On 2022-08-10 14:51:36 Njammies1 said:
About the multiple profiles. There was, or maybe still advertising lady with at least two profiles. I visit her and ask if she is also the same person as the other profile, by which she declined, but everything shows it is the same person.

Also one day I struggle to decide between two ladies, same area, when I arrived someone open for me, and call the lady whom I visited, but on the name that was on the other profile. Good to know both profiles was the same person, because it was one of the ladies with bad service

When I call a profile that I suspect belongs to someone I've seen before, I always ask if it's the same person. In some few cases they deny it until I mention that I've already been with the other person and if I get there and it's the same person, I'll turn back without a cancellation fee. Then suddenly the story changes.

On 2022-08-10 15:15:13 Gretchen said:
There's another girl in Pretoria, did the same. Shame,I feel for her, she's got two daughters to look after but I believe she improved some. But boy, did she give the punters a go. Not afraid to speak her mind....

I wonder if it's the same lady I'm thinking of. There was one who, despite a plethora of bad reviews, had punters going for her one after the other. I didn't understand it.

She seems better now.

Spotted one that sneaked back in and dropped ESA a note as normally one could see related profiles....

She claimed that she was setting things right with punters and then when called out took her old profile off. Did send ESA admin a note....

On 2022-08-10 12:52:28 richard7 said:
I may be seen as an asshole for this one but I find it funny when a WG with reviews horrid enough to leave ESA tries to sneak back in.

I don't think they "sneak" back in at all. If you own a business and you screw up or get a bad reputation, don't you rebrand and try a different approach? Maybe it takes a few times but I don't begrudge people who need this work to put food in their mouths trying to squeeze out as much as they can.

It is ridiculous how commercial infidelity is somehow supposed to extract the maximum virtue from its participants. The ladies are whores. We are Johns who hire whores. We are all equally good and bad as each other. None of us is lily white so I try to keep that in mind when judging people.

On 2022-08-26 11:10:49 oraljim said:
On 2022-08-10 12:52:28 richard7 said: I may be seen as an asshole for this one but I find it funny when a WG with reviews horrid enough to leave ESA tries to sneak back in.
I don't think they "sneak" back in at all. If you own a business and you screw up or get a bad reputation, don't you rebrand and try a different approach? Maybe it takes a few times but I don't begrudge people who need this work to put food in their mouths trying to squeeze out as much as they can.

It is ridiculous how commercial infidelity is somehow supposed to extract the maximum virtue from its participants. The ladies are whores. We are Johns who hire whores. We are all equally good and bad as each other. None of us is lily white so I try to keep that in mind when judging people.

There was no judgement inferred but you make a solid case.

The thing about it is that within the boundaries of 'Johns' and 'whores' as you so eloquently put it, there are still matters/actions that are looked down on.

For an extreme example, don't kill each other. John's and whores that we are can still look down on this particular action.