On 2023-02-14 14:43:31 Petite Maya said:
On 2023-02-14 14:31:05 sinker69 said: On 2023-02-14 14:20:26 Petite Maya said: A sweet life of pampered luxury paid for by older, sometimes much older men.

A regular is just a regular. Pays the norm.

Sugar daddies pay the larger sums of money

So PM, regular is then how many times per month at say 1500 a visit? Will a WG see a guy two nights in 12 weeks say for 10 000 a month? Also be classed as a regular?



Still a regular my friend! Let me rather put it this way.... You paying 10k but still the lady has to work in bed for it right? So you still a regular bcz shz working for it.

With the lovely golden daddies you don't always work. Blessing them with your presence is already enough and valued on its on. You see being a daddy you have to know its not only about sex. It's about caring for someone, seeing them succeed, making them happy. Sex is a bonus but there's a different type of intimacy with a daddy. In return daddies get the best sex and are even gifted too with gifts! Make breakfast for each other and fuck on balcony afterwards for the bokke in the bush to watch .

You mentioning the "different type of intimacy" is so spot on!

It's not just about the money and blessings, it's about still being independent from him and him knowing you don't NEED it, but that you still appreciate it.

Daddies (at least the ones I have worked with) NEVER degrade you in the sense that "i paid you R6000 yesterday so today you will give me sex"
It's never an exchange for services, and should they want sex/ a date/ a video call whatever the case may be, they always put in the effort to be kind and chivalrous in asking for it making it clear that it's not a monetary exchange.

My one rule with daddies though are no lying. We do not lie to each other. If you're caught in a lie, the agreement ends immediately. Both Ways. And the daddies seem to really appreciate that as well.

"Daddies (at least the ones I have worked with) NEVER degrade you in the sense that "i paid you R6000 yesterday so today you will give me sex"
It's never an exchange for services, and should they want sex/ a date/ a video call whatever the case may be, they always put in the effort to be kind and chivalrous in asking for it making it clear that it's not a monetary exchange."

@saffron - this is very true, they value us as people, beyond being service providers.

I had a Suggar Daddy for most of last year, who would not encourage my skills in the bedroom. But would rather encourage my business savvy and marketing skills. He never even wanted sex from me, but loved me as a whole and wanted to see me grow as a person.

He aided me financially but the lessons I got from him were beyond material.

I don't know if that's a sugar daddy or an investor. But that level of kindness is beyond measure because he valued me and saw me.

On 2023-02-15 09:39:01 Raphael_ Xclusive said:
"Daddies (at least the ones I have worked with) NEVER degrade you in the sense that "i paid you R6000 yesterday so today you will give me sex"
It's never an exchange for services, and should they want sex/ a date/ a video call whatever the case may be, they always put in the effort to be kind and chivalrous in asking for it making it clear that it's not a monetary exchange."

@saffron - this is very true, they value us as people, beyond being service providers.

I had a Suggar Daddy for most of last year, who would not encourage my skills in the bedroom. But would rather encourage my business savvy and marketing skills. He never even wanted sex from me, but loved me as a whole and wanted to see me grow as a person.

He aided me financially but the lessons I got from him were beyond material.

I don't know if that's a sugar daddy or an investor. But that level of kindness is beyond measure because he valued me and saw me.

Quite interesting. It's kinda like a charity adoption. I mean like actually adopting a kid (daddy part) and bring very charitable (sugar part).

I guess some don't have family or maybe ungrateful family so try to find other avenues to give their life meaning to feel like they've done some good deed it's it's not as plain cut as punting.

Wonder what the selection process is for the sugar daddies. I'm surprised they don't go for destitute students instead of wgs if they just want help and grow people.

All the feedback has made me very curious.

N4P

On 2023-02-15 12:10:28 Need4Passion said:
On 2023-02-15 09:39:01 Raphael_ Xclusive said: "Daddies (at least the ones I have worked with) NEVER degrade you in the sense that "i paid you R6000 yesterday so today you will give me sex"
It's never an exchange for services, and should they want sex/ a date/ a video call whatever the case may be, they always put in the effort to be kind and chivalrous in asking for it making it clear that it's not a monetary exchange."

@saffron - this is very true, they value us as people, beyond being service providers.

I had a Suggar Daddy for most of last year, who would not encourage my skills in the bedroom. But would rather encourage my business savvy and marketing skills. He never even wanted sex from me, but loved me as a whole and wanted to see me grow as a person.

He aided me financially but the lessons I got from him were beyond material.

I don't know if that's a sugar daddy or an investor. But that level of kindness is beyond measure because he valued me and saw me.

Quite interesting. It's kinda like a charity adoption. I mean like actually adopting a kid (daddy part) and bring very charitable (sugar part).

I guess some don't have family or maybe ungrateful family so try to find other avenues to give their life meaning to feel like they've done some good deed it's it's not as plain cut as punting.

Wonder what the selection process is for the sugar daddies. I'm surprised they don't go for destitute students instead of wgs if they just want help and grow people.

All the feedback has made me very curious.

N4P

I also wondered why this man was helping me. He started off as a client and then definitely took on the role of a guidance figure.

He does have his own family and there really isn't much trouble in his life.

I'm grateful for all opportunities of growth and that doesn't just have to be through financial aid.

I value being teachable above all else because as you mentioned, some don't have family and that is my case.

As for college students, apparently there are many who are only on dating sites to find sugar daddies in order to help pay for their studies and lifestyles.

I found this out through an uber driver.

So yes, I do put myself out there through dating sites and everyone that I encounter is fully aware of my line of work and knows that being intimate as well as companionship is a service I offer.

However, I am human, so while it's transactional, I genuinely also have a degree of investment in actually knowing and understanding who I am engaging with.

@N4P
Nooo man! You getting some parts wrong.

See its not really about us, it's about them.
Everyone has form of issues, mommy issues, daddy issues, lost brother or sister. Low self esteem or wotever else there is.

Soooo i speak from "MY" experience. The daddies I normally attract has a savior complex and they want to feel needed, they love my company bcz i feed them with wot they need and how they need to feel. They feed me wot i need not only monetary.

I genuinely love being around older men so they can pick up on that. Im weak as a lamb and subserving in every way. Cooking, intimacy, care, respect etc. with younger men im a bitch but older men im a sweet little lamb and do anything to to please daddy ;-) sweet submissive me.

Anyways so the daddies that I attract want to feel needed. So they either have daughters but are grown, found a bf and have the "stop embarrassing me dad" attitude. Or the ones that don't have daughters at all so they thrive on the rebellious teenager bit. It gives them life bcz They miss being needed and dependent on.

Now like i say just my experience, each daddy is different and comes with different psychological needs as we all do. Its all about energies, wot you attract and wot you put out.

To be honest I never go looking for one. Never been on any site, i dont look, i dont do the hunting. They come to me. I think its bcz they like predators...lions! They can sniff out my daddy kink. Bcz I truly looove older men and have daddy kinks. The sex my friends...off the chart! Older men got game. Also not only about sex, the intimacy...care and respect

But in-between all the needs and energies, they love companionship and want to be valued. Simple intimacy as being heard, valued but they dont want to be seen as weak, or used / betrayed they still want to have authority, dominance like a lion. So i let the lion hunt for the lamb (me) but Wot happens when the lion falls in-love with the lamb? Or worse!?! The lamb cares too much for the lion??!


....To be continued... ;-) hehe

On 2023-02-15 12:10:28 Need4Passion said:
On 2023-02-15 09:39:01 Raphael_ Xclusive said: "Daddies (at least the ones I have worked with) NEVER degrade you in the sense that "i paid you R6000 yesterday so today you will give me sex"
It's never an exchange for services, and should they want sex/ a date/ a video call whatever the case may be, they always put in the effort to be kind and chivalrous in asking for it making it clear that it's not a monetary exchange."

@saffron - this is very true, they value us as people, beyond being service providers.

I had a Suggar Daddy for most of last year, who would not encourage my skills in the bedroom. But would rather encourage my business savvy and marketing skills. He never even wanted sex from me, but loved me as a whole and wanted to see me grow as a person.

He aided me financially but the lessons I got from him were beyond material.

I don't know if that's a sugar daddy or an investor. But that level of kindness is beyond measure because he valued me and saw me.

Quite interesting. It's kinda like a charity adoption. I mean like actually adopting a kid (daddy part) and bring very charitable (sugar part).

I guess some don't have family or maybe ungrateful family so try to find other avenues to give their life meaning to feel like they've done some good deed it's it's not as plain cut as punting.

Wonder what the selection process is for the sugar daddies. I'm surprised they don't go for destitute students instead of wgs if they just want help and grow people.

All the feedback has made me very curious.

N4P

I read about this in a psychology book. Their is an overwhelming need to help/please others and to be accepted. They may seem like good Samaritans and often they are but it goes way beyond that and is more about the givers own psychological issues than the person they are helping.

On 2023-02-15 13:30:29 Petite Maya said:
@N4P
Nooo man! You getting some parts wrong.

See its not really about us, it's about them.
Everyone has form of issues, mommy issues, daddy issues, lost brother or sister. Low self esteem or wotever else there is.

Soooo i speak from "MY" experience. The daddies I normally attract has a savior complex and they want to feel needed, they love my company bcz i feed them with wot they need and how they need to feel. They feed me wot i need not only monetary.

I genuinely love being around older men so they can pick up on that. Im weak as a lamb and subserving in every way. Cooking, intimacy, care, respect etc. with younger men im a bitch but older men im a sweet little lamb and do anything to to please daddy ;-) sweet submissive me.

Anyways so the daddies that I attract want to feel needed. So they either have daughters but are grown, found a bf and have the "stop embarrassing me dad" attitude. Or the ones that don't have daughters at all so they thrive on the rebellious teenager bit. It gives them life bcz They miss being needed and dependent on.

Now like i say just my experience, each daddy is different and comes with different psychological needs as we all do. Its all about energies, wot you attract and wot you put out.

To be honest I never go looking for one. Never been on any site, i dont look, i dont do the hunting. They come to me. I think its bcz they like predators...lions! They can sniff out my daddy kink. Bcz I truly looove older men and have daddy kinks. The sex my friends...off the chart! Older men got game. Also not only about sex, the intimacy...care and respect

But in-between all the needs and energies, they love companionship and want to be valued. Simple intimacy as being heard, valued but they dont want to be seen as weak, or used / betrayed they still want to have authority, dominance like a lion. So i let the lion hunt for the lamb (me) but Wot happens when the lion falls in-love with the lamb? Or worse!?! The lamb cares too much for the lion??!


....To be continued... ;-) hehe

This is so interesting to read!

The ones I attract are the middle aged men who are happily married, but don't necessary feel appreciated for what they contribute financially to the household. Many of them (if not all thus far) have stay at home wives living really good lives. They provide for their families and also get their sexual needs met from what I understand.

But it always boils down to not feeling appreciated enough or in the correct way - and so the gents usually want to pay for things like my rent, or contribute towards something like my business and adding money to my supplier's account.

One client wanted to make sure I somewhat live the same lifestyle as he provides for his wife and children- at that time I didn't own a TV - the day he found out he transferred me money to go buy one.

Shame man, reading all this makes me feel bad for these sugar daddies. I guess it's true for some that money can't buy happiness.

JP69

Shame
But they helping the girls that's a good thing

Interesting post...

Differentiated services at different rates with differing levels of service with differing levels of emotional involvement, catering to different requirements.

I would guess that it is probably difficult for the average sp to provide the full range of services from basic transactional hourly encounter to medium term remunerated companion type arrangements.