Femdoms are not very appealing to the eye..Take a look at this pornhub vid where a lady puts it in then gets fucked...
www.pornhub.com/view_video.php
Im a visual guy...i like to see me thrusting in and out of a pussy...Seeing ur dick go in and out during missionary or up and down during cowgirl/reverse just makes me harder. Also having a nice peach to look at when you doing doggy..before you penetrate and when u pull out...really turns me on.
Imagine seeing something sticking out ...it would seem weird to me... condoms aint great but you get some decent extra large ones (order online from: desir dotcodotza think they based in cape town and they have online sales) which are very thin and strong...and if they lady is naturally lubed up and nice and tite its almost as good as bareback.
also while pulling out or changing postion i sometimes like to give the lady a nice muffing...just spices up the experience...
But Il be honest..I havent tried it...So for me its probably a no...i wouldnt mind trying it once but i know i probably wont like it.