On 2025-07-28 21:03:43 eziguy said:
No SP will openly admit that looks play a role and in my experience, this is more noticeable in younger SP's. I would know this because I've been with a few and when that certain client calls during the booking, they react with a strong sense of distaste.

To me it all boils down to the energy you bring into my space ...

On 2025-07-29 08:00:43 Arhwen said:
On 2025-07-28 21:03:43 eziguy said: No SP will openly admit that looks play a role and in my experience, this is more noticeable in younger SP's. I would know this because I've been with a few and when that certain client calls during the booking, they react with a strong sense of distaste.

To me it all boils down to the energy you bring into my space ...

Like I said, it's more prevalent in younger SP's.

@GDesign

Well... good looks might get you in the door, but charm, confidence, and how you make me feel? That's what unlocks the real experience.... Looks fade, but knowing exactly what to do with your hands... now that's unforgettable!

I can honestly say no it does not cos I know I am not an oil painting...unless I am a Picasso Original

However, here are my own personal rules for going out...anywhere

1. Shower properly - you may be used to your own smell others may not like it
2. Smell nice - the first holes you penetrate are nostrils
3. Dress neatly - doesn't matter if its a boiler suit or a tailored suit
4. Stomach in and Chest Out - not stomach out chest in
5. Don't be a doos

Probably yes but not as much as you'd think... I get my fair share of compliments from women (both in and out the game) and in both cases charm, confidence and wit have earned me far more bed notches than my handsome face lol ;)

Like everyone says charm, confidence, character, hygiene are key but what do I do when I open the door and boom Skomota is waving at me...I don't know what I'd do to myself

Lmao there's no denying looks play a part. Pretty priviledge is a thing after all. Looks don't last though and that doesn't just refer to aging.

One: Some man thinks that being hygienically clean is enough to violet or intentionally rebel against establish manner , as if 99.9% men aren't hygienically clean. This way of thinking for me is a major turn off.

Two: Respect
A man is respected by a woman when He shows debth , character and genuine understanding of himself and others.
Respecting her boundaries is understanding her limits and never pushing past them

Three: Owning mistakes
Apologising sincerely when wrong instead of deflecting or avoiding , I tell you that could lead to a next session with me if done correct.

It's not about to be someone impressive -its about being someone real

Allora

Yes. Attractive people get better service regardless pf what industry. It's no secret.

I tend to disagree with the general statement of "better looking people get better services"

Looks are subjective..[where have we heard that before;)]

But that statement is very true.

What one person might find super attractive or good-looking another might find to be avarage or even not good looking at all.

Do I agree that the type of guy a certain lady finds attractive might get a bit more out of her than the avarage Joe..?

Even there I have to disagree because we as ladies suffer the same kind of "stage fright" you guys do when coming face to face with that one person that looks like the person that visits your dreams.

And that is more likely to impact service delivery negatively rather than positively.

Only saving grace then is the amount of professionalism a lady can manage to muster up to deliver the same level of service she delivers to every other client.

My personal opinion people are way way to hung up on looks..when things like health and respect are a lot more important when it comes to sharing one's body with another person.

Xxx
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