On 2022-08-20 10:00:54 BGStick said:
Here comes the inevitable bandwagon of ROAR defenders with their predictable arguments. To save some time I'm going to list them:


Just put 'ROAR' on your profile and hopefully less black guys will bother you then we can all move on with our lives.

It's not just the "black" guys. I dont take bookings from colored guys and then he said to me jou ma se p...s. He was so rude and then he wonders why i didn't want to see a certain race.

Sometimes it really isn't about color its more about cultural values and morals. To the "black" men i have no issue i think some of you treat women good but yor that sniffing things that some of people do...you know wot im talking about the thing or noises you do to clear the back or your throat by sniffing or wotever. That grosses me the fuck out and I can't deal. Again not all does this but sorry, i still love you all though.

Those pakis shame although they abit duh or slow but they respect ladies. From my experience atleast. Shame some of them will even offer to fix your phone and their shop. Or ask you...do you vant to be my vife

On 2022-08-20 10:39:37 Petite Maya said:
On 2022-08-20 10:00:54 BGStick said: Here comes the inevitable bandwagon of ROAR defenders with their predictable arguments. To save some time I'm going to list them:


Just put 'ROAR' on your profile and hopefully less black guys will bother you then we can all move on with our lives.


It's not just the "black" guys. I dont take bookings from colored guys and then said to me jou ma se p...s. He was so rude and then he wonders why i didn't want to see a certain race.

Sometimes it really isn't about color its more about cultural values and morals. To the "black" men i have no issue i think some of you treat women good but yor that sniffing things that some of people do...you know wot im talking about the thing or noises you do to clear the back or your throat by sniffing or wotever. That grosses me the fuck out and I can't deal. Again not all does this but sorry, i still love you all though.

Those pakis shame although they abit duh or slow but they respect ladies. From my experience atleast. Shame some of them will even offer to fix your phone and their shop. Or ask you...do you vant to be my vife

This is so cute actually! But I'm going to fully agree here it's not about colour at all

In fact my whole family represents a rainbow nation

-Thai
-Mauritian
-Afrikaans
-Dutch
-Indian
-Greek
-Cape Malay

Some black gents must just accept it and move along. No need to be nasty. I see they don't handle rejection well.

Firstly, humble apologies for the insults hurled at you.

I have been told "Sorry, not multiracial", so many times, but, I just move on along.

In fact a few WGs who back when I started punting in 2009, use to say this and over the years were fine with other races, purely because they realised that what they were brought up to think about us was NOT true for everyone, there is that small percentage who fuck it up for everyone.

I have said on the previous thread as well that I chat often with Erin, I have never booked her yet, but, she is really such a cool person, if we had met somewhere else we would be great friends.

Even if I never get a booking with her, I hope to be able to just chat to her and talk kuk for a few minutes just to forget the crap we face daily, just like this.

Chin up Erin and its times like this I think its good that you not working from your home or venue, because this is some scary shit!

On 2022-08-20 11:23:46 Johnnyonthespot said:
Some black gents must just accept it and move along. No need to be nasty. I see they don't handle rejection well.

This is a generalized statement.

They- means all black men. It's this guy that didn't handle it well, not all black men.

This topic is a bit boring now. Every single human being has the right to decide what they comfortable with, and this applies to absolutely everything.
This comment is so stupid because, are we deciding that all same race couples outside of ESA are racist? Or does this mean that girls don't have the freedom to decide because this is how they make a living?

There's more than enough to chose from, move on, I promise you will find what you looking for.

Allow me to shine a different light on this ROAR issue.

Yes it might be that there is a racial preference. So be it. Free country etc....

A case in point :
I made a booking with the beautiful Erin. I am not black. Being open about my many shortcomings I listed them prior to our appointment. Based on that, the appointment was cancelled by mutual decision.

I was not her cup of tea, although I am the milky tea variety.

So it is not always about race. There are many factors that are taken into account before one is allowed into a lady's private space.

Respect them for it.

It is, as always, their choice.

So grow up boys and take a leave from my white page : Move along.

Best advice. Bitching and moaning only makes you look, well, not so nice.

Cheers

He clearly was very disappointed.
Despite his rich international experience, he stil wanted to get some lekker local.

Sorry Bro. Disappointment is never fun. I've passed on a few interesting ladies because they are out of my price class and I know disappointment is yuk, but through your response you did yourself a disservice. Knowing you lost control adds insult to injury.
Hope you feel better soon. When you do, consider sending her an apology. Trust me. You will feel better.

On 2022-08-20 11:23:46 Johnnyonthespot said:
Some black gents must just accept it and move along. No need to be nasty. I see they don't handle rejection well.

they wtf ???

He was clearly disapointed and I have fell for him (who likes to be rejected, for whatever reason?!), you had all the right to do so, Erin!
You are not selling some commodity here, but yourself, which is very personal. So clearly you have any right to set your own bounderies and actually, you should be able to reject clients without even giving a reason. A simple no should be accepted.
As bad as his reaction was, take a deep breath and carry. These kind of things always happened in the past and they will always come up again....