On 2025-09-29 09:30:31 JackParrow69 said:
On 2025-09-29 08:51:09 KICKASS said: Dont pay a deposit period i am not paying no deposit to nobody you dont like it your problem. Punters problem

The ladies receives bookings the guys does not pay the deposit she looses on the day

Service providers problem


There must be away we can sort this out. To find an amicable solution.



Easy solution.

The ladies that need a deposit should only see a client after he pays the deposit. The punters that don't pay deposits should visit girls that don't require a deposit.

JP69

Lmao love the response

Just. Don't. Do. It. They can't handle the responsibility. Their business model works very much on impulse, and they WILL NOT leave money on the table. If you pay a deposit, and the next guy phones and asks for an immediate booking, she will take it.

And forget about it if the day passes, that money is gone. What you've paid yesterday no longer exists.

Obviously there are exceptions, but you will find the exceptions are the more successful woman who treat their business with respect.

But I've made this mistake too many times to lecture anybody. Point in fact, I am still waiting for a girl here Cape Town to send me some pics I already paid for. Also a highly rated girl. My patience is almost finished. Seems I got blocked after paying the money.

Lmao I borrowed some chick money promised to pay me back I cant find her. waiting for her add to come up then il post her name hopefully , she sees this and contacts me for my money and no thank you I dont want a bj or a session I want my money lady.

Big red flag....

Punters: Don't ever pay a deposit...
SP: I do charge a deposit because...

Conclusion: To be on the safe side. Punters, cash on delivery only, no exceptions.

On 2025-09-29 10:38:02 eziguy said:
Punters: Don't ever pay a deposit...
SP: I do charge a deposit because...

Conclusion: To be on the safe side. Punters, cash on delivery only, no exceptions.

I get where u coming from

But.

THANK YOU Gentlemen who understand how I work.

I wish punters were as trustworthy as other punters think their fellow punters are.

Ladies...you do you.

And

Be honorable.


RB.

This does suck! But there are some really good ladies out there who ask for a deposit and doesn't scam you! This is like a two edged sword situation!

Also women that ask you to pay before the session starts. Russian roulette, might be great, might be pants..you spin the chamber and pull your pants

Many times I've wanted to cut an hour session and just leave after half an hour but I've already paid for an hour. I'm sure plenty guys have also just left after 20 minutes after paying upfront for an hour and finding out the women is not interested

In my experience, I booked an outcall, she asked me to send her Uber money. After I sent her the money, she Blocks me. Yes, I was blocked after sending R150, I couldn't believe it. Another punter accused her of theft at a hotel that he booked for them. Needless to say she didn't last long on ESA.

The only deposit I will ever make is into an interest bearing account in my name. All other deposits simply do not have my interests at heart.