On 2023-09-27 11:33:23 XTL said:
Y'all are speaking nonsense. Only reason why even book a chick is because yall need the sex. Whether you good look, not good looking, don't have a leg, don't have eyes, erectile dysfunction...as long as you have the money in exchange for the sex you get it coz these girls sell sex in any case for guys who can't get laid PERIOD!!!!!!

Those are the basic facts that no one is disputing. But some of us, do look for that enriched meaningful (for that duration) experience and 9 times out of 10 we get it. Whether it's fake, i.e. the SP is just pretending for the sake of the cash, if she's good at her job then it ends up feeling real for that time.

Exactly so these women are smart. They saw that there is a demand for sex and female companion hence making a business out of it. It's all business gents. They don't care about US AT ALL!!!

On 2023-09-26 16:14:32 Hazel Arabia said:
What's better is finding a provider who does both. I consider every booking (esp those with new lovers) to be a date. I'll get ready in the same ways I do with actual dates, and make coffee, and involve quite a bit of teasing conversation at the start of these dates. If we hit it off, I put some extra effort into the second date, wearing the lingerie he told me he likes etc.

Many may not see the value in these types of bookings but honestly I think everyone could use that bit of romance and anticipation in their lives. A lot of the men I see are definitely handsome and emotionally mature enough to get into relationships, but are simply too busy. And those guys, they deserve a warm comfy set of titties to rest their faces on too.

I totally agree with you on the last statement. Hehehe

There's literally dudes here who probably book every single day just to have that female companionship. Don't you think a dude like that certainly has no skill(s) to even get a chick in the outside world. He books coz it's easier. All there is to do is to just pay and you get sex. That is why some of these chick's even go as charging ridiculous rates coz dudes here are desperate

Why on earth are y'all still giving this troll attention... they say the same shit on every thread "waaahh waahh women will never fuck me for free because I'm a piece of shit entitled human and other men make it worse for me by actually treating these women like they're worth something waahh wahhhh" just shut the fuck up XTL. Talk about tiny dick energy.

On 2023-09-27 07:33:43 Horny Gent said:

You know what my problem with you is? That you're not in Johannesburg.

Highly considering spending a month or two over there, within the new year.

4378330;XTL These women want nothing but your money. I'm not surprised that HazelArabia was the first to give destructive information




Even in the world outside of punting women still want your money, I think it all comes down to getting something out of that money you spend

On 2023-09-27 07:03:21 XTL said:
The fact that alot of the gents here seem to be wanting to get out of this punting habit says alot. You gents know deep down that it's SIMP behavior. None of these women have respect for a guy who pays for sex. Like I have been saying this is all a business. If you guys stop punting , that means no business for these women.So they will do whatever it takes to make you gents feel important. I realized this and have significantly minimized punting

Even though I know you're a troll. I know who you are Ma'am. I think this message put things into perspective for me. I started punting shortly after getting married because it's less risk of getting caught than being out in the world and meeting women. I tried quitting many times, even deleting my account here but I kept coming back.

I never had a problem getting laid but the risk of a woman going crazy and my wife finding out is what drew me to this place. I suppose it's my ego that will be the deciding factor for me leaving for good because I never thought of myself as a simp but I guess you're right, paying a woman for her time, affection, attention and sex is very Simpy behavior. Guess it's time to man up and take the risk like men have been for centuries. At least the punting taught me to cover my tracks better so my punting phone will be repurposed or I'll stay faithful to my wife, let's see....good luck out there guys and girls. It's been a pleasure.

On 2023-09-27 11:11:42 Raven said:
I think we can all agree that it is so satisfying/fulfilling to meet a great person in a massage room. Yes there may be financial exchange, but it actually means a lot to a lady when a man is willing to share what is valuable to him to show appreciation for her. It's a lovely compliment too, and yes in our normal lives you may not be compatible but in the room chemistry is the only key that matters. There are ladies and gentlemen that make it so obvious that there is an exchange happening, and sometimes two people just don't click but when you actively look for a sp that is best for you it feels like a dream come true for both you and the lady ;) Don't be discouraged though, find what works for you xxx

Raven I agree with you 100%. I have met some of the most interesting and good looking men in this industry. We offer a fantasy, something that is not apart of the "real world" out there and this is infact something I as a SP also benefit from. The industry has given me a space to freely be me and explore my sexuality in ways "real relationships" couldn't provide. Money is a piece of the puzzle and you can only see it's full potential and beauty once all the pieces have been put together.

xXx

Oh @Ivy even validated all this even more. As she said she's met the most good looking dudes in this industry. Here's the question, what would a good looking dude be doing here? Exactly! Just shows that even if you good looking, it still takes some skill to get laid. You literally have to fit a "type" that is tick a chick's boxes for her to give you pussy that is in the outside. Here the dudes see it as easy coz all you do is pay and you get sex. So you ladies here having all this knowledge you try to master all factors to get all types of men who really can't be laid to keep paying yall for sex