On 2026-08-08 18:29:02 Danika said:
On 2026-08-08 16:25:19 Cameron Ford said: I'm not surprised Danika commented positively to your post pumpkineater, as she's one of those wgs who say they love and care about clients but give nothing at exaggerated rates.
Cameron, I'm going to address this once because you've now made it personal.

You don't know me, you've never booked me, and you clearly have no idea what my clients receive from me or how I conduct my business. So your statement that I "give nothing" while charging "exaggerated rates" is based on absolutely nothing other than your own assumptions.

You're welcome to dislike my rates. You're welcome to decide that my services aren't for you. That's your choice, just as it's my choice to decide what I offer, what I charge, and what my boundaries are.

And saying I claim to "love and care about clients" while apparently giving nothing is a pretty strange conclusion to draw about someone you have never even dealt with personally.

The whole point of the post I supported was that both sides are capable of making their own choices. Clients can choose who they see, what they're comfortable paying and whether someone's services suit them. Providers can choose their boundaries, prices, booking policies and who they accept.

If my rates or services aren't for you, simply don't book me. There is absolutely no need to invent a story about my business or character to justify your personal preference.

You don't have to like me, Cameron. But if you're going to talk about me publicly, at least have something factual to say.

Danika dont waste ur breath and time on this fucker. He has been a member for 2 months and 11 post later all of them are complaining about something. No wonder he is a goldmember. All they can do is complain all day anyway. Oh and compare dick sizes on there personal forum and whatsapp groups.

I could not read all that drivel

Often if I find a lady on ESA I look on the red advertising site as well, if I can find the same lady , where they state more of the services they offer . Like BDMS, Golden Showers etc...

On 2026-08-08 18:41:19 Pumpkineater said:

Let me get to the scamming part. Guys how do practice a hobby thats illegal and think u wont get caught sometime or another. Its like robbing a bank and when u get caught its the banks fault. COME ON GUYS.
You doing this with ur eyes open and definitely not with a gun againts your head. If this game is to dangerous then walk away. Stop bitching and moaning. U got scammed. Boo fucken Hoo. Write a review and walk it off. There is always two sides to a story anyways. If the one story doesnt add up ESA for sure will do someting about it.

Do better guys.

I think ive said enough.

No man. LMAO. No one was arguing that we should be immune to scammers, school fees are an inevitable part of the game. But accepting the risk doesn't mean knowingly walking into the mouth of a lion.

Being a smart punter means mitigating that, and other, risks. It's why you're here on ESA, with your punting phone, instead of risking it with a "R150 short time advertiser" who uses cropped pictures from Black Cocks and Backshots 17.

Remotely sending money to someone you haven't met, in the same universe where prisoners pretend to be cops so you can send them your money, is not being a smart punter

Thank u! Xxx

Pumpkineater bro, just stop. You are losing the plot brother. Try approaching Danika in a public setting to see if you are attractive/ good enough. Bro
,these girls are here to make money. You have become too heavily invested in the fantasies sold to you during bookings. Well, those are created to keep you coming back dear brother if you didn't know. No wonder these girls have the guts to even charge R2000 extra to kiss because of dudes like you who just don't get what's happening here. Like I said, try approaching this girl Danika you protecting to muv in a public setting and see if you get the same fake lovie eyes when you are sold that fantasy you constantly chasing even in your dreams.

@Danika, actually I don't have any issue with you. In actual fact you are my type. Nice and thick. The only problem with you is that you are Abit stuck and frigid. I need fluidity baby. I need deep throating - hard fast BARE BLOWING, kissing and insane riding from you. Also drop your rate to 1.5k girl, YOU KNOW BETTER!!!

Maybe Karlos was right about pumkineater

On 2026-08-09 06:13:57 Cameron Ford said:
Pumpkineater bro, just stop. You are losing the plot brother. Try approaching Danika in a public setting to see if you are attractive/ good enough. Bro
, these girls are here to make money. You have become too heavily invested in the fantasies sold to you during bookings. Well, those are created to keep you coming back dear brother if you didn't know. No wonder these girls have the guts to even charge R2000 extra to kiss because of dudes like you who just don't get what's happening here. Like I said, try approaching this girl Danika you protecting to muv in a public setting and see if you get the same fake lovie eyes when you are sold that fantasy you constantly chasing even in your dreams.

Why are u so on about danika. I dont know the girl ive never booked her ive never even met her. Wat i wrote was just a general about wats been happening on the forum. Thats all. I never mentioned services or rates the girls must offer or charge. But here u are talking about fantasies and all that. I think u have a personal issue with Danika. U so want her but u cant afford her. I dont know and i dont care. Oh i just read ur second post. U realy cant afford her asking her to drop her rates. Who is living the fantasy now.

If i have to sum up what i actualy wrote it comes down to guys let the girls run and manage their business the way they want to. And guys if a girl is not ticking of the boxes that u like then move on to the next girl easy as that.

And Prodigalpunter. Do i realy care wat karlos is saying about me. He has something to say about everyone, comments on every review. Does the guy even know me. No he doesnt. Do u even know me. No u dont. So believe watever the fuck you want good or bad bro. Like i said. Its like water off a ducks back.

On 2026-08-08 14:07:46 Pumpkineater said:
This post is inspired by a previous post about wat girls must do to prevent wasting a client time.

Girls post on ur whatsap business wat they ask for OR dont. It's ur business. Start asking for deposits to confirm a booking.

Make double bookings if a client cant pay deposit.

Girls stop replying to post about a guy is looking for this or that. Who is the advertiser, You or the punter? Do u know what body type he likes? No u dont. Thats why you have pics up and thats why the punter is the hunter. Let them hunt and choose. Let them put in the work.

Some of these points just don't make sense.

Now, first off, ladies are welcome to do 100% as they please, and punters are 100% free to respond the way they decide. That's a free market system perfectly in play. That goes for services, deposits, boundaries, or anything else the ladies want to do. I'm on board with it all.

Ladies have been burned by no-shows, and gents have been burned by lost deposits, so I understand both sides of the argument and the decision on both sides should they decide to charge, or should the punter decline to pay deposits.

Personally, I've never paid a deposit and never will. I don't give ladies shit that request deposits, I just move on to those that don't. No loss on either part.

But telling women to double book as a principle is the most retarded thing I've read in a while, and the quickest way to completely screw up a reputation. What's the average percentage of no-shows? 10%? 20% no matter how you swing that cat, more than half the time you'll have two gents showing up at the same time. What a complete fuck up that would be.

The second moment of stupidity is telling ladies not to reply to forum requests for specific services. Posting on the forum is part of putting in the work, and it's also part of the ladies gaining extra work. Ladies don't post all their services on their profiles nor their WhatsApp profiles, so in addition to making calls to those ladies that catch my eye, the forum helps find those service providers that provide specific services not mentioned.

Many times I've battled to find a specific service among those I've texted and called, and then there are providers that reply to my posts (or DM) that I wouldn't normally have considered because they aren't my first choice body type or age or look or whatever. But, I book because they replied, and almost every time it's been a great outcome. Win-win. Never mind the fact that the massage category is a shit show because of how many ladies advertise under that section but offer FH services not mentioned. Do you suggest I phone them all as well?

So, ladies, do whatever YOU want. It's YOUR business. And we'll individually respond accordingly. You'll find that either works for you or it doesn't, and you'll adjust, and the world will continue.