On 2025-11-12 18:24:20 Vrik said:
A great massage (professional level), the way she touches you, and kissing. When this happens, i have ALWAYS become a repeat customer. ALWAYS!

Add some proper body slides, and you got me hooked.

Small things that make SP's Lose clients:

1. Pre-selling content before meeting:
Asking clients to buy photos/videos before a booking can feel transactional or like a scam to some, especially if they've never met you.

2. Upselling mid-session:
Changing prices or adding unexpected "extras" during the appointment creates mistrust and discomfort.

3. Requesting financial help or donations:
Asking for assistance ("help me pay rent," "cash send me before we meet," etc.) feels unprofessional and can turn clients often immediately.

4. Poor Communication:
-Taking too long to reply, short and vague answers to detailed questions asked.
-Using lots of slang or being overly casual in first messages.
-Being inconsistent (sweet one day and cold the next).

5. Cancelling or rescheduling last minute:
Even if unavoidable, doing this repeatedly, makes clients feel uncalled or like you're unreliable.

6. Not honouring time and boundaries:
Ending sessions early, checking your phone, or showing disinterest breaks immersion and trust.

7. Over-filtered or inaccurate photos:
When clients feel "catfished", they rarely return - authenticity matters.

8.Bad hygiene or environment:
Not showering and cleaning up between appointments. Smell of previous punter on SP. Sweaty smell etc. A messy room, dirty bed. Poor grooming kills the experience instantly.

9. Talking too much about other clients or personal problems:
It removes the fantasy and professionalism of the moment.

10. Being too pushy for tips:
Pressurising clients for extra money can leave a source taste.

Small things that help SP's Gain clients:

1. Clear, respectful communication:
Fast, polite replies with details on services, boundaries, and rates make clients feel safe and valued.

2. Consistency and reliability:
Showing up on time, keeping your word, maintaining a stable schedule builds loyalty.

3. Authencity:
Natural photos and a genuine personality makes clients feel a real connection.

4. Discretion and professionalism:
Keeping interactions private, not gossiping, and handling details smoothly earns repeat clients.

5. Creating comfort and relaxation:
Clean environment, nice scent, calm attitude - these small things leave a big impression.

6. Subtle personalisation:
Remembering a client's preferences or favourite topics/pleasures can make them feel special.

7. Positive attitude:
A warm smile, enthusiasm, and appreciation makes clients more likely to return.

8. Offering fair value:
Being transparent about pricing, time, and services avoids misunderstandings.

9. Small gestures:
Remembering their name adds charm, their favourite pleasures, a light touch of humour, complimentary drink etc.

10. Professional boundaries:
Clients respect SP's who maintain standards and treat it as a business, not an emotional entanglement.

@Raawi
Well said! Xxxx

Lose:

- Asking for tips before the session is an immediate turn off. Actually asking for tips in general. Makes me feel like I haven't paid you enough despite you setting your rates.

- Asking to go out for dinner/drinks during an overnight booking. I'm not paying to be your boyfriend for the night.

I had the above two from one SP and my dumb ass still went through with the booking.

Gain:

- Great communication skills. I've almost always booked an SP that sent me a menu of their offerings instead of the vague "R1800 for 1 hour".

- Intoxicating scent. The only thing better than burying your head in titties is burying your head in titties that smell great.

1. Not being able to give a clear address and/or directions to venue/apartment. Especially post entering the premises. How do I know how to get to your room/apartment??
2. Making clients wait at the gate even after calling ahead and communicating that you are nearby. Especially at night.
3. Not looking or dressing sexy for clients
4. Not making sure the client entry and exit is discreet. Bumping into other people/punters on my way in or out.
5. Being standoffish or disinterested
6. Answering phone calls during sessions. Especially from the next punter.

In agreement Raawi

Full house .... Kissing extra BJ extra. I refuse to book when everything is extra

It all starts with communication. If first contact is good and welcoming, whether a call or WhatsApp, then they've likely gained a client. T

Great insights! Thank you xxx