On 2022-07-29 19:00:14 StaalBurger48 said:
So, on a silly whim, reached out to a WG on WhatsApp with a single sentence, complimenting the gal on her latest photo photoshoot, apparently and unwittingly committing the biggest faux pas in the history of unsolicited compliments by the mere act of daring to speak to this person.

So my question is this, do manners and mannerisms play a role when choosing where to spend your money and time, or do you merely go with looks and whatever else blows your hair back?

The WGs that know me knows that I like to chat and connect while visiting, but I presume that's not for everybody? Are most appointments then of the wham bam thank you mam variety, and is this what WGs prefer as well?

Yup I know you well,wink wink....

Always trust your guy, no matter what the pics look like, even if she has great reviews. If she is rude to you for no reason, why would you want to book her? Guaranteed the service would be at best, unenthusiastic. You are a paying client and as long as you are polite and respectful you are not giving somebody a reason to lash out.

If there is something rude or concerning about a messge, I block. No time or data to waste being rude. Like Bridgette IThe first reply is generic and automated and outlies the basics Next will probably be a message asking for rates and service,thats also a generic answer. Thereafter will probably be a questions I did not adress in previous 2 messagaes. If the convo following thise is not okay with me I will say so. If the person's way of chatting doesn't sit well with me or borders on disrespect, I don't even answer and I may block. I don't entertain anybody I don't feel comfortable with BUT I try not to be rude either (It's not as easy as it sounds)
I was very rude on whatsapp at one stage, I won't lie. But you grow up and learn. I will not allow myself to get worked up cos I deem the convo inappropriate. Funny, when I tell some guys how they come across, many times guys have apologized cos they didn't know they come across as a creep and the same goes for me. I didn't always realize I came across as really rude at times. Now when posts like this came up, I started to take note of what guys were saying here and changed my approach I was always very defensive when similar posts came up. Probably cos I was guilty of being rude, offhand, etc, etc. It took a while for me to learn that if I am polite and let a guy go on with the convo, I can better assess who he is, what he wants and if I am the lady for what he wants.
Yes, I would even venture to say more than half the Whatsapp enquiries are wasting my time, but by the same token, the other half could become a booking.
I have gotten over myself and mellowed considerably. I do not claim to never ever be rude though. Sometimes I blow my top with some guys but I rarely do these days.

I absolutely love Nadia and the honesty.. geez we where all new and clueless at some point and did not know things, we learned as we grew and so will others.

That said... Some people are just born rude and left that way... They won't learn and won't grow and won't change, but even for them their is a market. Not all guys appreciate manners, some guys just love rude and bitchy girls.

Point here is.. if a lady do not respond to your compliments or enquiries in a manner that sit well with you, then just move on there are plenty that would appreciate your effort to compliment and plenty that would respond to enquiries with a smile.

I've literally just started a WhatsApp conversation with 2 ladies I really fancy.

My approach is courteous, friendly and genuinely complimentary. Let's hope it goes well.

I'm definitely not a data waster, nor am I looking for cheap/free chat thrills, but good initial communication, may just secure one or both of them a new regular customer.

But as can be seen by all the comments here...it remains a fine line.

Did he get a rude response though? Or is he being super over sensitive??

"Do you have an actual enquiry?"

Is that considered rude or rude af as he claims??

Sorry; a Timewaster is a Timewaster and I don't offer chat line services.

He can book and his "compliments" can be made in person and will be received appropriately.

On 2022-07-31 09:53:42 Victoria The Original said:
Did he get a rude response though? Or is he being super over sensitive??

"Do you have an actual enquiry?"

Is that considered rude or rude af as he claims??

Sorry; a Timewaster is a Timewaster and I don't offer chat line services.

He can book and his "compliments" can be made in person and will be received appropriately.

StaalBurger48 is no time waster. He is a true gentleman. Kind and a gentle soul. He is a regular of mine and definitely a regular of other ladies
I love our sessions, he always makes a lady feel special and appreciated and when he gives a
compliment, it comes from a good place.
So please @Victoria, if your comment is directed at him,then I'm asking you to apologize before jumping the gun

Your comment is uncalled for

Nope. Not going to apologise as he definatly made no attempt at enquiring about my services and only wanted to chit chat the way time wasters do.

On 2022-07-31 10:14:12 Victoria The Original said:
Nope. Not going to apologise as he definatly made no attempt at enquiring about my services and only wanted to chit chat the way time wasters do.

I'm starting to think that people like Kooni are spot on regarding your attitude..
This is the last that I'll respond to your comments. Not wasting anymore valuable energy
Have a good day..
Blessings and light..

On 2022-07-31 10:09:23 Kaycee (the Original Milf) said:
On 2022-07-31 09:53:42 Victoria The Original said: Did he get a rude response though? Or is he being super over sensitive??

"Do you have an actual enquiry?"

Is that considered rude or rude af as he claims??

Sorry; a Timewaster is a Timewaster and I don't offer chat line services.

He can book and his "compliments" can be made in person and will be received appropriately.



StaalBurger48 is no time waster. He is a true gentleman. Kind and a gentle soul. He is a regular of mine and definitely a regular of other ladies
I love our sessions, he always makes a lady feel special and appreciated and when he gives a
compliment, it comes from a good place.
So please @Victoria, if your comment is directed at him,then I'm asking you to apologize before jumping the gun

Your comment is uncalled for

.

As most of Victoria's comments are here.

I find it interesting and laughable that she will always jump on any thread to let anybody that cares to read her drivel know that she is rude by nature and doing punters a favour by letting them into her space.

I specifically did not mention Victoria by name as I did not want to hurt her business ( she's doing that all on her own with a crappy attitude trust me) but as she jumped on her sad and surprisingly short horse I guess its OK now to do so.
So as a punter, who would I rather visit? A friendly girl with a smile in her voice or someone that obviously do no have any respect for prospective customers? I can happily say the answer, in my case, is an easy one.

( o and as a PS, Victoria, your detractors on this forum are obviously 100% spot on about your attitude and your service)