On 2022-10-13 17:26:55 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2022-10-13 11:36:17 balasbak said: On 2022-10-13 10:18:56 Russian Bridgitte said:

But what is it that changes the situation from "no strings attached"?

I have my own theory but would be good to hear from others.

In my experience:
If a lady allow you to make love to her more than once the strings appear.

On 2022-10-13 08:38:54 Russian Bridgitte said:
Question....

Are u looking for a free fuck?

Lol.. would you let me? Now that's another Question.

On 2022-10-14 12:52:10 Karlos said:
On 2022-10-13 08:38:54 Russian Bridgitte said: Question....

Are u looking for a free fuck?


Lol.. would you let me? Now that's another Question.

Aaaaah...why not give me a call

I would LOVE to give u a piece of my mind....for FREE!

Wink.

Sweets I always wonder who the person behind "karlos" is.

Do u punt?

Or

Simply a looker in?

.....I would love to convert that looking in into lusty erotic debauchery!....wanna try?...at a price though.

Us esa ladies know our worth...and more.

Come....let me fuck with ur mind. They say I am good at it.

Who knows...u may walk away with much more than u bargained for!

X

On 2022-10-13 07:03:52 Sportbilly said:
Is there anyone out there that used this with any luck.I see a lot of pop ups with sites and am just curouis about this. Do woman realy use these sites to hookup with guys to get sex, no strings attached. Any suggestions

Yes!!!

Myself and plenty punter on this site off this site have had luck. What I have found is the same apps and site don't work for everyone. Age and race etc makes a difference as the women you can deal with are in different phases and from different backgrounds from discussions I've had. We don't have luck on the same platforms or with the same type of women.

However if you figure out your game and what works for you, then you work that to the max. So like I can easily 50yo olds on one platform have no issues finding NSA straight up one one platform although after a few months they start acting like GF and have to be cut off. Me as a 40yo had/has zero luck on that platform. However, the opposite is true where my bait works. The 50yo has almost no luck but I catch tins of fish. However, they never say they want NSA. They act more decent but keep the fish on the line long enough and it will jump into your bucket even though you told it you not interested in taking it home to mama to cook, it will come let you play.

As far as financial cost goes, it's all BS, it doesn't always cost you money. I can tell you it can be absolutely mahala like you don't even use fuel money because they'll come to you to fuck and go. Not doing dates is also a great way to weed out the "free meal hunters" to. You know that someone who just wants to come and fuck you just because they want to fuck you and not for what you give them or do for them is someone who has genuine burning desire for you and no amount of money can buy you that type of sex. They will most likely give it to you raw, swallow your load and/or let you nut in them from the get go without even questioning it.

Where it does cost me though is time, in my pond I've gotta put in the time to chat and then occasionally WhatsApp call. I guess, that's where the money fallacy comes in, where some would rather try to pay to get to the end goal than seduce.

It can be fun as hell if you get it right. You just gotta try different platforms, profile pictures, and bios until you start getting the right women to match with you.

And of course, you gotta learn how to route out the scammers, free meal hunters, airtime/data gathers, Only Fans and Instagram marketers, gay guys looking for free dick pics, broke and desperate for funding damsels in distress, over the wall and looking for a baby daddy cronies, tired of independence and looking an easy life boss babes, the bored highly successful but too masculine and too much baggage aunties, and of course the high filter and high make-up validation seekers etc.

Give it a shot and good luck.

N4P

[QUOTE;3828632;Need4Passion] On 2022-10-13 07:03:52 Sportbilly said:

Give it a shot and good luck.

N4P[/QUOTE

@N4P..wise words from actual experience. Good shot Bro

On 2022-10-14 13:04:43 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2022-10-14 12:52:10 Karlos said: On 2022-10-13 08:38:54 Russian Bridgitte said: Question....

Are u looking for a free fuck?


Lol.. would you let me? Now that's another Question.



Aaaaah...why not give me a call

I would LOVE to give u a piece of my mind....for FREE!

Wink.

Sweets I always wonder who the person behind "karlos" is.

Do u punt?

Or

Simply a looker in?

.....I would love to convert that looking in into lusty erotic debauchery!....wanna try?...at a price though.

Us esa ladies know our worth...and more.

Come....let me fuck with ur mind. They say I am good at it.

Who knows...u may walk away with much more than u bargained for!

X

Now who in their right minds can say no to this?

N4P summed up the perils nicely in his last paragraph and reminded me why I've been out of the dating game for 4 years now. Granted I've only really been on tinder but the BIGGEST problem with dating is the lack of return on your time investment (less so the money) and mostly the time you lose screening all the potentials and classes of time-wasters N4P mentioned. There was a time it felt like every bit of my spare time spent to minding my profile and screening women who were likely going to waste my time and money. When I deleted tinder my state of mind and happiness improved immediately. But I agree with N4P that it is something that should be explored. Maybe you have that secret mojo that just works in that setting.

As nice as a friend-with-benefits would be, I've never been so lucky to have a girl come over just for me and not what I have to offer. My reality has been that sex (sometimes even just the hint of a possibility thereof) always costs the guy something. Even in long term relationships there is an expectation for you to maintain a certain level of spend on her and even though you aren't actually paying her for sex, the one wouldn't happen without the other so...really the sex ain't free. WGs are just honest and upfront about it which I've always appreciated and respected.

On 2022-10-14 20:09:17 Jason_Nix said:
N4P summed up the perils nicely in his last paragraph and reminded me why I've been out of the dating game for 4 years now. Granted I've only really been on tinder but the BIGGEST problem with dating is the lack of return on your time investment (less so the money) and mostly the time you lose screening all the potentials and classes of time-wasters N4P mentioned. There was a time it felt like every bit of my spare time spent to minding my profile and screening women who were likely going to waste my time and money. When I deleted tinder my state of mind and happiness improved immediately. But I agree with N4P that it is something that should be explored. Maybe you have that secret mojo that just works...

True, I think the initial phase shouldn't be on trying to meet chicks but learning how to weed out the trash so to speak. That's what made it difficult for me in the beginning because I was trying to play the game without learning how to play the game.

Once you learn how to weed then put, you don't waste time anymore on that. You can weed out 80% just on the profile and another 19% in the first day of communicating if you match.

One big tip is never go out if your way. If she isn't giving you the same attention or more than you're giving her like slow/no replies etc or one word responses know that she's chatting to a lot of other people she's way more interested in and may just use you for validation and free meals.

Also know that every girl has probably 100's or 1000's of like so you're competiting and you have to stand out. Hi, how you? How's your day isn't gonna cut it since she's got 100 of those messages and doesn't feel like saying "I'm fine and it's good" 100 times.

Anyone super hot and too quick to give there phone number without being asked is either a gay guy that's gonna send you some downloaded nudes and then ask for yours, some scammer that gonna ask for airtime or data with a sad story, or a blackmailer that will want your nudes to blackmail you down the line so if you do send nudes to anyone, never have your face or tattoos in the same frame.

Another thing is even if the girls want to just hook up, they don't think like guys. They still vet for someone well put together and worthy of a relationship so "Hey hot mama, wanna fuck" probably isn't gonna work, well not in my pond and yes, I've tried. I actually have two profiles, one that says nothing but a one liner "looking to some casual fun" and another which is is shows a lot of my life, personality and humour. The only matches I get on the casual one are those that already matched me on the other profile and I unmatched because I didn't find them suitable after a chat. I take the opportunity to request hookups since that's what that profile says if they're hot but they usually unmatch then because they want the whole shebang but as I don't see them as worth it, I don't really care much.

As far as the time goes, it's one thing I tell everyone I match with is my time is my most precious commodity, not money as I have lot's of things to do that I could be doing in the same time I spend with them. So if I spend it with them, I'm showing them that they're worth that time so they firstly should appreciate it and secondly should make it worth my time. If someone needs constant attention and validation all day, just unmatch and move on. It's more trouble than it's worth and she most likely is entertaining attention from lots of guys anyway since she needs it. That being said, remember you're never the only one until you lock them down if you want to go down that route. She's always getting other attention.

Never try to compete with money either. There's always someone richer and you open yourself up for exploitation. Even if she doesn't like you, you can be seen as an easy target to score some cash maybe even with a little pity fuck over some expensive alcohol so she can put up with you to lubricate your wallet hand. You want women that want YOU!

Lastly, you need to find a balance between being to eager/creepy and uninterested. Asking for number and to meet up too soon will be seen as thirsty and desperate again opening you up to exploitation and abuse. Leaving it too long may be seen as you not giving enough attention and they'll assume you not interested and probably chatting to too many other girls that you actually hooking up with and also let's her find someone else. You only going to learn this by trying and reading the signals. It should never take more than 2 weeks under normal circumstances to get to planning a meet up.

N4P

Shoo! N4P

One must be seriously desperate for a free fuck to put soooo much time and effort to source one.

If I had all that time to sift thru the shit I would ask myself...what is,wrong with paying a buck for a fuck on esa?

Is time and effort not equivalent to money?

Or is it the stingy pinch on the pocket?

Nope. Not judging ...simply asking.

RB.

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