On 2023-08-03 13:08:54 wild_one said:
no my dear chessire , i am mature , it's women who need to grow up , a wife that doesn't put out is like a cow that doesn't produce milk , pretty much useless and a big finacial burden , at least the cow can still be slaughtered but what can we do with the old hag ? ?

each of us has different needs. I respect your opinion and im not here to change it.

But something to think about for future....when you much older and sex is no longer as appealing as it use to be. Wot would you then crave or be important to you? Nobody is perfect, but compromise and respect is a must both ways not just one. So yes women should put out i agree with that totally but be cautious in your judgement.

Many old punters on here have said they now retire, not because they dont like the ladies or dislike sex but they now in a different phase in life. If they really thought the WG would replace the home wifey feeling why didn't they end up marrying the good sex kittens. Just think about it.

I know you enjoy and want sex. We all do, but remember anyone can laid, its easy to lay on your back these days, but finding someone that has proper respect, or someone to build a home with now that's rare.

I have met ladies mostly through friends and families recommendations. One lady I liked, her father really liked me and he was so disappointed when she turned me down. Just shows the women are too fussy with too many requirements that have to be met.

On 2023-08-03 13:19:16 WillGrey said:
I have met ladies mostly through friends and families recommendations. One lady I liked, her father really liked me and he was so disappointed when she turned me down. Just shows the women are too fussy with too many requirements that have to be met.

Thats true. People are too fussy. Always think the next person will be better, and they want more and more. Leave them...they will be searching for rest of their lives.

@chessire , that is exactly my problem , I am not interrested in the sex , in fact it was never an issue , but female conversation these days is truly dissapointing to put it mildly and their vane attempts at psychoanalysis is downright annoying, WG's at least give you what you bargained for and as for wg's as wives , I am fully aware of the study that proved that women that had more than a certain number of sexual partners are incapable of pair bonding so I will never be that stupid to marry one ,the problem as a wise man once said is that all women are w+++++ some just tell you the price upfront and others surprise you , i prefer being told upfront

On 2023-08-03 13:31:42 wild_one said:
@chessire , that is exactly my problem , I am not interrested in the sex , in fact it was never an issue , but female conversation these days is truly dissapointing to put it mildly and their vane attempts at psychoanalysis is downright annoying, WG's at least give you what you bargained for

Date a WG then let me know how it goes. If you weren't paying that WG, the conversation would be just as kak. Its a job lol. Wot im trying to say is...outside of a WG life they have the same challenges of finding people annoying, or even have their own flaws of being annoying and having shitty convos themselves. We all human.


It helps to find yourself first. I Find masculine and feminine energy is very important. Each have to stay within their roles. Are you a man or a mouse? A soft lady or a ladybird man lol.

If you a pussy then having a soft feminine lady wont work because she naturally would want a man not a mouse. I've seen lots of couples where ladies are wearing the pants, i may not agree with it, just my opinion...but they happy as a couple together and it works for them.

sorry you answered my post just as I updated it , making your answer irrelevant

find myself ? is that proffesional advice or something you heard from a drunk guy who trying to get into your pants one evening , fyi I am 47 , i
I "found myself " a long time ago , waiting for the world to get their heads out of their arses and to stop trying to talk to me like they know me , because none of you have a f* clue anyway , the point remains , no women alive is smart enough to catch me and none have what I am looking for , I prefer loneliness to being f* over thank you very much

Shew hectic, relax sir. As you said it's better if you stay lonely. Women these days wouldn't want to "catch" an angry canon

like I said , is that your proffesional opinion ? where do you get the idea that I am angry
I am ScPD , since you are such an expert in psycology I assume I wont have to explain it to you , and that you will admit that your extraordinary senses failed you , since people with ScPD rarely become "angry" I cannot be angered by something or someone I consider irrelevant , so lets not try and play psycologist psycologist here , I dont have a clue who you are and you obviously have no clue of who I am , as one of the ladies here rightly said , assumption is the mother of all f ups, and I really dont like her , so the quote is obviously quite correct

On 2023-08-03 14:33:09 wild_one said:
like I said , is that your proffesional opinion ? where do you get the idea that I am angry
I am ScPD , since you are such an expert in psycology I assume I wont have to explain it to you , and that you will admit that your extraordinary senses failed you , since people with ScPD rarely become "angry" I cannot be angered by something or someone I consider irrelevant , so lets not try and play psycologist psycologist here , I dont have a clue who you are and you obviously have no clue of who I am , as one of the ladies here rightly said , assumption is the mother of all f ups, and I really dont like her , so the quote is obviously quite correct

I never claimed to be a professional but thank you sir,I appreciate the compliment. Also you might want to get the correct spelling of psychology and psychologist. Breathe, calm down, then type. Always good to remain calm