Darlings... just be yourselves and no change to routine. Treat your partners or spouses as you would any other day and don't overthink it too much. It's when you start overthinking your actions, that you make errors.

Anyway, let's be honest, 99% of my clients have partners/wives who don't give a damn about them and don't kiss or pay attention to their needs. Hence, their visits to me where I fill a void that they crave.

Just choose your punting time wisely...

MR
XOXOXO

Agreed Ruby.
Time is a big factor.
If you always late.. if you always on time. Now having so called meeting's where you never had them?
Timing is everything.
Ey I love my perfume...i dont like hugging my clients to long because but the perfum may stick to his clothes...
Always make space for my clients clothes away from mine.
Then again i do have bath facilities...and by now I know what deodorant and showergels my clients use.
So he will most probably walk out of my house smelling the same... the way he walked out of HIS house that morning.

And a big no no...if you loose your watch or wedding ring...(don't take it off we know you married )
Depending if you into sports. You can always say you forgot it at the gym...or your watch straps snapped and you took it in for repairs.

Another give away...you on your phone or more on you computer ..always on it.. or now you have a password on it to protect what ever information you have..and keep it away from you beta half.
Depending on your job.. you weren't always on your phone...now you can't put it down or put it on silent....hmm red flags ate going up!.

Ps: your tracker history.
Or GPS location also show your movements.
Delete all evidence please.
So gentleman this is a heads up on some of the things I look at.. be safe. .never underestimate a lady's 6 sense. ;-)

That's why being divorced is so great. No worries.

Oh Boobs, I think your worst mistake was using your real name on the forum. Apart from all the tens of thousands of rands that was spent here. That is a clear warning sign, wifey picks up on that so so quickly. They are like bloodhounds when it comes to money. Pretty much like the ladies here, they quickly pick up if you have money or not. Plead poverty when visiting, wear old clothes, preferably torn, never take your wallet with the black cards in, and that flashy watch, leave that in the car. Good luck with the wife Boobs, if you think she is on to you, then she is just tying the noose a little tighter. That private investigator has taken pics at all your regulars houses, as well as you entering and leaving HOE. My advice ? Start moving assets quickly.

On 2017-02-09 22:50:53 Lovemuff said:
My number one rule always was and always will be: I only use this site when I'm single. No sneaking around. When I'm in a relationship I just stop. No need to worry about bumping into someone or extra phones and stuff. Yes I have a spare phone, but I don't have to hide it. Will not work for most guys on this site though.

I am exactly the same sir.

Is Boobs seriously gone now?

Nope I don't think so grey.
He will just think of some other way of punting.. some punters tend to let there gard down.
Look I'm not saying stop punting!
I'm giving a heads up in what I look for if I think you jump the fence.
It's true what Easy said..
Alot of woman won't look for evidence because that could shatter they whole lives.
They would rather stay silent and do what they do to keep the peace.

Safety starts by not doing anything different and changing your routine.

Magtig ek kon n boek geskryf het.

Thank you Meg. Always appreciate your wisdom and experience my lady. I think you are dead right.

Will send him a whatsapp later and see if he answers...

#iwillnevermarryagain!

Lol..is n plesier.
Ey..even if I do marry oneday..it would be to someone I trust and know.
Iemand wat ek meer vertrou met my lewe as ek myself.
Trust is earned not just given.
Lekker punt almal.