Isn't it about boundaries? If he sees you without paying it means a boundary has been crossed that maybe he isn't ready for or doesn't want. Alternatively, he might feel like not paying would be taking advantage, or that it creates an obligation.

Karma is a bitch , just move on, like we all have to do sometimes

Hi Sabrina. It's clear that you have made advances to him and these have been rejected.
Rejection is painful whatever the circumstances and irrespective of the industry we work in.
You made advances to him as a woman and the fact that you are in this industry does not make you immune to this rejection and hurt. No amount of rationalization can make it better.
I see your pain, but that doesn't make it any easier for you. Just know that your pain is what makes you human and your willingness to be vulnerable makes you all the more attractive.
Thank you for sharing this part of yourself with us.
Wishing you strength.

He sounds like a me kinda guy...just doesnt want any blurred lines. Yes, he enjoys your company, as much as you enjoy his BUT you are here to earn a living and he is, in his mind, making use of your time and services, even if it is just hanging out. This is also just from your perspective, he may have a myriad of other reasons that has nothing to do with you at all. As long as he chooses to spend time with you and pays you for said time, then it is what it is. I dont think there is any rejection from his side

Don't develop personal feelings with clients. The purple world is purely a transaction nothing more and nothing less.

I would say most punters, especially the committed relationship one's punting specifically to avoid these types of situations.

They want what they want, with who they want, at the time they want it, at the location they prefer, at the price that want it and nothing more and nothing less. Paying makes it clear that it's done and I don't need to entertain you any further until I want to again, you "I'll call you, don't call me." No strings attached.

N4P

Us fucknuts don't like commitment :(((

On 2022-08-08 14:10:45 Need4Passion said:
I would say most punters, especially the committed relationship one's punting specifically to avoid these types of situations.

They want what they want, with who they want, at the time they want it, at the location they prefer, at the price that want it and nothing more and nothing less. Paying makes it clear that it's done and I don't need to entertain you any further until I want to again, you "I'll call you, don't call me." No strings attached.

N4P

Spot on... Couldn't have said it better myself....

Sorry Sabrina....
The Man sounds insecure... He feels he could possibly end up liking you and therefore pays you to make himself feel better.

Aww sweetie, it always confuses me as to how guys would be willing to spend thousands of rands on us in the business, but its always that ONE person in our private life we don't want a price tag from that gives us abit of a head pain lol.


My opinion talk to him about it. There are many guys out here that will charm you just to get a "free treatment" it happens all the time to me, flirty flirty just to get more without paying lol. So take it in a positive light that he isn't "paying you" he rather is gifting you, he wants to spoil you still. He could be trying to make a move in a more romantic way, rather than "just doing the deed"

I feel you bcz we both are strong and independent woman, but at times you need to let your guard down and allow him to spoil you. Men naturally are providers / leaders and i think he just wants to spoil you. Be vulnerable and soft in the most beautiful way around him and you'll see...lol ;-)

Enjoy it my darling remember a Prada dress never broke anyones heart before ;-)