IMHO if sabby and PM are trouble?
Why are we giving it that much attention?

On 2023-04-18 07:12:44 abiem50 said:
Some of the points I noticed

1. If a guy posts a message like 'I have Rxxxx for a specific session ' . Then the forum goes crazy with remarks such as, U a cheapskate; Go to the streets if u looking to pay that amount, etc etc.
It's a willing buyer willing seller. If u make an offer the lady she's at liberty to accept or reject it.

2. Religious comments.
Just recently a guy post he wants to give Zakat to a Muslim wg. And comments came in from people who know nothing about Zakat.

3. Racial remarks

4. WG slandering other WG

5. And the list goes on.....

Gone are the days where there are meaningful chats without slandering or remark passing.

Why must YOU think that you better than someone else by passing derogatory remarks.

Yep....and some.

Knowing to ask a question, engage in conversation without making an accusation, passing snide under the belt comments, judging or insulting.


The art of debate given way to bullying and sensationalisation.

Shamed is good conversation among like minded emotionally mature adults.

Shamed is an 'Adult site" for being an adult site.



It has become a fucking joke...a hijacking of a forum that , as Ms. Barbie Doll said, used to be an absolute pleasure being part of.....and that didn't mean one did not have a life. It meant being a "community" who shared joked and spoke to each other.

A Purple community.

It is becoming nothing more than a platform of emotionally immature, emotionally challenged narcissists and pussywhipped weaklings or cowardly keyboard warriors spurring on the hatred.

It is shameful and sad and telling of what a "good adult " community has become...South Africa in a nutshell.

RB.

On 2023-04-18 06:54:30 peterb said:
Moderators are one thing

However if you open a can of worms - you must expect a backlash from all or any side.

Years ago there was a user called johan200. His sole purpose on this forum was to cause kak

Who knew johan van stemmet would be a trouble maker

On 2023-04-18 09:37:40 Russian Bridgitte said:
On 2023-04-18 07:12:44 abiem50 said: Some of the points I noticed

1. If a guy posts a message like 'I have Rxxxx for a specific session ' . Then the forum goes crazy with remarks such as, U a cheapskate; Go to the streets if u looking to pay that amount, etc etc.
It's a willing buyer willing seller. If u make an offer the lady she's at liberty to accept or reject it.

2. Religious comments.
Just recently a guy post he wants to give Zakat to a Muslim wg. And comments came in from people who know nothing about Zakat.

3. Racial remarks

4. WG slandering other WG

5. And the list goes on.....

Gone are the days where there are meaningful chats without slandering or remark passing.

Why must YOU think that you better than someone else by passing derogatory remarks.

Yep....and some.

Knowing to ask a question, engage in conversation without making an accusation, passing snide under the belt comments, judging or insulting.


The art of debate given way to bullying and sensationalisation.

Shamed is good conversation among like minded emotionally mature adults.

Shamed is an 'Adult site" for being an adult site.



It has become a fucking joke...a hijacking of a forum that , as Ms. Barbie Doll said, used to be an absolute pleasure being part of.....and that didn't mean one did not have a life. It meant being a "community" who shared joked and spoke to each other.

A Purple community.

It is becoming nothing more than a platform of emotionally immature, emotionally challenged narcissists and pussywhipped weaklings or cowardly keyboard warriors spurring on the hatred.

It is shameful and sad and telling of what a "good adult " community has become...South Africa in a nutshell.

RB.

Those where days,I am who I am today because of the old days.Mis RB you were the first lady,I met in the industry when I was still doing my modeling.i asked for a photographer and you where available,came straight to you and since then you have been nothing but my big sister from another mother.love you dearly

People should go to the very first pages of this forum and see for themselves that the forums have ALWAYS been like this. ALWAYS!

There is NO moderation of these forums 100% according to esa so called rules of respect blah blah blah. Anyone who expects esa to actually enforce about their own rules?! What rock have you been hiding under? The only thing esa cares about is money people. They are a business.

We use these forums at our own risk.

This was brought about a few jaded man-hating ladies mainly. Real genuine punters with real genuine feedback were attacked and silenced and reported and banned should they share/say anything that didn't ride the wave of being a total pussy whipped pushover that agreed with everything a ladies said like they were the clients and punters were nothing more than obligated trash financers. Arwhen, RB, Sabrina, PM with the previous profile, and Victoria then, but seems reformed, where at the top of that group leading the attacks and coaxing others into the negative headspace regarding punters.

*All activite ads

Even actual scammer wgs with evidence where protected by the sisterhood while the the punters were crusified. At at the end of it, they won and got rid of the trustworthy punters who went off and found a peaceful trustworthy place where they can share OPENLY and gain info without fear of backlash and banning etc.

This left a void on the forum without actual men the attack and demean any more resulting in the wgs creating numerous fake accounts trying to fill the void and inadvertently fighting with themselves thinking they're other punters until they figured it out and then just started fighting amongst themselves on their actual advertising profiles too.

Now there's nearly no real reliable punters left meaning even the most valuable asset being the review section is failed because it's full of fake punter reviews and nothing and no one to be trusted no matter how high they try to push their post counts posting drivel.

With regards to getting ESA involved, well they were and contributed to it to protecting the wgs by banned and placing punters under moderation to the point that punters just could not participate or share their views.

The writing was on the wall and it was stated but no one wanted to listen. When punters said they wanted to be enticed, seduced, and lures like they were in the good days of ESA when everyone was punting away and making money, the wgs chose to rather be boss bitches, and queens and felt entitled. The wgs were just enjoying the power trip and this is the result of those actions because actions have consequences.

Now they're all coming here complaining about the beast they themselves created.

JP69

Remember

This is an advertising platform:

Without advertisers - there is no business

Without punters - there is no business

So for me the forum is a great place mostly with better chirps than Comedy Central

If you don't like a post move on

Just had a song on the radio - Don't matter, life just gets better

Only Gator can get this under control..

On 2023-04-18 08:33:13 JHB22 said:
On 2023-04-18 07:03:11 CJ09 said: On 2023-04-18 06:47:56 JHB22 said:

Sorry i dont give head massages, to kroes pitte koppe. I cant use my naughty fingers to scratch in your hard hair like a birds nest. You need a Brazilian blow dryer and expense shampoo. Use a relaxer for your steel wool hair or a weave."

It baffles the mind how this is allowed. I hope Cape Town punters take note.



Well the guy insulted PM indian nose first. Its backlash
"Indian" vs "colour"

As for sabby we broke up post Women tend to vent and are emotional. I dont think either of these two meant harm.

Ras are you saying indirectly sabrina and PM are trouble?

IMHO punters like JHB22 are the real problem. Crossing one side references adding friction.
Sabrina and PM and both good girls if you ignore the forum.

I think you have a reading comprehension problem so I'll quote for you in full what the punter said about Petite Maya's nose:

"Also you want to keep body shaming Sabrina about her boob job , who I think is very beautiful , however at the end of the day, people can say the same thing about you and your long nose , that you need to have nose length reduction job."

Now please enlighten us where did he speak generally about Indian people's physical characteristics or culture? How is this a racist attack on Indians in general? It was a reference to her nose, which I don't condone, but certainly not a racist attack on Indians. You are making it an "Indian v coloured" issue. Maya is the one that responded in a racist manner by calling out the guy's apparent lack of culture, calling him a bushmen and saying you can take the people (plural) out of the bush but not the bush out of people.

So no sir (or lady) you are the problem by trying to defend the indefensible and condoning racist behaviour instead of calling it out for what it is.

@JHB22 - PM has a history of this sort of thing. When she loses her temper, she resorts to bigotry. This time it was racism, but in this link she just casually slid in a bit of homophobia:

www.esa.co.za/forum/thread.php

She really is just an odious human being, and too stupid to know the difference between a direct insult and bigotry.

Guys why dont you leave PM and sabby. IMHO sabby and PM have nothing to do with some of the hatreds you have for both of them.

Some comments on here are personally attacking these two.
Sabby needs a new blesser and pm needs a new school bag that child looks like a kid.
You are all wrong to do this to them both. Therre are times for entertainment but this is taking it too far