On 2020-02-23 16:52:55 Kimmi said:
It's not being racist. It's a preference of choice just as you have a preference of choice.
On 2020-02-22 22:11:40 Ben Layden said:
...Indeed sir, methinks this ssurfer dude is one masala sandwich short of a picnic...
On 2020-02-23 22:37:26 balasbak said:
This is why this country is completely fucked, trying to service interest in debt owed by the country at R1 Billion a day and getting worse so look forward to some personal tax increases, increase in VAT and any other possible avenue for the corrupt government to plunder, but let's all waste fucken time debating race, when the country is going to hell in a hand basket. Bravo, well done everyone, you have all contributed to achieving fuck all, other than to bitch, moan and wine about white woman having race preferences which is there fucken choice and your inability to accept same, and some guys of color clearing trying to stroke their egos about disclosing they have fucked white woman, well done, hate to break it to you but you have achieved fuck all, just move along now, and go cry to your mommies!
On 2020-02-20 12:43:37 tony b bop said:
Steady on chaps, it does get a guy down, and if you haven't faced it you cannot relate to it, much less deride someone for commenting on something they face every day in many ways.
In fairness Pears, ladies are entitled to a preference.
It is not necessarily a racist thing and can simply be a matter of not finding something attractive, be it a belly, ass, age type, accent or skin tone.
If I had a buck for every lady that disagreed with me on the topic of my awesome manliness, wonderous sex appeal, prodigious intellect, stallion like stamina and overall magnificence I'd be able to afford a Ster Kinekor movie (with snacks) and have change left over for a decent sized bachelor's flat in Sandton.
If it is a race thing then F#UCK EM! (hang on that's not right, don't f#ck em) If you're a nice guy its their loss. If you are not a nice guy who cares, plenty more fish in the sea and all that.
We will be like "this," with regard to the race thing, in SA for generations, less so with each generation but it will take time. All we can do is to do our best to show people that race is in no way an indicator of a person's character, we won't always succeed but that is all we can do.
My wife varies between a luscious light caramel to a magnificent burnt umber completion, while I am a pale pasty chap only one dot of melanin shy of albinism. If I had to have a word, or take more vigorous action, with everyone who had decided to make a comment, give a look or display the most appalling levels of ignorance, I'd never get anything done.
Its SA and that its our life. Not great, not fair, not nice but that's what it is... for now.
On 2020-02-20 12:44:50 Mersedes said:
Because of rape. And threats. And absolutely bad behavior.
Sorry to the good guys of colour but I will not put myself in a position that I don't feel comfortable with.
Thank you for understanding
On 2020-02-20 13:00:07 KICKASS said:
I think this is a good thing get it off ur chest say what u have to. Let's also not forget that next week we can discuss the same topic but it's important to actually discuss how you feel so we can get the relevant authority's involved.
On 2020-02-20 13:16:42 Veronica Franco said:
It is what it is unfortunately. This has been debated a number of times over the years and never ends well. Keep looking, you'll find someone eventually. It's a pain in the ass, but you aren't gonna change anyone's mind here. Although tables are turning for many economically, you never know from one day to the next who the ladies are actually seeing, lol.
I am looked down on by many ladies and punters because I see all races! I've somehow become disgusting and dirty for seeing men of colour...I think they are mostly afraid of the same stigma that they hang over my head! Do I give a shit? Hell no! It is interesting seeing the dynamics of it though!
On 2020-02-20 13:19:30 Rossia said:
It's not about racism . I had many Africans and African guys booking me as I am of a different culture and spicies as they can't figure out what race I am . It is like am an alien and it's something very new to them. Specially those that never left South African and expore different cultures.