On 2023-01-18 07:04:49 Sabrina @ Le Bijou said:
Of course we are. You come visit us, have your fun, and go home as if nothing happened. It's a form of therapy which keeps you from getting divorced. You're happy, your wife doesn't know, life goes on.
We thereby ad value to society through keeping marriages together.

Welcome back @Sabrina! LOOKING GORGEOUS!

I couldn't agree more :) We are definitely therapists in many ways... and Im sure some of us have PHD'S in hard-knocks to back it up!

My problem is... If you want to approach Us with said issue, and ask Us for our opinion, and we give you the solution ie. the correct way of going about a situation (because we've actually seen the same issue 20 times before so we know what we talking about) WHY IS IT SO DAMN HARD FOR YOU TO TAKE IT?!!! Lols

In all honesty... I love it when my People opens up to me. I'll stop said person when I feel personal info is being shared that I don't need to know,but it takes me away from all my issues I'm dealing with for those couple of minutes... So essentially it is therapy for You and Me :)
So win win for all Parties involved.

Ps. This does not mean that you should trust just anyone, as mentioned above. We live in a sick world.. Use discretion at all times :)

On 2023-01-14 20:01:49 OuJack said:
The pomp at home that you think are free are costing you a lot more than a booking with an escort

Its thinking like this, that causing the "pomp" at home not to be as great as it should be.

Don't get married / stay married if you see your wife as an exspense. How much less would you have spend without her, how much less fullfilling would your life have been with out her. Not all things should be measured in monetary value.

No other wife would have been able to give you the same kids, and I, would not "change" my kids for any other in this world.

Just ask yourself the question, if the SP is such a great "therapist", why is she here, what went wrong in her marriage that "caused" it to end in divorce. She could not saved her own, what makes her the expert to save yours.

On 2023-01-18 07:31:04 Angie said:
On 2023-01-18 07:04:49 Sabrina @ Le Bijou said: Of course we are. You come visit us, have your fun, and go home as if nothing happened. It's a form of therapy which keeps you from getting divorced. You're happy, your wife doesn't know, life goes on.
We thereby ad value to society through keeping marriages together.

Welcome back @Sabrina! LOOKING GORGEOUS!

I couldn't agree more :) We are definitely therapists in many ways... and Im sure some of us have PHD'S in hard-knocks to back it up!

My problem is... If you want to approach Us with said issue, and ask Us for our opinion, and we give you the solution ie. the correct way of going about a situation (because we've actually seen the same issue 20 times before so we know what we talking about) WHY IS IT SO DAMN HARD FOR YOU TO TAKE IT?!!! Lols

In all honesty... I love it when my People opens up to me. I'll stop said person when I feel personal info is being shared that I don't need to know,but it takes me away from all my issues I'm dealing with for those couple of minutes... So essentially it is therapy for You and Me :)
So win win for all Parties involved.

Ps. This does not mean that you should trust just anyone, as mentioned above. We live in a sick world.. Use discretion at all times :)

Thank you kindly! It's so good to be back after nearly three months of sitting around, trying to entertain myself during the day. It hasn't been much of a vibe, but it's been worth it!
I went for a breast enhancement, as you may have noticed (lol), and gave myself three weeks off before that. Including the recovery, I've been away for about 2 1/2 months.
The first week was excruciating, but all in all, totally worth it! I now have 34 E cups! Whoop whoop! If it weren't for my number one supporter, I'd have died. He deserves a medal for looking after me as a patient! Luckily he's a well respected vet, and knows how to deal with the little raging bitch that lives inside. Ha ha ha!

I really do appreciate you saying such lovely words, and I hope you have a wonderful day ahead!

On 2023-01-18 07:31:04 Angie said:

My problem is... If you want to approach Us with said issue, and ask Us for our opinion, and we give you the solution ie. the correct way of going about a situation (because we've actually seen the same issue 20 times before so we know what we talking about) WHY IS IT SO DAMN HARD FOR YOU TO TAKE IT?!!!

Because therapy is cathartic.

As the "therapist" in this situation, yours would neither be to provide advice nor an opinion and to then see it internalized, absorbed, assimilated and executed to the benefit of your "patient" because you can so clearly see that which they apparently can't, yours would be to provide the sounding board by which the "patient" hears back their own thoughts, processes them, executes an overcorrection and subsequently defines their new median norm for a given scenario, behaviour, or distress.

I have respect and appreciation for everything WGs do for their clients, but at the very best it boils down to just another form of escapism like any other (sex, drugs, fast cars, rock & roll or whatever blows your particular set of follicles back) a temporary high, a short lived reprieve from an otherwise "untenable" situation which would in the long run see more real benefit from closer scrutiny and effort as opposed to more escapism.

I'm not saying it's wrong to have your fun and book whichever girl you fancy for whatever reason you please in order to escape how intolerable a situation you might need to, but don't equate swimming with inflatable wings to walking on water.

That is just delusional, and also just my view.

People can believe whatever their hearts desire or their subconscious agenda motivates them to.

I have to disagree im a trained councellor in Relationships and Trauma and offer free advice to ny regulars. Have assisted many clients with clariry.

New clients visiting often find insight and answers to some issues.

So best of both worlds fun time with free councelling/ advice.

Im not saying im a phycologist but men often dont want to spill the beans in a very formal setting.

Hey i even helped some lady clients strangley one was a phycologist.

If i see huge issues do recommend they go for a more formal approach.

Kisses
Nats

Psychological therapy is definitely cathartic .

Knowing to be a "sounding board" and not preaching is the start to helping others to self realization of much that is in ones own hands and can be addressed.

Being a life coach or adviser is a very different role and can take on the role of mentoring.

RB.

My longest regular is a man of 72. He has been with his wife for 40 years and has built a beautiful life. He loves her dearly.

One day together while in a session, I really saw him... his passion, his intensity and his authenticity. I told him that he is so incredibly sexy and he said that in all of his years of marriage and even before that, not one person has ever said that to him before.

I've hand written him little notes for when he visits. Sometimes we just lay down in silence and the silence speaks for itself.

I have another elderly gentleman who has also been my regular and I know that he visits me more for the tea and biscuits while we catch up, than the actual sensual massage. He glows when speaking to me because he has someone who actually listens. Plus I don't charge him for our tea and biscuits chats. I just allow myself the gift of being present with another human.

I think what's therapeutic for one person, may differ to another and I know that this industry has taught me to be more compassionate, definitely how to be in the moment and just savour that moment. But it has also taught me how to adapt to different people's love languages and needs.

I find that in long term relationships and marriages, more often than not people become complacent and care less about one another's love languages or needs because they are "theirs" already.

Humans act in ways to get what we want from others, to pursue another we learn all about them and do our best to win over the affection. But once we are now in a relationship or partnership, we try less and less to understand that person and soon neglect one another or forget that even in a partnership people change and we are supposed to change.

I think that taking the time to understand our clients is where the therapy lies.

A lot of us speak, but we are not heard or understood.

A lot of us act, but we are not seen.

A lot of us touch, but we are not felt.

This is the art of connection. To provide that space for our clients.

"....I think that taking the time to understand our clients is where the therapy lies.

A lot of us speak, but we are not heard or understood.

A lot of us act, but we are not seen.

A lot of us touch, but we are not felt.

This is the art of connection. To provide that space for our clients...." quoted Raphael_ Xclusive

LOVE this in relation to the sexsensual space.

There are all sorts to be found walking across one's threshold.

And to apply a "one model fit all", even though there may be MANY similarities in what may be shared is a cardinal mistake most would make.

And then some don't care to be heard or seen ...:)....just fucked like the fantasy that drives them to esa and ain't part of their mainstream life.

RB.

This conversation reminds of me of what DJ Fresh said about his friend on the recent episode of Podcast and Chill. One of his friends always books a stripper/escort just to talk.

It's not a one way thing though. I had a really rough day once. Ended a 6 year friendship, it had been coming for a while.

Unfortunately the final good bye happened right before my first appointment for the day.

The client, whom I have seen for over 18 years immediately picked up something was wrong. He looked at me and said "You want to talk about it? You look like you need a hug."

Right there I just broke down completely. I mean snot and tears. He let me cry it out, and listened to the whole story and gave me some really good advice.

He still books me, and nothing has changed. He doesn't know how much his comfort meant to me that day. It was like seeing a therapist. A safe space to just be.

I think, both sides benefit from a wholesome exchange.