On 2026-03-19 17:23:26 ProdigalPunter said:
On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said: Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

Do they want to have sex with us regularly though?

And by sex, I mean proper sex, not just sticking the morning wood in and thrusting as fast as you can as she just lays there.

There's SPs here that will eat some man's ass for an extra R300 but don't do that for their actual boyfriends/husbands.

Why do you think that is?

Jesus some of you are fucked up

On 2026-03-19 21:40:28 Inquisitive1 said:
On 2026-03-19 17:23:26 ProdigalPunter said: On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said: Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

Do they want to have sex with us regularly though?

And by sex, I mean proper sex, not just sticking the morning wood in and thrusting as fast as you can as she just lays there.

There's SPs here that will eat some man's ass for an extra R300 but don't do that for their actual boyfriends/husbands.

Why do you think that is?

Jesus some of you are fucked up

Why would you say that? He's just highlighting something that's very factual and common in married couples. He isn't fucked up but the common thing he's talking about is.

JP69

JP69 only spitting facts here.

Neither to judge nor condone...

I wish I had known what I know now prior to entering the naughty space in 2015.

It would have made me even better in the work I did, and still do (now with greater insight).

Is there one answer for these so called "cravings".

No.

From being addicted to the excitement, variety and living out fantasies.
To finding a solution to manly needs without upsetting the applecart at home.


To


...simply being a philanderer, part of ones character.

Each man to their own.

And thus to treat each man who walks across my threshold differently, irrespective of booking "RB".

I see you without judgement or lumped into a "gender".

I see the man and the "energy" he brings with him.

RB.

On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said:
Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

You might find a guy leaving the so called hottest woman on earth (very subjective i know) to cheat with a stripper or WG. Eric Bennett did it to Halle Berry and there was nothing wrong with Halle Berry. A legend once said, the only thing nicer than pussy is new pussy!

On 2026-03-21 09:24:06 Former_Vuyisile said:
On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said: Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

You might find a guy leaving the so called hottest woman on earth (very subjective i know) to cheat with a stripper or WG. Eric Bennett did it to Halle Berry and there was nothing wrong with Halle Berry. A legend once said, the only thing nicer than pussy is new pussy!

Let's play devil's advocate.


Who says nothing might be wrong with Halle Berry?

U lived with her? Shared a home with her?

It takes much more than just looks to make a person turn to another for basic needs.

RB.

It's a blunt question, but a real one---and the honest answer is: it's usually not just about sex.

A few things tend to be going on, and they can overlap:

1. Novelty vs. familiarity
Humans are wired to respond to newness. Even in a good, active sex life, the brain still reacts strongly to "something different." That doesn't mean the current partner isn't attractive or satisfying---it just means novelty triggers curiosity and dopamine.

2. Ego and validation
For some men, attention from other women feels like proof of desirability. It's less about wanting those women specifically and more about wanting to feel wanted.

3. Separation of desire and commitment
Some people can feel attraction outside their relationship without it affecting how they feel about their partner. Attraction is automatic.

4. Emotional gaps (even subtle ones)
Even if sex is regular, there might be unmet needs---attention, appreciation, excitement, connection---that they don't articulate well, so it comes out as wandering interest.

5. Habit and opportunity
Flirting, messaging, or seeking attention can become a habit, especially with social media. It's not always deep---it can just be impulsive behavior.

Nats

Natural selection, variety & virility.

Its because we jaags simple we cant just be with one woman variety drives us.

Former Viyisile summed it up perfectly, "the only thing nicer than pussy is new pussy".