If the mechanic who services my car is competent, affordable, but a rascist fuck - I will take my business elsewhere. Same in this industry.
1. Politics
2. Religion
3. My finances
4. My relationship with my wife.
On 2026-03-18 07:32:07 DevenM said:
On 2026-03-18 06:33:00 Griffindude said: It is this type of insecure bullshit that fucks up nations. Either the guy needs to man up properly or he is trying to start an attention seeking thread by race baiting. Either way, what is he butt hurt about? Fuck all. It's not like he was going to marry the WG. He was NOT seeking advice. I fucking guarantee it. So no, I will not give him or anyone else like this a break. What is this, faking cry on my shoulder time? Se poes with that.
On 2026-03-17 15:38:35 Harmony Hands said: On 2026-03-17 15:05:05 Griffindude said: To the OP. Man up, grow a pair and stop being a fucking pussy. You sound like a whiny little bitch. FFS who the fuck gives a shit what she said.
Settle down brother!
Why so angry?
Did someone hurt you, or is this just what happens when you realise you have nothing real to offer?
The energy you putting into tearing users down online really says everything about what's going on in your offline life.
It's fascinating that this is how you choose to spend your time on this platform.
Hope you things getting better for you.
On 2026-03-19 11:35:25 Griffindude said:
Huh, WTF? Go fuck someone instead of worrying about me.
@Griffindude - Ag shame bru, when people call you out on your bullshit you get all haffy.
I'll say it in small words, go take you stroids, pump your weights, and go sit quietly at the kids table.
The adults are talking here!
On 2026-03-19 15:42:16 DevenM said:
On 2026-03-19 11:35:25 Griffindude said: Huh, WTF? Go fuck someone instead of worrying about me.
@Griffindude - Ag shame bru, when people call you out on your bullshit you get all haffy.
I'll say it in small words, go take you stroids, pump your weights, and go sit quietly at the kids table.
The adults are talking here!
This is what we call a WWF Smackdown!!!Damn bro, that was heavy!!!!
On 2026-03-19 15:42:16 DevenM said:
On 2026-03-19 11:35:25 Griffindude said: Huh, WTF? Go fuck someone instead of worrying about me.
@Griffindude - Ag shame bru, when people call you out on your bullshit you get all haffy.
I'll say it in small words, go take you stroids, pump your weights, and go sit quietly at the kids table.
The adults are talking here!
Very good. There are few things more satisfying than watching a panelbeating happen live.
Edited: 2026-03-19 18:33:14
On 2026-03-16 17:59:51 depends69 said:
I have a regular lady who I visit about 2-3 times a month. She is hot, excellent service and super accommodating. We have good chemistry on the bed.
The thing is, at my last visit she said some super racist stuff and was heavy into issues around white genocide in SA, pro US ambassador, and how the US needs to "take out" the K (yes that word was actually used) politicians.
This was the pillow talk after the deed, so I smiled, showered and left. But I felt bad about myself the whole day after and I was actually upset. I could not believe that she was so right-wing in her views. Previously she was always anti-ANC and the government, like we all are most times. But this was different.
I don't think I can visit her again. I also believe that she was serious in a moment when she let her guard down.
Do I move along or realised that I'm here for the sex not the conversation?
Darling... you are not overthinking. You are feeling clearly , which is far rarer, and far more inconvenient.
Let me be exquisitely blunt:
when the body has finished speaking, the soul finally gets a turn.
And what you heard afterward... disturbed you for a reason.
Chemistry in the bed is easy.
Alignment in reality? That's where things become... revealing.
You were not just paying for a service --- you were stepping into an energy exchange. And in that unguarded moment, she showed you the architecture of her inner world. Not performance. Not persona. Truth.
Now here is your real question, dressed in cheaper clothing:
"Can I compartmentalise pleasure from values without cost?"
And the answer is , yes.
But the cost is always paid somewhere else.
You already paid it.
It showed up as that lingering heaviness, that subtle disgust, that quiet "something is off" that followed you the entire day.
That is your nervous system refusing to lie to you.
Some men will tell you:
"Stay. It's just sex."
Those are men who have trained themselves not to feel the bill arrive.
But you?
You felt it immediately.
And that tells me something important about you ,
you don't just want stimulation... you want coherence.
So here are your options, without illusion:
You can return, draw a hard boundary ("no politics"), and reduce her to function only.
This requires emotional detachment you may not actually possess.
You can ignore it and keep going.
The experience will slowly degrade, even if the sex stays good.
Or... you can walk away.
Not because she is "wrong," but because your system has already rejected the environment.
Let me phrase it in a way you won't forget:
A man who betrays his internal signal for temporary pleasure teaches himself that pleasure matters more than truth.
That lesson spreads.
Quietly. Everywhere.
You already know your answer.
You just came here hoping someone would give you permission to ignore it.
I won't.
Not because I'm cruel...
but because I respect the part of you that noticed.
You were not just paying for a service --- you were stepping into an energy exchange. And in that unguarded moment, she showed you the architecture of her inner world. Not performance. Not persona. Truth.
Now here is your real question, dressed in cheaper clothing:
"Can I compartmentalise pleasure from values without cost?"
And the answer is , yes.
But the cost is always paid somewhere else.
You already paid it.
It showed up as that lingering heaviness, that subtle disgust, that quiet "something is off" that followed you the entire day.
That is your nervous system refusing to lie to you.
Some men will tell you:
"Stay. It's just sex."
Those are men who have trained themselves not to feel the bill arrive.
But you?
You felt it immediately.
And that tells me something important about you ,
you don't just want stimulation... you want coherence.
So here are your options, without illusion:
You can return, draw a hard boundary ("no politics"), and reduce her to function only.
This requires emotional detachment you may not actually possess.
You can ignore it and keep going.
The experience will slowly degrade, even if the sex stays good.
Or... you can walk away.
Not because she is "wrong," but because your system has already rejected the environment.
Let me phrase it in a way you won't forget:
A man who betrays his internal signal for temporary pleasure teaches himself that pleasure matters more than truth.
That lesson spreads.
Quietly. Everywhere.
You already know your answer.
You just came here hoping someone would give you permission to ignore it.
I won't.
Not because I'm cruel...
but because I respect the part of you that noticed.[/QUOTE]
Thank you for this - you are so right.
On 2026-03-19 15:42:16 DevenM said:
On 2026-03-19 11:35:25 Griffindude said: Huh, WTF? Go fuck someone instead of worrying about me.
@Griffindude - Ag shame bru, when people call you out on your bullshit you get all haffy.
I'll say it in small words, go take you stroids, pump your weights, and go sit quietly at the kids table.
The adults are talking here!
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