On 2022-05-01 00:20:19 Nadia.m said:

Please pm me more info [/QUOTE]

You've got mail xx

So Oraljim is the spokesperson for trans people everyone.

Today I learned that trans women cant EVER be interested in women lol.

On 2022-04-30 18:55:00 oraljim said:
So, here's a little bit of context so that maybe you can channel a little bit of your ire in the healthier direction of a little bit of empathy.

I don't know your gender but try and put yourself in the mind of your fairly-typical-mildly-homophobic-but-trying-not-to-be middle class Afrikaans guy. Got the picture? Ok now ... imagine you are that guy and a stranger calls you up and says "do you fuck guys". That man is likely to get angry, call you names, and hang up on you too. Because in his world view, the question itself is offensive and affront to his masculinity.

Now lets move to the shemale (especially if she's Thai). You calling her up and asking if she does females is the exact same question. These ladies do NOT consider themselves men, are exclusively interested in men sexually, and the question itself calls their own perceived femininity into question and is offensive to her.

If you had ever spent more than 5 minutes actually talking to a trans person you would know what a big deal this is to them.

So no, your "wtf" above is self-indulgent, a little bit transphobic, and a lot-of-bit ignorant. Just so you can see the other side of the coin.

Rubbish statement.
If your on ESA your offering a service Right!!
We all get asked questions, like do you do men. Men and women . Women? And so on. We dont throw the phone down that's just bad manners and incredible immature and not the intelligent root to take.

We cant help that they are having issues and it's not our problem . If they cant take the heat then they shouldn't offer a service.
You dont put the phone down on a customer. You answer and its eithervyes I do. No I don't... how difficult is that.

On 2022-05-01 01:02:11 LayerOfPipe said:
So Oraljim is the spokesperson for trans people everyone.

Today I learned that trans women cant EVER be interested in women lol.

And that's ok.
But being rude is not ok.
Just because you have insecurities. Get therapy on how to answer a phone without getting rude.

People deal with a lot of things. We all handle situations differently. I'm sure she's mostly annoyed that people on this platform call her to ask her if she does woman. However she should probably state on her profile that she's only interested male clients .

Otherwise I also get some annoying clients and a person can only take so much. I don't blame her yet I also wasn't there when the call happened. We didn't witness it .

On 2022-04-30 18:55:00 oraljim said:
So, here's a little bit of context so that maybe you can channel a little bit of your ire in the healthier direction of a little bit of empathy.

I don't know your gender but try and put yourself in the mind of your fairly-typical-mildly-homophobic-but-trying-not-to-be middle class Afrikaans guy. Got the picture? Ok now ... imagine you are that guy and a stranger calls you up and says "do you fuck guys". That man is likely to get angry, call you names, and hang up on you too. Because in his world view, the question itself is offensive and affront to his masculinity.

Now lets move to the shemale (especially if she's Thai). You calling her up and asking if she does females is the exact same question. These ladies do NOT consider themselves men, are exclusively interested in men sexually, and the question itself calls their own perceived femininity into question and is offensive to her.

If you had ever spent more than 5 minutes actually talking to a trans person you would know what a big deal this is to them.

So no, your "wtf" above is self-indulgent, a little bit transphobic, and a lot-of-bit ignorant. Just so you can see the other side of the coin.

Whats was that about PSA hey, more like a fn sermon

Will keep trying hopefully i find someone .

On 2022-04-30 18:06:35 Nadia.m said:
Contacted a shemale on esa with good reviews .called and asked if she sees female clients .put the phone down on me .furthemore sent me a whatsapp then blocked me .like wtf

Having preferences : OK

Being rude for no reason : NOT OK


You did nothing wrong! (and dodged a crappy-date bullet methinks)

I do believe @oraljim was just trying to show the community support.

But I do want to say that trans people can be attracted to any gender regardless of gender identity.

I identify as a male, but my sexuality is separate.

My sexual preference is energy and respect. But in layman's terms I am bisexual.

Chemistry is chemistry.

I used to deny my body pleasure because I thought people would see me as less than.

Everyone is on their own journey and we can not speak on behalf of others. We have no clue what someone else is going through or why.

But nonetheless thanks @oraljim for being an ally

I would like to encourage everyone to be more thoughtful with our words and our delivery. Not just in trans related matters.

I identify as Transam.

As in : I am so into Trans nowadays,of all colours.

K.I.T.T. gonna have a fit hearing this,'cause,you know,he be black in colour.

Ja,I know already only I think I'm funny & to others I'm just obnoxious.

It's OK,there's meds for everything these days.

Have a great week,you'll!

Ramzaan Mubarak(that's the way my Muslim friends call it),to all those celebrating.