On 2024-01-24 21:20:12 Jess said:
For me it wasn't like that. If I was respected I gave my best with every booking.

Weird thing was, I never got turned on by hot clients, but by average dad bod men.

The thing is a hot client doesn't necessarily have the skills to make one wet so I get were you are coming from.

And like my previous post is some of them are too obnoxious to even make me jell with them. Though in December I must be honest I have some seriously sexy skilled hotties I actually started wondering if it was Santa sending them to me for my Christmas pressie. There have been some really sexy men that knew which buttons to press but thiw is not always the case as some are actually quite gross and off putting because of their mannerism. You can be sexy Af but if the rest is lacking then it's a useless sexy body.

Looks are the LAST determining factor for me. I've said it a million times and I'll say it a million more - respect is sexy.

Respect outweighs charm and definitely will always outweigh looks!

I'm personally attracted to energy, so your looks mean absolutely nothing and won't get you a better service.

@69joe69 has a fantastic list that would definitely aid in receiving a better service from any person in this industry.

Below I have highlighted the points I agree with most!

I took number 4 out because I don't care if you trim your facial hair or not. My brand is to celebrate people in all shapes and forms, no matter your body shape, size, colour or bodily hair.

On 2024-01-24 18:09:40 69joe69 said:

1. Have manners when contacting the lady. Hello who are u

2. Make sure I'm dressed neatly

3. Make sure I smell good but nott too strong perfume.

5. Make sure my hygiene is up to scratch

6. Get the formalities done up front and out of the way so she never has to ask.

7. Speak to her kindly and be soft and gentle if u doing a gfe

8. No matter what never be rude, roar or drunk.

I want to expand on number 3 - I LOVE that there is a man (69joe69) who understands that less is more!

I can not begin to express how unbearable it is if your wear too much cologne - I change towels after every session, as one should. But there are times that the clients scent lingers on even after the towels have been washed. Their lingering cologne scent is sometimes so strong that even with the fan on, even after having the windows and doors open for some time and despite my best efforts to air out the place, I can not for the life of me get rid of that smell. I can burn all the incense I want, domestos the place but that whiff of overpowering cologne lingers on!

Gents, you don't want to leave smelling like us - so why do you wear so much cologne?

I'm a scent kind of guy, I love those who smell good. Please take note, LESS is more.

Just by the way - I have addressed this with my clients and they know better now ;) but this is for those of you who may not be aware of how much cologne you wear.

As JP said, it's a well researched topic and yes it matters, but only for a bit...

It's like the first taste of a meal. It's captures your attention (bad or good), but then fades as you continue to eat.

Everything else said here are evolved responses to 'beauty is more than just physical appearance'. Physical appearance may get you off the starting blocks faster, but won't sustain you through the marathon of life. And yes physical beauty is subjective, everyone had their own preference.

Slightly off the topic, but still part of the topic

One person said, 'pay extra' and many responded positively. Does money make you 'more attractive'.

On 2024-01-25 06:42:25 J_J said:


Slightly off the topic, but still part of the topic

One person said, 'pay extra' and many responded positively. Does money make you 'more attractive'.

Oh! Most definitely yes!...considering the many "seeking a sugar daddy" career choice made by lots and lots entering this "purple" world seeing the "wallets" that walk in.

Alert and assertive and highly motivated in bagging the next "lonely and generous wallet".


GRIN.

RB.

No I don't think so. Being respectful throughout the entire encounter, taking care to make sure you smell good, and being well groomed and having good hygiene gets you good service.

I have been lucky during my punting days. Respect always goes a long way. Also SP's also want to be made to feel like they are valued and not some cheap piece of ass. Show up clean, sober and well groomed. This formula has worked well for me and some of the ladies have even given me free services over the years and some are still friends that I see, socially. I find most guys Treat the ladies badly and expect Magix!!!

There's an African proverb which directly translates:

"The beauty of a man are his cows (money)"

That said I'm pretty sure if a Brett lookalike negotiated and managed to secure a half price booking he will be seen as ugly on arrival.

From what I have noticed, in general the quite young ladies are very impressed with looks and it will make a significant difference how you look. They are also more likely to treat you less than well if they think you are less attractive (read ugly). The more mature ladies don't care.

But please note, I am referring to looks, not hygiene. Two separate things.

The more you pay with frequent bookings, the better. Having said that good looks play a major part as at the end of the day that is exactly what makes the pussy wet amd moist

On 2024-01-25 09:07:58 SolCandy said:
The more you pay with frequent bookings, the better. Having said that good looks play a major part as at the end of the day that is exactly what makes the pussy wet amd moist

I have experienced a lot of very wet and moist pussy over the 45 odd years of being sexually active. Am nowhere near good looking, but very respectful, pay the asking price and extra, never negotiate.

Apart from skill, my vote would rather go towards behaviour than looks to make a pussy wet.