- *Know your rights*:
Sex workers have the right to safety, dignity, and protection under the law.

- *Resources are available*: Organizations like those Kylie mentioned offer support, counseling, and advocacy.

- *You are not alone*: Many people and organizations care about your well-being and want to help.

- *There are options for leaving the industry*: If you're interested in exploring alternatives, there are organizations that can provide support and resources to help you transition.

Allora

Like Kylie said , you can google them , I can also share some to those who wish

Allora

Here are some institutions and crisis centers that wil be able to provide support and resources for individuals struggling with urges to harm others, including sexual abuse:

*Free and Confidential Resources:*

1. *Sexual Abuse Helpline (South Africa)*(available 24/7)
2. *Lifeline South Africa*: (available 24/7)
3. *SOS Sexual Assault Helpline* (available 24/7)
4. *The Trevor Project (for LGBTQ+ individuals)*(available 24/7)

*Paid Mental Health Services:*

1. *Private Therapists and Psychologists*: You can search online for private therapists or psychologists in your area who specialize in treating individuals with problematic sexual behaviors or urges.
2. *Mental Health Clinics*: Many private hospitals and clinics offer mental health services, including therapy and counseling, for individuals struggling with their sexual urges.

*Institutions and Organizations:*

1. *The Center for Sex Offender Management (CSOM)*: Although based in the US, they offer online resources and support for individuals struggling with problematic sexual behaviors.
2. *Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA)*: A 12-step program for individuals struggling with compulsive sexual behaviors.
3. *Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA)*: A 12-step program for individuals struggling with sex addiction and love addiction.

*Important Note:*

If you are struggling with urges to harm others, it is crucial to seek help immediately. These resources are available to support you in managing your urges and developing healthier coping mechanisms. Remember, seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness.

Please reach out to these resources or a trusted healthcare professional for guidance and support.

If you want this list with contact information, send me a whatsapp or dm and I'll gladly forward it.

Kylie

The OP could have raised his point in a better way, grammatical issues aside and the criticism of his post by anyone is not questioning or disagreeing the wg's have the same basic human rights as everyone else - you have to be a special kind of sick person if you believe otherwise. It does however appear that that OP is trying to make a point in relation to extreme criminal behaviour which I think you'd be hard pressed to find anyone on here would agree with.

On 2025-10-07 18:06:27 Vegas said:
Lol and u being a punter do u have rights since u realised and think that prostitutes don't have rights. Or u the one who is a sicko dear Colonizer ......

Vegas. As far as i can tell reading what this guy wrote he was actualy coming up for working girls. Defending their rights. Why are u attacking him. Maybe go read what he wrote again.

Well that was graphic! And sick to picture.
An underworld that i would never associate myself with(makes me ask myself, am i a bad person for just being here?)
I truly hope it's not something that you lovely ladies ever experience.
I'm sure most of the ESA gents are great guys, but i cannot fathom the calibre of some for this to even be a topic, its a sad word that we live in.
The "P" word, That's a No No!
WG? nah more like my WF's(working friends) Treat them right gents. It's not a transaction, it's an experience xxx

You are not a bad person to being here.. no one is. I met some really nice people in the industry ,ladies and gentlemen. People seeking real connection ,good wholesome pleasure and a bit of relaxation. As this world is a non stop rush. A bit if "me" time and a well deserved personal spoil.

Yes this industry is extremely dangerous, but there is a "good" side to it , with good people and real connection.

Kylie

On 2025-10-08 12:11:30 PCPC said:
Due to a change in my life I have had to find employment after years of running my own business, which I was passionate about.

Here are some facts:
- Anybody working in a job they hate are selling themselves!! It is no different to what WG's do!!
- Running your business is hard and stressful and takes guts. Doing it is the purple world is harder. These WG's have an inner strength I wish for.

I have often said to the WG's that their fees should be claimable from Medical Aid, they provide a service that has been needed over the centuries. Why has society stigmatised it?

Those that know who I am know they are always treated with respect and dignity.

My 10 cents worth!!

Thank you for this dignified message, kudos to you for recognizing and giving the deserved credits to hard working service providers ...
The strength, resilience and courage it takes to operate in this complex industry.
Ladies in the industry truly have a long list of skills of making it profitable and safe for themselves and fun , enjoyable and luxurious for their clients, day in and day out.

Your post is worth much more then 10c.

Thank you kindly.

Kylie

Some ladies clearly cannot read with comprehension

To the original poster, well done on making this a topic of discussion.

Yes, for me, I look at these women with the utmost of respect as for them being human, they are not just that, but mum's sisters, gf some are wifes. They go home they cook they do homework with their kids and they are just normal ppl. For those that cant respect them you really need to re evaluate the way you were brought up because you have the problem not the ladies