On 2016-12-13 17:18:54 Meg said:
On 2016-12-13 16:39:34 Sibyl said: Honest answer?
In a group setting / working environment, some girls may skinder about a client when he is not around or out of earshot, maybe even make fun of him or bitch about what a difficult asshole he is etc. This is not unheard of.
Equally some punters may skinder about a service provider to another punter or even to another service provider, maybe saying what a frigid bitch she is or how bad her personal hygiene is etc. This is not unheard of and guys are already doing that on this general forum and in the review section!
So some punters may not be held in high esteem by service providers, just like some service providers may not be held in high esteem by punters.
However, if a punter is nice and a gentleman who respects boundaries and so on, he will mostly be treated with respect and the service provider may perhaps not think of him as merely a wallet on legs, she may actually see the person behind the wallet and look forward to when he books again.
Equally, if the service provider is nice and behaves like a lady, she will mostly be treated with respect and the punter may perhaps not think of her as merely a piece of meat on legs, he may actually see the person behind the meat.
Moral of the story? Men and women alike, are capable of talking badly about another person - not only in this industry, but also in the outside world. It is not a nice trait, but such is life.....
Perhaps without realizing it, the punter looks down on the service provider's profession and the service provider looks down on him for paying for sex. They disapprove of each others choices and behavior, but ironically need each other in order to give life to their own personal choices....and therein lies your answer.
Give this lady a ice cold drink! Agreed.