On 2026-08-14 13:19:44 Kooni said:
Listen to yourself, let your paranoia guide you.

This is a very expensive, and addictive hobby.

Stay away for as long as possible

Good man, listen to him,stay away and learn to talk to women.

Most of the advice sounds like doom and gloom and reads like you are incapable of making a decision by yourself. Anyways my 2c is just start at a massage venue(s) for around 3-6 months, try going for ladies that explicitly do not offer extra's too. The most important thing other than receiving the massage is learning to talk to the women during your engagements. You will quickly learn that WG's are not disease carrying, sex crazed prostitutes plotting to infect you but real people with genuine human emotions just trying to make ends meet like the rest of us. If you do migrate to full house, of course practice precaution as stated. Just do everything in moderation and this will be fulfilling and avoid any bad apples, especially the one's that offer you drugs. Mixing the two is how most guys just self-destruct from this

Been visiting ladies since 1992. Experienced the same paranoia initially, but never had a problem. A lot of the biases are unfounded. I 69ed, bj'd without a condom, licked cookie, smooched, been rimmed etc. etc. To this day never had a problem. Did a recent insurance medical check. No problems thus far. As for being expensive. Not really. Try dating. The lessons I learned were valuable beyond expectation. The ladies here are very discrete and health conscious. Never looked back and have made some wonderful friends and stayed in contact with ladies who left years ago. You will be surprised how you can bond with a lady during considerate, respectful sex. No regrets what so ever. 99% were great. The last 1% are great when you go back for a second round. No jokes. Delved into the tgirl/ladyboy world. Amazing. Only regrets, not starting a lot sooner. They are amazing. The trip down the rabbit hole has been very rewarding for me. Wish I could go back and do things better with the ladies I fumbled with as an inexperienced young man, especially the lovely mature German lady, who was so patient with me.

After this "for a while now", I'm sure you've noticed a lady whom you'd like to meet in person by now. If her reviews are good, go for it and keep it safe.

Lol you are more likely to pick up.something from a dating site. No names mentioned of course

Hi mate. I personally never had health issues.

Whether to do it or not it's entirely up to you because it has its pros and cons, just like dating or being married has its pros and cons.

The only effect it's has had on me is I don't have the patience and effort I used to have when courting up a lady.If she turns down my advances once or twice I walk away.Whereas before I would try multiple times and try to impress her in different ways including using money. Since I became a punter my patience has wean off. No woman can manipulate me or weaponise sex against me since I'm spoiled for choice. I think it's a matter of finding what gives you joy and peace and strike a balance.

But what I know for sure is that the mere fact that you are on this site, it's a matter of time before you become one of us;that's if you are not one already.

1) book a normal full body massage till you are comfortable having a strange woman touch your naked body.

2) Once comfortable book a body to body sensual massage to get confidence having a fully naked woman working on you and allowing you to touch her too

3) book a sensual with a handjob happy ending. Helps you manage post-nut guilt (fear of STIs, wasted money)

4) stay here for a bit till it's natural to cum with a stranger

5) then go full house with your regular sensual SP. It will not feel complex - will be someone who jerks you to a nut already

On 2026-08-18 15:11:02 DaveJones said:
1) book a normal full body massage till you are comfortable having a strange woman touch your naked body.

2) Once comfortable book a body to body sensual massage to get confidence having a fully naked woman working on you and allowing you to touch her too

3) book a sensual with a handjob happy ending. Helps you manage post-nut guilt (fear of STIs, wasted money)

4) stay here for a bit till it's natural to cum with a stranger

5) then go full house with your regular sensual SP. It will not feel complex - will be someone who jerks you to a nut already

Oops, I skipped a few of your steps and now I'm hooked for life...

This technique will help keep you safe.

When you arrive at the SPs place. Ask for raw sex, given that your noob, that is sex with out a condom.

If she says, ok, but its extra, make a run for it.
If she gets angry and kicks you out, well that's that, either way you safe.

On 2026-08-19 08:06:57 J_J said:
This technique will help keep you safe.

When you arrive at the SPs place. Ask for raw sex, given that your noob, that is sex with out a condom.

If she says, ok, but its extra, make a run for it.
If she gets angry and kicks you out, well that's that, either way you safe.

What? Are you trying to set a fellow punter up for failure? Please tell me this isn't what you're doing whenever you don't see Lisa