Great thread to read,thank you gentlemen:)

The punctuality thing also irritates me. Have you no sense of the movement of time? 5min is not a generalisation, it means 300 seconds on the clock.
Give me an exact time of how long I am going to wait.

What rocked my socks off yesterday, was a very soft sensual touch and stroke on my body, walking around the other side of the massage bed to continue with the barely percievable touch.
Little small things that is not just a case of I'm here to press a few spots and take my panties off.
Taking interest.

Also agree on the GFE thing.
I am not here to cum, I'm here for an experience and that includes kissing (not throat exploration, just lekker kissing). I can maybe skip going down on you, but I need some form of sensual like kissing.

Lastly, overly fake compliments while we're having sex. Just stop or tone it down a bit, moan a bit but stop repeating my dick is soo big. I know I'm average, you claiming it's the biggest thing ever makes it awkward.

For me:
Do's
- Provide all info upfront on what it and is not included
- WhatsApp is my friend. I often cannot take calls so communicate clearly, in text, avoiding too many spelling mistakes
- Bottled water and a clean glass
- Smile and compliment me when I arrive. Make it seem like you want me there
- Wear makeup and present yourself as you came across in your advert
- Communicate with me. Or I could have used a sex doll
Don't
- Ask for a tip upfront
- Chase me to get done

I'm a bit on the other side of make-up and prefer a more natural look, but presentable ofcourse.

Again, showing interest.
I've had girls clearly just wanting to get it over, and just lie there, eyes closed and taking it. And that makes it a lot more difficult for me to get done.

But looking down at the view of me going into you and back up at me and smiling.
Fuck, that will push me over the edge in no time.

Small things that can gain or lose clients - how a lady responds to a negative (or slightly less than positive) review.

Good day gents and ladies
As mentioned above no proper communication everything being extra

Had a case recently booked a sensual massage with hand relief however everything was extra mentioned on my arrival not on initial enquiry when I asked about being nude touching etc which I would have appreciated before (communication problem I suppose) midway through a average massage was told I should massage her I don't get paid so I would appreciate to receive my full time being "pampered"

I've also come across cases of being on period not my thing you can feel the sponge or whatever is in there and I would rather be informed and reschedule than being put off during a treatment

Don't want to feel anything in there, agreed.
But my motto was always "'n Dapper soldaat, het bloed op sy swaard"

Clock watching....
You arrive, SP is chilling with no clients (at least from them saying so).
Get in the room and SP cuts it to the minute. I am not saying we want free time but overlooking that off 5min over-run will prevent impression you have been rushed. In then simply encourages longer bookings.

I was once asked to stay for a wine (was last booking so SP had knocked-off". Booked that Thai MG hun regularly till she went back to Thailand.

On 2025-11-14 09:32:35 Jonoadv said:
was told I should massage her I don't get paid so I would appreciate to receive my full time being "pampered"

I've also had that before and for me it's a plus. Then you get your massage and you get to enjoy her beauty for a bit. In fact I liked it so much that I've offered to massage other SP's after that when actually going for a sensual massage.

Very interesting thread..
Making mental notes