On 2026-03-19 15:52:11 Aldo Sims said:
On 2026-03-19 11:47:38 Sabrina said: There's a lot I can say here, but I won't.

Now I'm curious.

She wants to say men are dogs but more rudely, that's all.

JP69

On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said:
Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

Same reasons we come to ESA to fuck uglier women. Complacency, boredom, and variety - that's why. There's less thrill in eating the same meal the same way everyday. You already know how it tastes. You know what works as does she so there's less need for exploration, you'll just do all the right things to each other but it's mostly the same things over and over. Even eating lobster everyday gets tiresome and an occasion McDonald's burger or 2 minutes noodles is delicious because it's different.

For some, there may be differences in size like if you have a really tall chick, she's also heavier because of if so it makes it difficult to pick her her and fuck her in the air or do a standing 69 so booking and a short or average height chick makes things like that easier. Or maybe you have kids with her and you don't wanna cum on her face out of some sort of respect but you like that so you can do those things with a wg that you don't share the same sentiment towards.

JP69

On 2026-03-19 16:42:23 JackParrow69 said:
On 2026-03-19 15:52:11 Aldo Sims said: On 2026-03-19 11:47:38 Sabrina said: There's a lot I can say here, but I won't.

Now I'm curious.

She wants to say men are dogs but more rudely, that's all.

JP69

Don't presume to know what goes on in my brain, when you don't have one yourself.

On 2026-03-19 11:40:24 ThickShlong said:
Why is it most of us men crave other women even though our GF's/partners/wives want or have sex with us regularly?

Do they want to have sex with us regularly though?

And by sex, I mean proper sex, not just sticking the morning wood in and thrusting as fast as you can as she just lays there.

There's SPs here that will eat some man's ass for an extra R300 but don't do that for their actual boyfriends/husbands.

Why do you think that is?

On 2026-03-19 17:23:26 ProdigalPunter said:
... Do they want to have sex with us regularly though?

And by sex, I mean proper sex, not just sticking the morning wood in and thrusting as fast as you can as she just lays there.

There's SPs here that will eat some man's ass for an extra R300 but don't do that for their actual boyfriends/husbands.

Why do you think that is?

Wives do that with other men for free but won't do anything with their husband because he didn't help with the dishes once 7 years ago.

It's that "new toy" factor. I've been with chicks that were married for decades and didn't do things with their husbands that they did with me the first time they met me. That's the complacency aspect. Nothing to prove to someone you already bagged.

JP69

Men don't actually crave "other women" as much as they think they do. What they crave is the feeling that comes with something new --- the alertness, the curiosity, the sense of being switched on again. In a new interaction, a man is more present, more engaged, more alive. Over time, in a familiar relationship, things become efficient. You both know what works, what to say, how things go. It's comfortable, but that same comfort slowly reduces the tension that desire feeds on.

There's also the pull of the forbidden and the different. Something outside the relationship carries a sense of risk and novelty, which naturally amplifies excitement. It's not necessarily that the sex is better , it just feels more intense because it's not part of routine. At the same time, many men unconsciously split parts of themselves. In a long-term relationship, they become the stable, responsible version of themselves, while their more playful, dominant, or experimental side comes out elsewhere. Instead of integrating those sides into one relationship, they spread them across different experiences.

And sometimes, if we're being honest, it's simpler than that , the relationship has gone a bit flat. The connection, communication, or attraction isn't what it used to be, and the craving becomes a signal rather than a mystery.

The pattern most men don't notice is that chasing new women resets the feeling temporarily, but the cycle repeats. What feels like a need for variety is often a deeper need for aliveness, and unless that's understood, it doesn't matter how many new experiences there are , the same restlessness eventually returns.

On 2026-03-19 17:33:39 JackParrow69 said:
I've been with chicks that were married for decades and didn't do things with their husbands that they did with me the first time they met me.

If you say so, bahahahahahaha!!!

I'm craving Sabrina (ad active)

We are biologically programmed to seek out novel mating partners and spread our seed far and wide.