@Taylor. This brings a different angle to the topic. Very much appreciated. I understand diverse backgrounds and give respect where it is due, but can't help to wonder then that if a girl was treated badly before that she will inevitably treat her clients badly, because the respect factor was lost along the way?

On 2016-12-12 19:19:41 Climax said:
On 2016-12-12 18:05:24

2.... like rubbing my clit as if he wants to pop it and I keep telling him time and time again to be gentle cause when flower frowns she instantly gets dry, and I don't know who told men that digging for diamonds in the puna is the way to go!....

Hahaha .. porn... porn is out there teaching guys as teenagers the wrong thing sometimes. You see guys " digging in the Puna" hard and fast and the woman cums in buckets from it and you think " ahh that's the key to a woman's orgasm"

You know you've been watching too much porn when you start wondering why your local librarian doesn't let down her hair take off her glasses and take you right there and then on the counter...

I liked both sugars answers, I feel like it gives a window to what YOU like, especially since the focus is always on what the punters like. The only time the focus is on what the ladies like it's when the talk is about gifts... and I don't know, maybe I'm in a dream world (I'm not) but I happen to feel like inside the women do feel like they want a connection too, this goes for during a session and just in real life. A connection can mean many a thing, people find different things to connect on.

I also think it's hot when a woman knows what turns her on, just like miss Barbie doll, this is someone that knows herself, the confidence alone is already attractive. And just take a look at that awesome arrangement. If Barbie falls for a guy and the feelings mutual and he happens to be Horny, she's okay with him hooking up with someone as long as she knows. Now is that hot or what !?

I received a brilliant response via PM last night from a lovely lady. I guess some questions will always be questions, but for the most part I believe I found what I was looking for. I also believe that it will differ for every person on this site. In this crazy purple sky world of knights on blue unicorns and princesses in lingerie there does not seem to be real balance. Maybe there shouldn't be. At least I know I am not suffering from insanity, but rather enjoying it.

We hear it all too often that women are emotional creatures, to me that logic suggests that women expect something more than just doing the deed and hitting the road with no afterthought spared. Women want to be treated well, the ladies here have summed it up well.

That said,I do not believe that it is entirely possible for most to detach completely and get on with business. Having to endure a booking with a client whom you are not particularly glad to be with is not the same as being detached. While in some cases it may be possible to detach yourself completely during a booking, that trait may be
very hard for most women to achieve as it may very well be linked to a period of time in her past which really changed the course of her life.

Like Lovemuff, I've been told on numerous occasions all sorts of niceties but whether it's genuine or not, I cannot tell.

My philosophy is quite simple. Treat every lady as if she is your lover...

I think the question posed is irrelevant. "What do women want?", did you see the laundry lists issued as a response? Seriously!

I reckon, before you decide to put on the superman gear, you need to first do a little introspection e.g What can I do for a woman? Can I deliver what I have promised? (no excuses)

From my little experience of women, I know one thing for sure, "Women (and that's all women, WG or not) don't want broken promises".

Honestly, it doesn't matter whether you're a Romeo or a Scarface, Phantom of the opera type of man, just be honest from the start. Admit you're a human with occasional super powers (roses, chocolates, wine, trips to Seychelles etc) - a man of steel - promise to make it on time and "DO" whatever and whenever you say you will.

Do this and she'll be yours forever.

@ I am who I am. I share your philosophy.

@Eziguy. Well said.

@Lovemuff, Imo detachment is a very necessary ability to have in this industry. Detachment is what keeps you sane, it is what helps you cope with the highs and lows of this industry. Without detachment, feelings of revulsion, self loathing and shame can rear its ugly head every now and again, and often drugs and booze is then used to suppress those feelings and to cope, in order to continue in this industry.

Detachment does not come naturally, especially as women are by nature emotional creatures. It takes a concerted effort and lots of practice to train the mind (and thus emotion) to divorce itself from the body during the sexual act. Those who manage to consistently detach the mind from the body, tend to remain completely booze and drug free even after being in the industry for years.

So in answer to your question, every client is "special", to varying degrees, with those who are nice gentlemen, being more "special" in the mind of the lady. What a woman wants, even though she is selling her body, is to be treated with kindness and respect, nothing more.

On 2016-12-12 22:06:07 Lovemuff said:
but can't help to wonder then that if a girl was treated badly before that she will inevitably treat her clients badly, because the respect factor was lost along the way?

I have been through a lot in my life and let me tell you whatever happened to me I don't take it out on my clients.

Most women are in this industry for that one reason, they seek what they never could get or have, because they get treated well, complimented, gifts, affection. Those are things that some never had in their lives. They feel a boost of confidence and they feel attractive and wanted. Some ladies even make friends that are geniune. They even get an amazing self esteem and they start building a personality that shows they are beautiful. Here we ladies can be ourselves and not be judged and we are also respected here