with this girl. But just because she is a wg the focus now shifts towards her with some saying it can never work because she is a wg. What about him?!

Chasten

I see it as a compliment, infact if I were to ever get back into the corporate world where I was in sales, this is where I would come to poach sales people. Imagine if these girls can give such a exceptional sales pitch to punters what would they be capable of when mammoth amounts of commission are involved. With proper training SP would make some of the best sales people out there!

Sloane

@Vegas you really have a point

On 2017-04-18 14:55:58 Vegas said:
On 2017-04-18 01:13:16 mervhughes said: I am married - aren't most punters? - and can't offer her anything but me.
....I love pussy and used to punt several times a month.

Let's not confuse the issues. Above is your two problems. Forget about the fact that she is even a wg. Even if she worked at the bank down the road it will not work. Number one - you are married and have no intention of leaving your wife, number two - you have no intention of being in a committed relationship with just her as you love pussy too much and the only reason you are "cutting down" is financial and has nothing to do with how you feel about her.

Wg or no wg, any relationship with you would be doomed. I hope this lady doesnt fall for you.

I love what you just said she being the wg is not the problem he is, he wants to have his bread buttered on both sides
As his wife is his best friend he has no intention of leaving her as he is happily married so will he be there for this wg in the she needs him (don't think so)
A wg is like any other women needs love, attention, mental n financial support he can't offer any of that you don't hear him say he wishes to just hold her or take her for supper or just talk to her, he talks about how he loves pussy
The way I see it he just wants free pusy or discount on it guys like this make a women afraid to date a client coz if u reject his so called love he won't be your regular anymore if u accept seeing him on the side he is just going shag u for free with out the responsibility of doing his bf part as he told u his marriage can't call him in the middle of the night his wife is next to him he is in lust with her not love

In general
Girls do this to survive, to make ends meat.
Guys do this cause they need it.

U decide whos got the better motive here

On 2017-04-18 07:36:13 Rajpotions said:
Terrible predicament! But I think Crave makes some very good points.

If I may ask, why didn't it work out the first 2 times?

It didn't work out cause they realised all he wanted was free pussy, hence you get girls who use men for their own benefit, it's because of heart breakers like this one...

At the risk of being torn apart here goes...

One may love more than one at a given time,
One may not necessarily be in love with the one they love but be in love with another,
Sure, sometimes we want our bread buttered on both sides (don't like bread and don't like butter) have our cake and eat it (still don't get this one)
But there are moments unexpected that an emotional connection is made between 2 people, unasked for, that creates a bond that at times might be fleeting and very rarely lasting.
It is true that there is almost no future for a punter & wg. Most punters are married and as already stated would not leave their wives to forge and expand on this new found feeling, or quit their punting and remain faithful to their new found love, or be able to provide her the income she was usdd to.
That being said I've been in a relationship with a WG, had an affair outside of my marriage and very rarely experienced an overwhelming love or affection for another woman aside from my wife. I've never asked to feel this bond, emotion or connection yet it doesn't change the fact that I love my wife and won't leave her. The price I have paid for these attachments have varied from severe financial losses to heart shattering pain and yet I still cherish every bond and connection I shared regardless of the outcome.

I have loved more than one woman at a time. I currently am in love with a woman who isn't my wife. Yet I love my wife. And yes I know the difference between lust and love. Will it last? Probably not. Will either one of us get hurt? Possibly. I used to ignore these emotions in the past. Now I'll explore and see where it takes us. I truly love her and getting to know her. I miss her insanely when I dont speak to her or see her. Does she love me? Not really sure, but that's okay. What will be will be and I'll enjoy every second of it.

I agree with Vegas!