On 2024-10-06 09:18:30 BannedChod said:
Incorrect yaar.
Best thing is the Social.
Too many contact I make it there just by arriving there.
Also for my own vehpaar and to meeting ladkis in non-booking mode.

So many bookings I do only from finding decent vibe at Social,ladkis Michelle,Galaxy,Sage,Robyn,Angie and too much more I do booking direct result from 5 minute greet,hug and exchange it number there.
Also,I meet it punter there and we find common interest like Peterborough got it his childrens at UP,& my childrens also go study a there,then I meet punter Bhaiyyo like Kickboxing and KingDings and Passionbhai and Tarzanji and TigerEye and Pere007 and Xclusive adverting man and too many guys yaar.
and then they includes me in their circle because we get along no drama no competitions only frends who want to see other frends have always great booking in future.

Now we stay contact too much and sometimes we do it the naughty-naughty together also,whole day,like small mini-social with 4 guys and 4 ladkis examples.

Plus I get it personally inviting to next Mayhem,too good year.

So because of Social all this good things happen for me.

If how all uglies nasty peoples here call it me retard and stoopid here on this forum,and still I make it so much networking for my own work and future regular booking with hot experienced ladkis,then anyone can do it same-to-same.

So come to next social is best thing,I buy you few drink also,ok?
But Kickbhai you have to buy 1 round for him,it is rule to get it entry into circle of frendships hahahaha.

Lmao absolutely brilliant.

On 2024-10-06 11:22:43 KICKASS said:
On 2024-10-06 09:18:30 BannedChod said: Incorrect yaar.
Best thing is the Social.
Too many contact I make it there just by arriving there.
Also for my own vehpaar and to meeting ladkis in non-booking mode.

So many bookings I do only from finding decent vibe at Social,ladkis Michelle,Galaxy,Sage,Robyn,Angie and too much more I do booking direct result from 5 minute greet,hug and exchange it number there.
Also,I meet it punter there and we find common interest like Peterborough got it his childrens at UP,& my childrens also go study a there,then I meet punter Bhaiyyo like Kickboxing and KingDings and Passionbhai and Tarzanji and TigerEye and Pere007 and Xclusive adverting man and too many guys yaar.
and then they includes me in their circle because we get along no drama no competitions only frends who want to see other frends have always great booking in future.

Now we stay contact too much and sometimes we do it the naughty-naughty together also,whole day,like small mini-social with 4 guys and 4 ladkis examples.

Plus I get it personally inviting to next Mayhem,too good year.

So because of Social all this good things happen for me.

If how all uglies nasty peoples here call it me retard and stoopid here on this forum,and still I make it so much networking for my own work and future regular booking with hot experienced ladkis,then anyone can do it same-to-same.

So come to next social is best thing,I buy you few drink also,ok?
But Kickbhai you have to buy 1 round for him,it is rule to get it entry into circle of frendships hahahaha.


Lmao absolutely brilliant.

Ah bhaijie I need to travel to Jozi for these socials, never been to one, if you buy me a round i'll buy you guys a round too

Hello everyone:)

This is a highly interesting topic, so allow me to use it to ask a question that has been on my mind for a while. People first find me to be a pleasant, gregarious, intelligent, and humorous person. However, I believe that as I've become older, I've learned to be aware of other people's energy and have limited who I share my light with. To put it another way, I find it really frightening to be around unhappy individuals. I absorb energies easily and am sensitive. I'm sure I wouldn't want to feel excluded from the social event. I doubt that will occur because of my bubbly character. But I definitely have my moments of weakness.where I occasionally ask myself What if there are vampires that feed off the lively energy in the room? And instead of enjoying yourself, you find that everything positive you said or did was questioned or disregarded.

We started the year with 50 pupils in our class when I was still performing theater, and by the end of it, we only had 32. From level 2 to level 3, I observed that classes become more enjoyable for me in level 2. My fault really, because in reality, I didn't enjoy level one I would arrive late for class and miss the group games the class played right before the play started. Among the games we played was the word association game you find in these forum.
Alternatively, we pass each other's names as we form a circle. As we pass the circle, nobody will be left behind. We share tears and laughs together. There was no fakery---emotions were genuine. I had no idea that these games could help us reconnect with our inner children and get our bodies and minds ready for work. I still grin when I reflect back on those days because I have so many wonderful memories of my fellow thespian.

Here's the question you've all been waiting for: are there any enjoyable games that encourage interaction among attendees at the social gathering? like games that are comparable to those found in a bachelor party or games with greater concepts than the ones I listed?

On 2024-10-05 23:21:43 Arizona said:
On 2024-10-05 10:17:45

Hey PeterB

As the original organizer of socials I can only say "Well Done" for continuing all the hard work that goes on behind the scenes. I wish you all the best going forward. And thank you so much to ESA and the hosting venues for the support over the years.

Love
Arizona

You where amazing in hosting,thank God Peterb for continuing where you left:)I miss you,I remember my first social at News cafe Revonia eish I was a badass girl hehehehehe

There is absolutely nothing wrong with the socials..its the mindsets of those that attend that will either make it great of shit for them.

If you go in there expecting it to resemble a "strip club" "orgy""sex all over th place" kinda thing, you will be disappointed.

If you expect the "high level of networking style interactions" that can take place at other socials where people are overly polite and always look to get the wall flowers included and make business connections, you will be dissappointed.

If you expect the "local bar vibe" where you will feel like everyone knows everyone and things are a bit high energy you will be dissapointed.

It can be all of those one minute and none of it the next minute. It is kinda unique just like the "taboo" interactions we have one on one.

Just go and expect to have a drink, see gorgeous people milling around relax and enjoy the food and if you really want to meet someone dont wait for them to approach you or someone to introduce you, make it happen for yourself.

I only ever managed to attend once and that took a whole lot of planning for me being from CPT. I arrived a bit late due to flight and traffic and had to leave a bit early as I had a all-nighter lined up for the same evening.;) But I enjoyed every second I was there. I got to see old fimiliar faces and put faces to names and meet new people, it was worth the trip for me.

The venue was great the people where great. I had nothing to complain about.

Dont know why I never attended when I was based in JHB.. knowing what I know now I should have attended more often and also should accepted atleast one of the many many invites to just pop out for a "mini" social.

Its a great way to just relax for a few hours within the company of people that all are part of a "taboo" world.

I been saying we should have a CPT based social for years but i had run into so many issues trying to arrange one. Venues here aint as receptive of the idea, parking is always a issue in cpt and to top it off mpst CPT punters just dont like the idea that they might run into someone they know;)

Maybe one day we will manage to get it done. ;)

I would probably never attend a social, as i value my privacy.
BUT honestly, i dont get some people's negative energy....
If it is not for you, just move on. And even if you think it is a group of individuals attending that is not your social type, why try to demean them?

Do you get orgasms from being cruel and or nasty?

My question was is there Any enjoyable games that encourage interaction among the attendees. Simply because it was mentioned that probably the oak that started the tread was alone in a corner.
Miss hear me well my you are miss understanding me I ve never went to any social of an adult club nor have I attended the orgy but yes I have enjoyed attending some bachelor party I've learned from the best.
There is no need for defense I clearly need to know. And I don't know you as a defensive person either. Please chill. It's a honest question from someone who never Attended the social gathering.

@ Allora... my comment was not in answer to your comment...;)

It is directed at those that feel the need to be negative.. as vrik said people just need to not be that negative.

As to your question.. at the social i did not see anything as you mentioned but there was a Q&A type thingy and there was give aways by ESA etc.. that said i also arrived a bit late amd left a bit early so have no clue of i missed anything like you mentioned.;)

But you can have a chat with peterb and nick from pablos maybe they can give you more clear answers or even set up something like you memtioned for the next social.

On 2024-10-06 15:45:51 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said:
There is absolutely nothing wrong with the socials..its the mindsets of those that attend that will either make it great of shit for them.

If you go in there expecting it to resemble a "strip club" "orgy""sex all over th place" kinda thing, you will be disappointed.

If you expect the "high level of networking style interactions" that can take place at other socials where people are overly polite and always look to get the wall flowers included and make business connections, you will be dissappointed.

If you expect the "local bar vibe" where you will feel like everyone knows everyone and things are a bit high energy you will be dissapointed.

It can be all of those one minute and none of it the next minute. It is kinda unique just like the "taboo" interactions we have one on one.

Just go and expect to have a drink, see gorgeous people milling around relax and enjoy the food and if you really want to meet someone dont wait for them to approach you or someone to introduce you, make it happen for yourself.

I only ever managed to attend once and that took a whole lot of planning for me being from CPT. I arrived a bit late due to flight and traffic and had to leave a bit early as I had a all-nighter lined up for the same evening.;) But I enjoyed every second I was there. I got to see old fimiliar faces and put faces to names and meet new people, it was worth the trip for me.

The venue was great the people where great. I had nothing to complain about.

Dont know why I never attended when I was based in JHB.. knowing what I know now I should have attended more often and also should accepted atleast one of the many many invites to just pop out for a "mini" social.

Its a great way to just relax for a few hours within the company of people that all are part of a "taboo" world.

I been saying we should have a CPT based social for years but i had run into so many issues trying to arrange one. Venues here aint as receptive of the idea, parking is always a issue in cpt and to top it off mpst CPT punters just dont like the idea that they might run into someone they know;)

Maybe one day we will manage to get it done. ;)

Was just off the booking when I half read this and I took a cold shower. Couldn't wait to get home and cuddle with My warm pillow.

I took note of your clarification Miss Red. I kind of get an idea what the social gathering is all about. Thanks

On 2024-10-06 18:50:00 Miss Red ( Aka Louise ) said:
@ Allora... my comment was not in answer to your comment...;)

It is directed at those that feel the need to be negative.. as vrik said people just need to not be that negative.

As to your question.. at the social i did not see anything as you mentioned but there was a Q&A type thingy and there was give aways by ESA etc.. that said i also arrived a bit late amd left a bit early so have no clue of i missed anything like you mentioned.;)

But you can have a chat with peterb and nick from pablos maybe they can give you more clear answers or even set up something like you memtioned for the next social.

I noted Miss . Now that I'm in the comfort of my space:). My humble Appology my lady.