One post and this is the best this doos can come up with. If this really happened then fuck him too for not naming and shaming. Let me be the first to say "Fuck off you lousy poes"

If you do feel you have no way out, maybe call this Hawks captain. Captain Louck with his number. It's for the other scam not blackmail about families but if no where else to turn.
www.saps.gov.za/newsroom/msspeechdetail.php

Maybe we should work together with the police and trap these guys once and for all.

On 2025-05-08 11:27:03 therodent said:
One post and this is the best this doos can come up with. If this really happened then fuck him too for not naming and shaming. Let me be the first to say "Fuck off you lousy poes"

I reckon maybe he created the new account specifically to make this post.

As a regular, I'd also not want to make this post under my normal profile. You'll be able to see who he has reviewed etc and those ladies might end up catching strays.

Or, out of fear he's already deleted the old profile while cleaning up his online presence?

Oooor maybe you're right and he's just having a little fun at our expense. There are those one or two idiots that love doing just that. Who knows...

Thank you guys, it's good to get differing opinions. I did immediately start taking countermeasure to prepare her for any fallout. I will prefer not to say exactly what I've done as the scammers could even be monitoring this conversation. Maybe I'm just being super paranoid and no offense to ESA, I'm sure they understand my paranoia at this stage.

@X@I

Dear gentleman(s),

It has come to our attention that an individual(s) presenting herself/them as a lady of distinction has not been conducting herself with the integrity and grace we hold in the highest regard in our industry.

We kindly remind you to always trust your instincts and verify authenticity---true elegance never deceives.

Discretion and respect are the cornerstones of our world. Let's keep it that way.

Warmly,

Taylor @Scarletts

On 2025-05-08 11:27:03 therodent said:
One post and this is the best this doos can come up with. If this really happened then fuck him too for not naming and shaming. Let me be the first to say "Fuck off you lousy poes"

Don't agree with this buddy.

The wrong girl could be implicated. A WG once accidentally sent me screenshots of my talk with her. Obviously an error.

I wasn't active on ESA at the time. Nuked my account and then was just looking for numbers. The WG was foreign and I got the call after she left. I tried to keep it on the DL to not cause waves because thought she knew I knew. I know the lingo and the "Captain" hung up and blocked me.

1) Block and ignore everything coming your way. Exposing you is exposing themselves for no reward. Say you are broke and block WhatsApps, calls, FB DMs, etc

2) If you feel that you have no choice, call the cell of the Hawks captain that I posted above.

3) Do not hand over a cent. They will then really harass you for every last cent in your accounts. Guys have handed over 5 and then ended up giving 100s of 1000s. I have heard of a guy who it ruined real bad. Like no coming back from it.

Pay attention to point 3. Whatever happens, unfortunately even if they just go through with any of the threats, no amount of money will make it go away. They will milk you until you have zero left. You will need to then be found out by everyone anyway

On 2025-05-08 11:27:03 therodent said:
One post and this is the best this doos can come up with. If this really happened then fuck him too for not naming and shaming. Let me be the first to say "Fuck off you lousy poes"

Thank you for this comment because that's exactly what I've thought over the years on ESA when I've looked at some posts and you can see from a mile away it's just attention seeking. I always wonder if this is a doos trolling or just a general doos in everyday life. Unfortunately this post is genuine and quite a shit thing to go through. For the input both positive and negative I'm glad the common consensus is just don't pay a cent because it will most likely not be the end of it. For the comment from Jimmie2, thank you for this I will certainly go this route. If this post now dies a sudden and quiet death I would be quite happy. Now let's get back to what really matters the most, pussy.

On 2025-05-07 15:54:29 X@I said:
I thought it will never happen to me. What an idiot, after years of using a punting phone and burner sim I got lax and used my personal cellphone to make a booking and it turned out to be scammers. They have my full name, where I work, my address and my wife's full name and contact details. I'm being blackmailed for a huge sum of money and it's relentless calls and threatening messages. Fortunately I'm connected to a big biker club that's working on it for me but there's no guarantee they won't send the screenshots to my wife, if they do my marriage is over. Guys don't be a fool like me, get a punting phone and burner sim before you land up in my situation. If anyone knows how to handle the entire situation please message me

If you don name and shame please don't waste our time

The problem here is that gents phone numerous ladies to compare prices. So if he called a few ladies, it is not to say the lady he saw that day is the culprit. We, as service providers, get bombarded DAILY by scammers asking us to sell numbers to them. DAILY!! So this whole operating is HUGE. For us it is easy, we just block those numbers, but there are a lot of ladies on this forum who obviously sell some clients numbers, and getting away with it!!! It is seriously affecting our business.