I'm fairly new in the game and I still get nervous booking ladies. I'm a bit comfortable now that I know I'm not the only one.

On 2022-11-13 16:56:20 Ms Ella said:


I personally look through my window to see who is coming in, what they have on them and if I recognise the face from shared pictures.

What shared pictures?
So pictures are being taken of us punters and shared with other girls etc?

@Knightrider, sometimes troublemakers get well known among the girls, and their picture is shared so we are cautious. I will give an example of a guy,Jonathan, who was known for terrorizing ladies. Describing him wasnt enough, so some ladies found his picture, I and shared it. Recently there is another guy in the Centurion area who is also trouble.

I have honestly not heard a case of girls just taking pictures of punters and sharing just for the hell of it. No. It is only the really really bad guys.

On 2022-11-18 13:25:25 Knightrider78 said:
On 2022-11-13 16:56:20
What shared pictures?
So pictures are being taken of us punters and shared with other girls etc?

Yes, must be quite nerve wracking for the ladies...i usually have long chats with them (maybe about 3 or 4). message or calls, just to put the lady at ease and try to book a few days before (mostly).

from the chats we usually get a feel for each other (likes , dislikes etc)...so when we meet, its like pen-pals meeting up for a fuck.

I also mentioned I am slightly overweight, dark char-ou,mid-fifties with a well below average size penis...so no surprises....and they can prepare or decline...have had 2 cancellations (but not timeous ones). i think the ladies had a think about it and inconveniently only cancel when I am about 5 minutes away.

Totally agree with you Mr naai-er
Doing the same thing. Can only imagine what these WG must go through on daily basis and there are alot of weirdos out there.
Once I have established a comfortable vibe then the room for disappointment is very narrow.
This also makes for a great experience for both parties

On 2022-11-18 14:54:11 Stefoo7 said:
Totally agree with you Mr naai-er
Doing the same thing. Can only imagine what these WG must go through on daily basis and there are alot of weirdos out there.
Once I have established a comfortable vibe then the room for disappointment is very narrow.
This also makes for a great experience for both parties

Agree that is a good thing to do, but now you get the fks that get off on chit chat and never intends to book. Damn! Then next time she is cautious to chat thinking it's another idiot.
Thats why I would like ladies to be able to rate us too. So that they can know who the folks are that get to know them and who the guys are that waste their time

Girls I think do talk in there forum.

We certainly get nervous,I do atleast but that soon desipates once there is a bit of banter or laughter exchanged,I like your stance for us ladies cunilinkiss,there are a lot of them weirdos who do that, wanting to get off on ur voice or worse,ask you to travel to them and ghost you 5 min away from his destination, calling him won't help,as Siri will be his assistant until it dawn's on you that you have been messed with.its nasty and unnecessary.

On 2022-11-13 16:56:20 Ms Ella said:
It is very scary. I am usually scared, nervous and excited at the same time. the voice and manner of speaking over the phone tells a lot about the person on the other end of the line. The kind of questions that the punter asks also do a lot of telling. This is when trusting your gut really helps. Any form of unease, or dislike over the phone and I wont take the booking.

I personally look through my window to see who is coming in, what they have on them and if I recognise the face from shared pictures. As soon as a person comes in through the door, the first few minutes are about trying to figure out a person. This has worked so far. And yes, there is alays exit plans and emergency plans in place.

Shared pictures?

On 2022-11-18 15:03:57 Cunilinkiss said:
On 2022-11-18 14:54:11 Stefoo7 said: Totally agree with you Mr naai-er
Doing the same thing. Can only imagine what these WG must go through on daily basis and there are alot of weirdos out there.
Once I have established a comfortable vibe then the room for disappointment is very narrow.
This also makes for a great experience for both parties

Agree that is a good thing to do, but now you get the fks that get off on chit chat and never intends to book. Damn! Then next time she is cautious to chat thinking it's another idiot.
Thats why I would like ladies to be able to rate us too. So that they can know who the folks are that get to know them and who the guys are that waste their time

You know that game you played with the neighbor's daughter in primary school. "I'll show you mine if you show me yours", well that will now translate into "a 5 for a 5" if both parties are to do a rating.