Thanks for bringing this up --- it's a heavy and emotional topic, and the rawness in your words reflects the intensity and urgency of the issue. You're absolutely right to be outraged. The abuse and dehumanization of sex workers is real, horrifying, and far too often ignored or excused by both individuals and systems that are supposed to protect all people equally.

Let's be clear: being a sex worker does not negate someone's humanity or their rights. No one, regardless of their job, should ever be subjected to violence, humiliation, or abuse --- especially not under the pretext that money somehow gives someone the right to dehumanize another.

And you're right: the fact that many sex workers fear going to the police because they won't be believed or protected is a damning reflection of societal failure. The legal and cultural systems that strip them of dignity and protection are complicit in this abuse.

Your final point is powerful --- flipping the perspective to force empathy. No one would want their loved ones treated like this. So why is it so hard for people to extend basic decency and humanity to sex workers?

Bottom line: if someone thinks paying for a service gives them license to harm, degrade, or torture, the problem isn't with the sex industry --- it's with them. And society needs to stop turning a blind eye.

Thanks for not sugarcoating the reality. It's a disturbing truth, and we need to face it if we're ever going to change it.

Mxm...

What's wrong with you human?

Don't you have a better way to lay your concern. Your words are chaotic they don't align.

No
You wake Up
Smell the coffee
Get real
Get some cancelling.

I don't know...
Gee...
Do something!

On 2025-10-07 18:06:27 Vegas said:
Lol and u being a punter do u have rights since u realised and think that prostitutes don't have rights. Or u the one who is a sicko dear Colonizer ......

Tell me you didn't read the entire post, without telling me you didn't read the entire post.

On 2025-10-08 11:11:22 Allora said:
Mxm...

What's wrong with you human?

Don't you have a better way to lay your concern. Your words are chaotic they don't align.

No
You wake Up
Smell the coffee
Get real
Get some cancelling.

I don't know...
Gee...
Do something!

I am sorry Allora.

I don't agree with you.

EXACTLY what is needed because we like to be all politically correct and talk in hushed tones lest our bullshit pretentious sensitivities get offended.



RB.

Due to a change in my life I have had to find employment after years of running my own business, which I was passionate about.

Here are some facts:
- Anybody working in a job they hate are selling themselves!! It is no different to what WG's do!!
- Running your business is hard and stressful and takes guts. Doing it is the purple world is harder. These WG's have an inner strength I wish for.

I have often said to the WG's that their fees should be claimable from Medical Aid, they provide a service that has been needed over the centuries. Why has society stigmatised it?

Those that know who I am know they are always treated with respect and dignity.

My 10 cents worth!!

This is disturbing, why would any one assume a lady in the industry don't have any rights?
Or that you can pay for such horrible things to slide silently?

What is described here , make me think of the underworld of human trafficking, dark web , sexual slavery and sniff feitshm.

Definitely not a consenting agreement between sane adults on a professional adult website.

I understand the concern about the treatment of sex workers, and I appreciate the effort to raise awareness about this issue. However, I'm worried that emphasizing the lack of rights might be discouraging. Instead, I'd like to emphasize the importance of promoting hope, empowerment, and awareness about human rights for all individuals, including sex workers. Let's work together to support organizations and initiatives that prioritize sex workers safety and well-being."

Allora

On 2025-10-08 09:59:46 Russian Bridgitte said:
You did get the gist though freckleLover?

What do you think of the post?

I read your contributions and it is obvious you love the ladies on the purple pages.

Do you believe the atrocities addressed in the OP's allegations?

RB.

I was feeling playful this morning hence the snarky response. Plus I was quite angry that OP made me work extra hard to understand his post.

But of course I agree with OP that we should be kinder to SPs in general because some of them are forced to accept extreme requests from clients to put food on the table.

But it's not just the borderline abuse that some go through. Just in general it's tough out there for the ladies. I have tons of anecdotal evidence from the last 2 weeks alone.

Sometimes I regret getting to know a few SPs on a personal basis because their lives are tough.

If I could run into a large sum of money, I'd book my ESA wives out so they could have the capital to do the things they want to do.

But God just doesn't want me and them to be happy so here we are.

Here are some institutions in South Africa that help with serious abuse against women, women in the sex industry, and human trafficking:

*Organizations Providing Support and Services*
- *People Opposing Women Abuse (POWA)*: Offers counseling services, legal and advocacy support, and policy reform initiatives.

- *Rape Crisis*: Provides free counseling to rape survivors, community workshops, advocacy, and mobilization workshops.

- *Masimanyane Women's Rights International*: Offers dedicated HIV/AIDS counseling, education on sexual and reproductive health and rights, and support services.

- *TEARS Foundation*: Provides individual, group, or couples counseling, support groups, emergency shelters, and assistance with GBV cases.

- *Rural Development Support Program (RDSP)*: Focuses on rural communities, providing GBV prevention programs, rural substance abuse programs, and leadership development initiatives. Contact: Available on their website

*Additional Resources*

- *National GBV Helpline*

- *Thuthuzela Care Centres*

*Services for Specific Needs*
- *Counseling and Therapy*: POWA, Rape Crisis, Masimanyane, TEARS Foundation
- *Emergency Shelters*: TEARS Foundation
- *Advocacy and Support*: POWA, Rape Crisis, Masimanyane, TEARS Foundation
- *GBV Prevention Programs*: RDSP
- *HIV/AIDS Counseling*: Masimanyane

These organizations provide critical support and services to women and girls affected by abuse, violence, and exploitation. If you or someone you know needs help, please reach out to these organizations or the helplines listed above.

This is quick search on Google for institutions that can help.

If you want to the list containing contact information, feel free to message me and I will send it.

Kylie

"Thank you so much, Kylie, for sharing this valuable list of institutions in South Africa that provide support and services to women, including those in the sex industry, who are affected by abuse and exploitation. Your message of hope and provision of resources is truly appreciated and will undoubtedly make a difference."