Easy money yes, everything else should be really difficult.

WWhite I fully agree!

On 2017-02-01 08:51:20 WWhite said:
I agree, doing it can not be easy, but lets not forget one important thing, you are doing it by choice. Unless you were forced into sexual slavery you chose this profession and have a choice to get out, so cry me a river. All of the ladies on ESA are able bodied and from what I can read from the comments here very literate and intelligent, so there are no "victims" here. You dont like something, you make a choice and do something else and more often than not that means starting at the bottom which is the real reason girls are stuck in this industry, don't want to take risks or pit in the effort at the expense of losing the quick money. Shame.

I understand your point.
But there is 3 sides to every story...yours...mind and the truth.
Don't judge if you not walking in our shoes.
Ps: No one is asking you for anything are they?
Ever went out there and look for a normal job in the new SA with a NONE working rate off 33%?
We not here for you to feel sorry for us.
We here to work.
In my case I do a honest job.
Think we didn't or dont tri and look for a normal job so we can have a so called normal life?
Please ..you in the wrong place to judge or look down on Us.
I'm not a victim...i know my past ..I AM a survivor.
We do what we have to to make a living.
Im not judging you by the work you do.
So please keep yourself busy with what ever you do. ..trolling!
Sorry that's just my thoughts OUT loud.

How would you know?

On 2017-02-01 10:09:09 WWhite said:
On 2017-02-01 09:20:09 Mike23 said: On 2017-02-01 09:13:01 daporra said: Must be the hardest job on the face of this earth, especially at top service levels when the ladies give there all, it must be soul consuming.

My hat off to all and I do not envy your work, just love it.


Mmm I think coal miners might disagree with you there.

Yet if a coal miner came on here and complained how hard his job is, he would get zero sympathy, yet Im baffled by the outpouring of sympathy for wg's for doing what is afterall a choice.

On 2017-02-01 08:51:20 WWhite said: I agree, doing it can not be easy, but lets not forget one important thing, you are doing it by choice. Unless you were forced into sexual slavery you chose this profession and have a choice to get out, so cry me a river. All of the ladies on ESA are able bodied and from what I can read from the comments here very literate and intelligent, so there are no "victims" here. You dont like something, you make a choice and do something else and more often than not that means starting at the bottom which is the real reason girls are stuck in this industry, don't want to take risks or pit in the effort at the expense of losing the quick money. Shame.




Let me tell you something !! I was sitting in front off a young girl Friday night and she told me why she is in this Industry doing what she is doing .. Not to have satisfaction OR orgasims and to please every punter .to please the punter was her first choice ,but to work as a SP is hard and she needs to put food on the table ..she is very young come from a small town where there is no Job offers .her father and mother does not work .She provides and that is what makes her proud ..does not matter what work she is doing she put's food on the table and Im proud off her . There is no more choices in This country as fucked as it is to choose or just go and pick a job .you need to do what you have to do to to die of hunger ..So let the girls live there live's they why they choose ..Thank's to all SP MG ..for what you do and be proud off it .

On 2017-02-01 08:51:20 WWhite said:
I agree, doing it can not be easy, but lets not forget one important thing, you are doing it by choice. Unless you were forced into sexual slavery you chose this profession and have a choice to get out, so cry me a river. All of the ladies on ESA are able bodied and from what I can read from the comments here very literate and intelligent, so there are no "victims" here. You dont like something, you make a choice and do something else and more often than not that means starting at the bottom which is the real reason girls are stuck in this industry, don't want to take risks or pit in the effort at the expense of losing the quick money. Shame.

Choice, such an easy thing to say... when are sitting with choices, there are a lot of people in SA and around the world without a lot of choices.
They have found themselves unable to support themselves or their families in any other way, other then standing on a corner with a piece of cardboard. So they have made a choice, to do the hard thing, to put up with us, to please us and to earn a living amount doing it.
I have never met a single one who wanted to be considered a victim, so quit with the condescension.

As for easy money ? Risk free ? or not willing to put in the effort ? Are you fucking kidding me ? There is not a single easy rand earned when dealing with most of the clients these ladies have to deal with, from the sweaty hairy mechanic with dirty nails who hasn't showered before arriving or the merc driving flashy dresser who will try take off his condom half-way through.
Nothing easy about it, these woman earn every single rand they get from us when they make us feel like kings for the booking, when then actually smile and try to enjoy making us feel good even though they might find us physically repulsive.

As to risk, if you have spent any amount of time actually having a conversation with any single one of the girls they would be to tell of the amount of times a punter has gotten rough, pushed her around, scared her, beaten her and even here in Purple Land, raped her... so you can fuck right off with the idea that this is risk free, honestly, the absolute lack of comprehension displayed sometimes by us punters is astounding and embarrassing sometimes....

I agree. There is no such thing as easy money. If it was so the industry would be flooded. All we can do is to treat each other well and with respect

On 2017-02-01 12:17:50 IreFilledMonkey said:
On 2017-02-01 08:51:20 WWhite said: I agree, doing it can not be easy, but lets not forget one important thing, you are doing it by choice. Unless you were forced into sexual slavery you chose this profession and have a choice to get out, so cry me a river. All of the ladies on ESA are able bodied and from what I can read from the comments here very literate and intelligent, so there are no "victims" here. You dont like something, you make a choice and do something else and more often than not that means starting at the bottom which is the real reason girls are stuck in this industry, don't want to take risks or pit in the effort at the expense of losing the quick money. Shame.

Choice, such an easy thing to say... when are sitting with choices, there are a lot of people in SA and around the world without a lot of choices.
They have found themselves unable to support themselves or their families in any other way, other then standing on a corner with a piece of cardboard. So they have made a choice, to do the hard thing, to put up with us, to please us and to earn a living amount doing it.
I have never met a single one who wanted to be considered a victim, so quit with the condescension.

As for easy money ? Risk free ? or not willing to put in the effort ? Are you fucking kidding me ? There is not a single easy rand earned when dealing with most of the clients these ladies have to deal with, from the sweaty hairy mechanic with dirty nails who hasn't showered before arriving or the merc driving flashy dresser who will try take off his condom half-way through.
Nothing easy about it, these woman earn every single rand they get from us when they make us feel like kings for the booking, when then actually smile and try to enjoy making us feel good even though they might find us physically repulsive.

As to risk, if you have spent any amount of time actually having a conversation with any single one of the girls they would be to tell of the amount of times a punter has gotten rough, pushed her around, scared her, beaten her and even here in Purple Land, raped her... so you can fuck right off with the idea that this is risk free, honestly, the absolute lack of comprehension displayed sometimes by us punters is astounding and embarrassing sometimes....

Thank you for your kind words and understanding bokkie . This is reality for us but a fantasy for everyone's else...

There's nothing easy in choosing to pay a part electricity or choosing between food or what ever we need.
So ill sleep well tonight knowing that there is amazing gentlemen out there who treats us with respect..
Thank gentleman for everything you do to help and contribute to our lives.
We appreciate everything you do for us.

I am the youngest of six kids, my father passed away when I was 1. I only know him from pictures. He worked as a construction worker on building sites, couldnt finish school since my grandparents were so poor he had to go out and earn a living from an early age. There wasn't much more an uneducated non-white could do in those days, well paying railway jobs were not reserved for non-whites in those days. My mother looked after us kids, primarily since it was a full time job to look after us and one of my siblings had severe spastic quadriplegic cerebral palsy. Circumstances also prevented her from getting an education, despite her being the brightest in her school. When my dad passed away we lost even the little that we had. My mother worked several jobs, including cleaning people's houses and farm labour. We lived in so many places I lost count. My eldest sister had to jump in and help look after us since before she even had her first period. We as kids took weekend and after school jobs from the moment we could do something to help our mother. However tough it was for her we weren't allowed to drop out of school to work full time. My one brother was killed by a farm truck on his way back from the 6 kilometers he had to walk back and forth to work every day. Left for dead by the side of the road because his life had no value to whoever hit him, just a poor farm labourer. We had little to no help from any outside parties. We were the poorest kids in school, but we worked the hardest. We couldnt even afford warm clothes or shoes during the winter months and I am still haunted by the endless teasing from other kids on how we looked and where we lived. Hard work and perseverance was drilled into us. We were poor, but we were clean and we never missed a day of school even if most days we only had dry bread to share. My mother would just fall asleep from exhaustion in the chair after a long day of work. After school besides home work, we had to carry wood and water. She was never bitter a day in her life and never took an easy way out. She told us to dream big and never let your circumstances dictate your future. She would tell us we could be whatever we want to be. I finished my matric with straight A's but because there was no money I worked on a construction site like my father once did. The owner saw my potential and asked me what I wanted to be and I replied an engineer. He helped me with my registration money for the following year. I walked 2 km's to campus every day, because I couldn't afford to stay on campus and peiple were kind enough to let me share a room with one of their sons for a year. It was also the first time I experienced an inside toilet. I finished my year cum laude and received a full scholarship for the following year. Today I am a successful business man, with twelve successful businesses and my siblings are equally successful. My youngest sister is a well known neurosurgeon in Canada.

Im not here to judge anyone for what they are doing. I was commenting on the fact that people are unhappy with what they are doing as if they have no choice. I pass no judgment on wg's. However if you are unhappy with your situation or job (wg or no wg), make a CHOICE. Just decide. That's half the battle won.

On 2017-02-01 08:51:20 WWhite said:
I agree, doing it can not be easy

I clearly stated that its not easy, so whoever is explaining to me how it is not easy is missing the point completely.