This is true and while
I agree it makes work far more difficult for the advertisers.

However, what do you mean secure a booking? By paying a booking fee? Personally I'd never do that for two reasons, privacy and security. Security in being stood up. I paid a deposit once upfront eft for a booking and surprise surprise. Stood up. ESA support was very helpful and she's been banned. But that's something I'll never do again.

I guess if someone stands you up I'm sure the ladies here make a note on the contacts?

On 2026-05-24 11:34:12 Didi said:
As an advertiser l will say this making a booking without secure it,it will be a gamble because this days it's been difficult to work with punters.
We will loose pontential clients while waiting for someone who's not going to come or cancel last minute..and we face this on our daily basis and it's making us difficult to operate..so if you can't secure the booking it will be first come first save
I hope punters will start stop wasting our time FR.
Even regulars are becoming so difficult aswel.

Misrepresented age is a good reason to cancel. Intoxication too.

If she looks like the opposite of her profile then that's also a misrepresentation that you can cancel for.

Few times I've personally pushed through, I hated myself after so I'm pretty fickle now.

On 2026-05-26 04:45:27 BillToolman said:
This is true and while
I agree it makes work far more difficult for the advertisers.

However, what do you mean secure a booking? By paying a booking fee? Personally I'd never do that for two reasons, privacy and security. Security in being stood up. I paid a deposit once upfront eft for a booking and surprise surprise. Stood up. ESA support was very helpful and she's been banned. But that's something I'll never do again.

I guess if someone stands you up I'm sure the ladies here make a note on the contacts?

On 2026-05-24 11:34:12 Didi said: As an advertiser l will say this making a booking without secure it,it will be a gamble because this days it's been difficult to work with punters.
We will loose pontential clients while waiting for someone who's not going to come or cancel last minute..and we face this on our daily basis and it's making us difficult to operate..so if you can't secure the booking it will be first come first save
I hope punters will start stop wasting our time FR.
Even regulars are becoming so difficult aswel.

This year l've been working with secured bookings and thanks to the gents who make it easier and trust me..and I will never ruin my reputation by scamming a punter..and l no longer have time wasters and the gents that comes to me they will find me fully prepared without delay them or double book them..
And if you check my profile not even a single gent will complain that l scammed him.
And my schedules are going smoothly on my side.
And l will never give out punters info-l try my best to be professional.

And l am so sorry that you had bad experience and you did right by reporting the issue..
:-)

And about saving the contacts as a time wasters in our phones,Punters can change numbers anytime and book us again with the different number and still waste our time.

On 2026-05-26 11:30:59 Didi said:
And about saving the contacts as a time wasters in our phones,Punters can change numbers anytime and book us again with the different number and still waste our time.

@Didi

I understand that last minute cancellations and no-shows do have a finacial impact on your business.

You are one of a few SPs thats trustworthy enough where one can pay a deposit and know the session will be honored.

Unfortunately the same can't be said about a lot of other SPs, and that do make us punters wary of securing a session.

On 2026-05-26 11:26:04 Didi said:


This year l've been working with secured bookings and thanks to the gents who make it easier and trust me..and I will never ruin my reputation by scamming a punter..and l no longer have time wasters and the gents that comes to me they will find me fully prepared without delay them or double book them..
And if you check my profile not even a single gent will complain that l scammed him.
And my schedules are going smoothly on my side.
And l will never give out punters info-l try my best to be professional.

And l am so sorry that you had bad experience and you did right by reporting the issue..
:-)

Same Didi

I would not put my reputation at risk by scamming clients. It makes absolutely no business sense!!

I've been working with confirmation deposits for nearly 2 years. It has made everything much smoother for all involved.

I absolutely appreciate all my lovers who have trusted me with their deposits! It shows a level of mutual investment before the booking takes place.

On 2026-05-26 06:17:01 RobertLoblaw said:
Misrepresented age is a good reason to cancel. Intoxication too.

If she looks like the opposite of her profile then that's also a misrepresentation that you can cancel for.

Few times I've personally pushed through, I hated myself after so I'm pretty fickle now.

Definitely a cancellation. Can't go in for strawberry and be expected to accept tomatoes.

You'd walk out if a store or deal in any other business. Makes zero sense to stay here.

JP69

On 2026-05-27 08:11:20 JackParrow69 said:
On 2026-05-26 06:17:01 RobertLoblaw said: Misrepresented age is a good reason to cancel. Intoxication too.

If she looks like the opposite of her profile then that's also a misrepresentation that you can cancel for.

Few times I've personally pushed through, I hated myself after so I'm pretty fickle now.

Definitely a cancellation. Can't go in for strawberry and be expected to accept tomatoes.

You'd walk out if a store or deal in any other business. Makes zero sense to stay here.

JP69

Damn skippy

Ok - and on a completely different tack........
This addressed to to the ladies
If a guy on the the phone says he is 45- and then he turn up for the appointment and he is say 65, Do you ahead with the booking?

On 2026-05-27 14:52:17 ErnieE said:
Ok - and on a completely different tack........
This addressed to to the ladies
If a guy on the the phone says he is 45- and then he turn up for the appointment and he is say 65, Do you ahead with the booking?

We understand you're new here but stick to the topic at hand.

You more than welcome to post a new thread asking that and all the ladies will chime in. I mean you did create a whole account and sign up to GM to say that. Just start a new thread. Derailing is such a wg thing to do and probably not a great start on the ESA forum.

JP69