Hi all,

I have decided to treat myself to a sex holiday.

Trying to decide between Bangkok, Pattaya or the Philippines. I am travelling to Dubai so it needs t o be a quick 4 day detour.

Any suggestions?

Will build up the details to assist others in future.

Pattaya is like thee sex mecca. Bangkok and also Phuket are nice. Phuket is a nice seaside town so you get the raunchiness and the laid back tropical beach vibe.

Philippines and Vietnam is also nice.

An update: Managed to get 5 days for a trip to Thailand. Thinking of Bangkok or Pattaya. Planning for end of August. Any tips and recommendations welcome. A must-do list is being put together....

Go to Pattaya, it's one of the craziest places on the planet.

Hi all,

An update for those following:

Tickets booked. Fly to Bangkok in a weeks time. Destination chosen based on other travel plans.

Thank you to those who have messaged me with guidance.

For experienced travelers, please do share as much information, tips and guidance as you can. I will share details of the trip when I return....

I agree with Kaio on Pattaya! My advice would be to spend at least a night or two in Pattaya, and it's only a 2 hour drive from Bangkok.

This was a good read. I learned some new stuff. Would love to travel there. Always wanted to visit Vietnam and Thailand...not just for the ladies but hey that's added bonus too haha.
Phillipines does have plenty beautiful women too

Looking at the prices in Europe, I am wondering if I should rather find a lady here on the purple site to meet me in Croatia for a week haha

Update

Hi all,

An update from my side. Managed two trips this last year.

1st trip to Bangkok. 4 days. Stayed in Nana Plaza 'the worlds biggest adult playground' or so the signs say. Easy getting to bangkok and the hotel. Walking distance to tons of gogo bars, blowjob bars, clubs, great restuarnts and all the adult fun you can have. I felt the prices reasonable, variety amazing and experience out of this world.

I ate some realy good food (eastern and western), met some nice fellow punters and had a blast. I loved the gogo bars. I am a lap dance guy, but these places are amazing. One, two or more girls dancing for you, playing with you, letting you finger them, even giving you a bj in the bar. I saw a guy with 3 girls, each girl fully naked and taking turns standing over him whilst he ate them out right there in front of 50+ people - so cool. Girls on stage doing the craziest stuff, guys licking and fingering and kissing and anything esle in-between with girls on stage. Massages everywhere to ease the body (some with happy ending, full sex or just to relax. Blowjob bar was so cool. Fish bowl was interesting but not worth it. Nuru and soapy massage so good, but too many girls with fake boobs for me. Overall, after 3 days, I was all fucked and sucked out. by the end of the 4th full day, I was a happy man and ready to come home.

Pattaya is Bangkok on steriods. Everthing I mentioned above and so much more. Spent 5 days here. Imagine a street with 1000 plus girls all providing sex. All between 18-35, from 6/10-9/10 (in my opinion). Young, care-free, beautiful and all wanting your attention. Price for a 30 min session around R400-800 based on your negotiation skills. Pattaya is cheaper than Bangkok and has more girls. I enjoyed both. My top experience. Met the most gorgeous 28 year old, so sweet, pretty and fun to be around. We ate, drank and she allowed me to do everything I wanted. I remember taking a bike taxi with a driver, her and me. Hot Thailand night, cool air, feeling of new love and totally care-free, music playing, hands in the air - felt completely serene. Real memories. I made friends from Europe, the US, Malaysia and a few other places. I went alone but never felt alone. Everywhere was safe, but I am a careful guy. Even went to a bar with 150 or so chicks. You buy a drink to enter and then talk to the freelance girls. Ages 20-45, all pretty good looking. They offer you everything from a short experience to staying with you for a day or as long as you want. They help you find girls for threesomes, or moresomes or whatever you into or just chill with you. They take you to local places. Met a cool chick and spent 3/4 of a day with her chilling at the pool, fucking, in the tub together, went to a few dance clubs, she was freakier than the dancers - R2500 money well spent. I could go on and on. Ultimately its costs a bit to get there. In my opinion, a great stress reliever, rejuvenated me, I came back ready to take on stress of day to day life. Made me realise it's ok to treat yourself sometimes.

Punting in SA is still good. I just find it mechanical now days. Girls are nice, but its more of a release locally than a hard core sexually experience. 60-75% of the girls I see locally dont look lik their pics or are averge to nice looking. Girls in Thailand are generally young, firm, all shapes, little scarring on bodies, generally beautiful and "LBFM's". If you can spare some cash or desperately need a reset Thailand is the place to go.

Thanks to everyone on ESA who guided me and provided valuable information. Appreciate it brothers. I am here should anyone need more information or guidance.

PS. My next trip is in planning. Destination to be decided. Seems I have the international punting bug...

On 2025-09-25 19:59:21 neels123 said:
Update

Hi all,

An update from my side. Managed two trips this last year.

1st trip to Bangkok. 4 days. Stayed in Nana Plaza 'the worlds biggest adult playground' or so the signs say. Easy getting to bangkok and the hotel. Walking distance to tons of gogo bars, blowjob bars, clubs, great restuarnts and all the adult fun you can have. I felt the prices reasonable, variety amazing and experience out of this world.

I ate some realy good food (eastern and western), met some nice fellow punters and had a blast. I loved the gogo bars. I am a lap dance guy, but these places are amazing. One, two or more girls dancing for you, playing with you, letting you finger them, even giving you a bj in the bar. I saw a guy with 3 girls, each girl fully naked and taking turns standing over him whilst he ate them out right there in front of 50+ people - so cool. Girls on stage doing the craziest stuff, guys licking and fingering and kissing and anything esle in-between with girls on stage. Massages everywhere to ease the body (some with happy ending, full sex or just to relax. Blowjob bar was so cool. Fish bowl was interesting but not worth it. Nuru and soapy massage so good, but too many girls with fake boobs for me. Overall, after 3 days, I was all fucked and sucked out. by the end of the 4th full day, I was a happy man and ready to come home.

Pattaya is Bangkok on steriods. Everthing I mentioned above and so much more. Spent 5 days here. Imagine a street with 1000 plus girls all providing sex. All between 18-35, from 6/10-9/10 (in my opinion). Young, care-free, beautiful and all wanting your attention. Price for a 30 min session around R400-800 based on your negotiation skills. Pattaya is cheaper than Bangkok and has more girls. I enjoyed both. My top experience. Met the most gorgeous 28 year old, so sweet, pretty and fun to be around. We ate, drank and she allowed me to do everything I wanted. I remember taking a bike taxi with a driver, her and me. Hot Thailand night, cool air, feeling of new love and totally care-free, music playing, hands in the air - felt completely serene. Real memories. I made friends from Europe, the US, Malaysia and a few other places. I went alone but never felt alone. Everywhere was safe, but I am a careful guy. Even went to a bar with 150 or so chicks. You buy a drink to enter and then talk to the freelance girls. Ages 20-45, all pretty good looking. They offer you everything from a short experience to staying with you for a day or as long as you want. They help you find girls for threesomes, or moresomes or whatever you into or just chill with you. They take you to local places. Met a cool chick and spent 3/4 of a day with her chilling at the pool, fucking, in the tub together, went to a few dance clubs, she was freakier than the dancers - R2500 money well spent. I could go on and on. Ultimately its costs a bit to get there. In my opinion, a great stress reliever, rejuvenated me, I came back ready to take on stress of day to day life. Made me realise it's ok to treat yourself sometimes.

Punting in SA is still good. I just find it mechanical now days. Girls are nice, but its more of a release locally than a hard core sexually experience. 60-75% of the girls I see locally dont look lik their pics or are averge to nice looking. Girls in Thailand are generally young, firm, all shapes, little scarring on bodies, generally beautiful and "LBFM's". If you can spare some cash or desperately need a reset Thailand is the place to go.

Thanks to everyone on ESA who guided me and provided valuable information. Appreciate it brothers. I am here should anyone need more information or guidance.

PS. My next trip is in planning. Destination to be decided. Seems I have the international punting bug...

Did you use Thai friendly when you were there? Just set your location to Pattaya and you will 10-20 offers in 10 minutes. BKK is a bit slower but still 20-30 a day. Double to 3 times the price as Pattaya. And doing it with freelancers saves on bar-fines and lady drinks.